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Hidden miracles.

Life might shake us, but there is always a reason. Sometimes life tries to tell you something important, but your mind is too busy. Silence your anxious mind and listen. Learn. Grow.

I remember when my father had just died. The confusion, the anger, the fear and intimidation of facing the world without my father. I was alone with my little brothers and my mother. Barely making enough money to survive. Living in Texas, and in a place very different from where I’d been born and had spent my childhood years. But, after years and years of self-hatred and self-pity, I started to see a light in me. I was so exhausted of failing and torturing myself that I was pushed to observe my own suffering. I had never wanted this life, but I had to deal with it anyway.

Nothing that I did worked and, even worse, I didn’t understand why. I was going to church back then. I was praying. I was taking care of my family. I was a good and decent human being. I was lost. But this light I saw in me was growing. And, not too soon, I learned that quite often our minds are so overwhelmed with our own problems that we miss life. The wholeness of life. And the wholeness of life is where the miracles hide. The miracles are not in religion, or in family, or in the nation, or in the money we make; but they are in the observation.

The observation is the attention we put into life’s moments. But this observing action must be done firstly by silencing the mind. You know, by not being so attached to thoughts of misery and anger, and envy and frustration. Plainly put, by not overthinking and filling the mind with anxiety. Our minds dictate how we feel about life. Life then is filtered through our minds. Life will be whatever the content of your mind is. So, let go of the stress, and of the frustration, and of wanting to control and possess. Flow with life. Do your best, and then let it go. Let it be. Listen to life, but for that keep a mind that is silent and not arrogant. Arrogance and thinking that you must always win and have your way. This is what brings suffering, and failure, and tears into your experience.

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The Great Purpose.

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And we all suffer one way or the other.  Challenges.  Times bring change.  Painful memories.  Fear of not being accepted.  Fear of progress.  The hurdles are many.  We go through life and we learn.  Or we go through life and we remain suffering.  See, and some people never adapt, never accept challenges; but they fear the storm, and they only wait for it to pass instead of befriending their own troubles and growing as human beings.

The whole purpose of life, of these challenges, of loss, of neglect and all suffering, is to grow in understanding.  Understanding more and more is learning to live better.  Understanding more and more gives you the capacity to truly love yourself, your life, and another.  How do you see your life…??  Are you learning from it??  Or are you escaping it and fearing challenges??  Ask yourself this and ponder the answers in order to begin understanding.


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This makes a relationship work.

 

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  • We come together in the search of each other.  We are all connected, and yet most of us feel lonely, separated from the whole, by ourselves.  A relationship, intimate, authentic, is about that wholeness.  Coming together to support and love one another.  In this, there is great freedom.
  • What makes a relationship work is this freedom.  Because people are different, and each one of us must be able to be ourselves freely.  We learn from each other.  We communicate with each other without fear of being judged for being ourselves.  This makes a relationship work.

 


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Evolving.

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All throughout life, you are evolving.  Growing.  Learning.  Challenging yourself.  If you are not exploring and going beyond your beliefs, your opinions, your set ways to behave, then you are not really growing as a person. 

And this is when life becomes heavy on you, and you feel lonely and empty.  So, explore.  Be brave.  Challenge yourself.  Love, even if you are not loved back.   Try new things.  Focus on learning more.  Expand your talents.  This is what you are here to do. 

And do it without fear of failure or any other obstacle.  Sometimes we do this unconsciously, but to better ourselves we must seek inspiration even in the not so good 


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Be intelligent!

 

 

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If you are seeking business advise, look at the ones that live and breathe that lifestyle.  If you seek to become a better person, then gravitate towards the wisdom in people, the good behaviors and positive attitudes. 

Learn to observe others.  Learn from their experiences.  Learn from their behaviors.  Do not spend your time with people who do not inspire you, teach you, or motivate you.  Be proactive.  Be intelligent!


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When The Master Speaks.

