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Strong and Confident

So, sometimes we may feel depressed, neglected, miserable even. Perhaps something didn’t go as planned. Maybe somebody else didn’t share our same feelings. Or it might be that certain outcomes in life just don’t seem to agree with us at some level. Whatever that is, we have the capacity to make it better. One may not see it at times, due to being anxious, angry, overwhelmed; but we all have the capacity to turn things around or make them better. This takes patience, of course; however, it also requires that you keep a peaceful mind, a mind that is strong and committed to keep going.

If we allow our minds to fall into fear. If we tell ourselves that we are incapable of doing something. If all we do in our minds is complain, curse, feel intimidated and shy about our own progress. If there is no desire to keep going in spite of the drama and difficult situations we live, then we are letting fear rule our decisions. And this makes you weak, unable to see your true capacity in your life, and it keeps you chained to this lack of self-love. Lack of self-love makes us paranoid, afraid and angry in our relationships.

The true purpose in your life is found once you let go of all that stress and anxiety, pain from the past and guilt you carry, and all that harmful intimidation and feelings of inferiority preventing you from becoming truly free. Whether a woman or man, the power begins in your determination and confidence to move forward in this. Now, please understand, if you don’t find your true purpose by letting go of all this fear, then you will fail in your life, in your relationships, in the treatment to yourself even. You will ask yourself why things are so bad in your life. You won’t see solutions.

You won’t feel strong and confident to become a better person in your relationship with yourself and with another. And without a sense of purpose, and without strength and confidence, we cannot really make ourselves feel proud, truthful, valued; but exactly this is what is required to live a happy life. So one must always remain aware of our minds, and so let go of any anger, frustration, anxiety, fear we may feel. This works for me, as it will work for you as well. So, keep your head up, remain honest, committed and confident in your mind.

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Building you.

“Nothing can dim the light that shines from within.”

~ Maya Angelou

It is important that one remains aware that life is an exploration, which means that you need confidence, and courage, and passion for some activity, process or goal in your journey. But this must be your own passion, not out of religion, or groups, or systems in society. This must come out of you, begin in you, and make you feel better about yourself, which means to make you a better person. Like working on health for your body and mind, perhaps through exercise and a change in your food consumption. Or like writing, sketching, making arts and crafts. It is about dedicating your time and energy to build something in you, some strong confidence and desire to grow your talents and work on becoming unique.

Do you know why people fall into addictions, liked gambling, sex, drugs, and even playing their little games to be like others, to attract others, and to be one more desperate copycat in life…?? It is because they secretly, subconsciously, feel talentless, empty, lonely, and needy inside them. I am not judging though. I merely bring you to the awareness of it, so you may see the problem in yourself perhaps, or in another, and learn from this, and become better yourself from this. Because this is a big problem in the world right now. Of course, everybody hides it, they wouldn’t let anybody know about the burdens they carry; because people seek to pretend and belong to other groups of people, and even do it subconsciously or without knowing it.

But life is about becoming better. And this requires self-discipline. This requires vision and follow-through. And this requires that you find a passion, immerse yourself in it, and only build your own path and way to do things as you go. So you can gain self-confidence, and lessons, and character, and forge that uniqueness in your personality. This is how you grow love, happiness, and that feeling of success in yourself without feeling anxiety and neediness for someone else or for society’s systems. And this brings you great creativity as well, because this makes you able to find solutions on your own, and able to see your own attachments and neediness, and because this helps you to become less stubborn and quicker to learn life lessons. And that, obviously, shines a big problem too. The problem that many of us carry, because many learn life lessons too slowly, and others don’t even learn anything. So be aware of all this.

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The Great Purpose.


And we all suffer one way or the other.  Challenges.  Times bring change.  Painful memories.  Fear of not being accepted.  Fear of progress.  The hurdles are many.  We go through life and we learn.  Or we go through life and we remain suffering.  See, and some people never adapt, never accept challenges; but they fear the storm, and they only wait for it to pass instead of befriending their own troubles and growing as human beings.

The whole purpose of life, of these challenges, of loss, of neglect and all suffering, is to grow in understanding.  Understanding more and more is learning to live better.  Understanding more and more gives you the capacity to truly love yourself, your life, and another.  How do you see your life…??  Are you learning from it??  Or are you escaping it and fearing challenges??  Ask yourself this and ponder the answers in order to begin understanding.

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The journey that matters.




Life can seem complicated, and harsh, and even cruel at times; and the distractions, the anxious moments, the illnesses, the unfairness, something even “destined” for us.

But what hurts you, what challenges your lifestyle and mindset, what makes you question your life’s decisions is there for a reason.  It is telling you to stop living your life outwardly, always seeking and questioning what you like and do not like.

The discovery is in yourself.  To experience inspiration to love and live happily, you must deny the world your full attention; and so pay attention to yourself.  And it is a nourishing journey into yourself daily what will help you through life.

An illness, a hurt ego, frustration, anger, ambition, etc.–it is all given to you to be understood as you journey into yourself.  Nothing is more important than this in living a righteous and blessed life.





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The Portal.


Everything in this life has a purpose


Everything and everyone appearing in our lives, whether is for good or bad, is never a coincidence.  Everything evolves the way is supposed to evolve, nothing lies outside this Universal KNOWING.

Hitler had to convince Germans, get them to follow him and give him power to kill millions, in order for humanity to get to where we are.  Knowledge, learning from the past, evolution to understand oneself, good, evil–all plays a role, whether you like it or not.

The people you meet, the troubles you suffer, the feeling of worthlessness, anxiety, loss of people you love, the anger, the confusion–they are there for a reason.  Finding out why, individually, and growing from it, is how you experience greater evolution and meaning in your life.