 

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When you go through difficulties in your life, or things you do not like, or the actions of others have upset you, or you are paying the consequences of your own actions, it means that the essence of life, of your true self, is trying to make you aware of something–a lesson, another point of view, a realization of self-love, a sign of something.

Nothing which you live, even though it might seem otherwise to your ego, is irrelevant or worthless in terms of your psychological expansion and emotional learning capacity.  Now, you can accept this truth and become wiser in your own life, or you can deny this truth and live your life with anger and frustration.

The choice is always yours, but nothing ever goes away; so, either you see that and welcome it, or you remain thinking that life is unfair to you and random.  Deep understanding of your life as it is, or chosen suffering in sleep.

It is teaching your conscious or your subconscious something, for you to realize now or later.  When my father died and I had to help take care of my family in a country like this one, U.S., foreign to me, I suffered much, days and nights of neglect, crying and blaming life, because I felt alone and trapped.

But as years went by, and my mind expanded, matured, I learned the lesson, that my father had to die and I had to struggle for years to awaken from my own self-pity.  Point is, whatever happens to you, whatever chaos and evil you consider currently, nothing is permanent, it will change; and so, it will be your choice if to see the lesson or not.

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Learning from imperfections.

 

Survival is competition, isn’t it…??  I mean, survival means struggle, it means I will beat you and be better than you, it means I will come up ahead in an argument or in this or that.

And that is why surviving never brings happiness or love to anyone and, of course, not to any relationship. 

When people desire to live together, get along with each other, enjoy life and enjoy themselves together, survival instinct has to be replaced by a mentality of pure love to understand and accept each other.

It is a given that no person is the same as the other, people are different, minds and feelings are diverse.  It doesn’t matter how similar their minds and lifestyles are, they indeed have differences in some aspect of life and living.

So, your mind has to be prepared to accept and love, to understand the meaning of your relationship with another, whether a family member or a romantic partner, whether a friend or a neighbor who just moved. 

This is the pathway towards learning in life.

 

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And to learn from one another you must appreciate one another, such being appreciating the differences of one another.  This does not mean absolutely loving every aspect of the other person, but it does mean accepting and respecting the other person entirely, even when you do not agree in something together.

 

No one is perfect, but we can still learn from imperfections.

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Conscious education.

To grow, develop, mature, and to bring illumination to embrace higher morals as a human being is to educate yourself; but not in the manners of the world with teachers and lots of memory filled with book knowledge, but a conscious education which means to study yourself, to not just read but discover the secrets and messages occult, to leave your ego aside and learn for the only sake of your betterment–i.e., without competition, without any selfish desire to be above others.  Your only task in conscious education is to liberate your trapped consciousness from the tyranny of your own ego/from the tyranny of all your opinions, knowledge, and beliefs.

Consciousness is not just something of the mind, of your head; but consciousness is the collective unity/essence of the universe guiding your steps through your minds/through your conscious and subconscious.  And the subconscious forces then may be hidden from plain sight, making you act in a manner unknown, damaging, or strange to you; but, however, these obscured forces are guiding you, there is a divine purpose for whatever happens–i.e., for the loss, for the mistake, for the disease, for the loneliness you feel now, etc.  Your task is to make these subconscious forces conscious to you, slowly, through self-awareness, through studying your actions carefully, so you become filled with knowledge of self, love, understanding, wisdom, and light unto yourself and unto others.

Vibrations are our very energy, our source either for happiness or misery, love or fear; and so, this must be revealed to the conscious in order for you to see it and become one with the higher planes of consciousness. It can be daunting, even not considered “normal.”  But what really is normal…??  To follow and be like others??  Or to be uniquely you, know yourself, and raise yourself above your lower self/above your sanctimonious ego??

 

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Perfect mirror…

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Life is you, and you are life.  There is no other experience to you but yours, and that is how you live the best life–by following your own experience.  Sadly, there are people out there who live guided by the experience of others instead of by their own; and so, religion is born, politics is maintained by the ignorant rabble, and wars on nations are thriving due to idiots who follow their unwise masters.  And all this happening in the world is relationship, atrocious and misguided relationships with society; such stupidity going back and forth, seeking a “solution,” seeking “truth,” reaching for “justice” in the very depths of hell, so no one has a good relationship with oneself.  If you have a good, honest, truthful, loving relationship with yourself then you have all the love, understanding and happiness you need–i.e., you have found God and the eternal, you have found paradise and all source of strength.  Have you found all this in you yet…??  (Be honest with yourself).

If you have a good and loving relationship with yourself you do not need religion, and you do not need to sustain and argue about politics, and you do not need to support any wars, and you do not live eating meats and fats, and you do not live pleasing your family, and the rest of the nonsense people do.  So, I ask you again, have you found true love within yourself yet…??  Do you really have a good and honest relationship with yourself…??

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Relationship then is being human.  Why…??  Because being human, the reality of it, is behavior, not a thought or a feeling or an intention.  Only through relationship, through behavior you live experiences and know yourself; this is life, ongoing adventure, exploration, progress, shaping your character, learning how to treat yourself and others.  But if you are just living without learning, without actually improving and observing your own behaviors towards yourself and others, then what is the point…??  Just living without learning, without becoming better and progressing in character in relationship, is poverty, human poverty, poverty of mind, poverty of character (a weak woman, a weaker man); thus, the mirror is cracked and you only see yourself distorted, ugly and ignorant in the relationships you have in life–in your job, in your family, with your husband, with your wife, with your kids, with yourself, without love, without deeper understanding of what you go through, suffering over and over again and feeling depressed each time.

Look around you, whatever or whoever is nagging you, whatever or whoever is stressing you or making you suffer in any way, is the relationship you have with life and with people; and you have no one to blame but yourself, even though your ego will find excuses and put guilt on others.  You project into the world, into your situations, into people, what you are and how you treat yourself; for all life is, indeed, is a relationship–i.e., your divinity is in relationship with your humanity, and your humanity with the world you experience with your physical eyes…  So, focus on yourself and the most important relationship, and the rest will mirror it perfectly…
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“Evolving through time…”

Time is tied to change, to development, to growth; thus, time is indeed all that, time is all it takes for matter to create memories, experiences, guides to nurture our brains and its wiring.  And physical evolution indeed happens through time, it is time; therefore, all which occurs in the physical sphere is a pattern or consequence of time and the activity human beings engage, knowingly or unknowingly.
The human brain is a bundle of memories, electrical and chemical wire conduits which mold experiences to better help us engage in the world, and it is the source of learning when added to the passion of our hearts; because whenever the intellect, the brain tries to learn something but there is no passion from the heart, then that same brain does not deeply learn but forgets soon enough.
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Remember when you learned to drive, for example, it stuck with you throughout your life, even if you couldn’t have a car of your own for many years; because you knew it was important to you and also interesting as you saw your family drive, so you put not just your intellect and analysis but your whole heart into it, your passion to grow drove you forth.

And life itself is learning, growing, developing, creating ever forth; for when you learn with your heart in it, then you follow life and start living, you stop thinking and suffering age and the pressures of the world, because now you are nurturing yourself with food that will not leave you but strengthen you and make you feel stronger and more confident to create a better path–whether you are 20, 40, or 70 years old.

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The worst mistake people make is to think and believe that the brain ages with the body and that there is no stopping the process; but the brain ages because most people do not care for it and nurture it with deep love for learning–i.e., a new language, new ideas, new lifestyles, new books, new skills or enterprises, new daily behaviors, mindful meditations, etc. etc.

When this happens and you nurture your brain daily, new neural connections appear, new awareness, consciousness expands, and you embrace change and direct it to better fit the ever evolving you.

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“There is a fountain of youth: it is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of people you love.  When you learn to tap this source, you will truly have defeated age.” ~ Sophia Loren; Italian film actress and singer.


 

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