If you close yourself to this and so deny the purpose and connection behind ALL things, then it is indeed the moment you lose yourself, and thus you enter a state of confusion where nothing truly matters to you anymore.

Because your mind is the portal either to heaven or hell, to great understanding and life or to ignorance and death.  When your mind denies life’s evolution, when it judges it, when it demonizes it, then you are obscuring your mind and so you cannot enter any heaven but only a hell.




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That which makes you light up.


How would you find that which makes you unique…??  How would you define your specific purpose…??  Don’t say “My purpose, what makes me unique is to be love and be happy.”  Everybody says that.  And don’t even think of saying “My purpose, my destiny is to get married, have kids, and be a grandma or grandpa.”

That is not your specific value or purpose, that is not what you must find as an individual; for life is YOUR journey to discover yourself, something which makes you unique as a human being.  So, what is it that makes you unique specifically…??

Being love, being happy, being successful as an individual, does not have anything to do with society’s designs–i.e., with college, money, religion, marriage, philosophies you have read and follow, etc.  Although, this is what they teach famously in societies today.  “Discover yourself and your life by following the paths which are common and which we offer,” they say.

Thus, people become followers, they arrange their lives around a set of beliefs and ideas, and they become like everyone else, drones, robots, computer programs; however, in their enslaved minds they believe they are indeed unique and especial.  But, of course, they become one with sheep without knowing it.

I am talking about the mind much more than a mere activity out there.  The human mind is the tool you must use to inquire and find out what makes you especial, unique, of individual value; and you must discover yourself every day, discover the ways you become better, explore your talents and skills.

All measuring to higher and higher ethics and morals.  This is how you are love and happiness, by discovering this in yourself daily; hence, this process of discovery looking within you makes you stand out and be a true individual.

So you become wiser about yourself and about where you are going in life.  So you create yourself and stop following the crowd, and thus you find your uniqueness to shine in your very character in whatever you think and feel, and even in whatever you do in the world.



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Man of Purpose.

A man without purpose is like a bird without wings.   And what business has a man without purpose in life…??  What business has a bird without wings in life…??  Neither of them can be free and discover what they love.  Neither of them can reach happiness.  Soon life turns dull and pointless without purpose for them.  Life calls for advancement, for progress, for new and better realizations, for greater evolution–in the psychological, emotional, physical, and, specially, spiritual realms of existence (being more spiritual means freedom to be).

Through ever higher and purer desires, through taming and guiding the tempting snake of desires, man and woman can achieve purpose; and so, the key to life is to always accept change within yourself and bring new purpose to conscious awareness–i.e., purpose which heals, purpose which provide strength of will and purity of mind, purpose which swims in the waters of progress and love.  Without this man and woman have no direction, and soon their minds become weak and easily bored, tempted by the snake of desire into fatal mistakes and corruptions.

Laziness and weakness, pride and jealousy come because man has no purpose.   But when one has a purpose, faith and loyalty then must be 100% gifted to that purpose; because if it is not a purpose kept with faith and loyalty, then you will become weak and lose that purpose, distracted and deviated by other meaningless things, without patience and determination to value yourself and your life.
The snake of desire must be tamed and guided in the man of true purpose to give great fruit/great achievements.


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Greater sense of origin.

From the earth we came, and to the earth we shall come back.  The rocks, the trees, the animals–they all know and see this at a subconscious level. To beings of higher potentials, of higher awareness, of further awakening, this must become our very knowing, and thus from our subconscious enter our conscious; to know that we are the earth, and the sky, and the whole cosmos.  The sage finds comfort in this, love and happiness in knowing this; the vaster humility and yet the greatest pride, understanding of nature, of God, of the universe, is in embracing this.  When you truly know this in your bones, in your blood, in your mind, then you become illumined and you expand yourself, knowing that you are all of it.  And when you are all of it, then there is nothing unknown to you, nothing to worry you or stress you–i.e., no fear at all. 
Fear comes to the mind because it projects, it wonders, it is disturbed by things unknown; thus, the mind seeks to know, it seeks control, comfort, answers, and so not finding answers it fears.  But if you are all of it, answers and all, then there is no room for fear and life becomes joyful at each turn.  Can you not see it…??  The relationship competitions, the money issues, the comparing and envying, the lack of confidence, etc.–it all seems so pitiful and pointless when you become whole and guided by the light in your conscience, when you have woken up and see everything in perspective.

When you know your origins, your true origins, then harmony and understanding come to your mind, to your conscience; and then your whole life shines brighter, and even when you see ugliness and unfairness happening in the world your understanding allows you to remain calm, collected, superior and above all conflict that is both far and near you….  And there is no other manner to embrace this higher knowledge but as individual experience, within you, crossing that border of thoughts and feelings, sensing that greater origin in you…



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Thus Awaken…


Do you realize why pain, confusion, temptation, anxiety, and all suffering exist in your life…??  Can you understand that what truly gives rich value to life is that same exact pain and suffering which you feel…??

As a human being one may only experience happiness, joy, love, and all harmony if one has struggled with their opposites first, learned from their opposites with an open mind.  Awakening only comes after you have seen this and experienced it yourself, because physical existence carries both opposites and these both make physical life.  A mother’s deep love and unique bond to his son or daughter wouldn’t be as strong as it is if in childbirth the pain was not extremely unpleasant and even life-threatening; therefore, a part of her has been ripped out, she feels it, thus she remains deeply connected to her kid her whole life, even in great distance…  And life wouldn’t be appreciated without loss or death.  As you suffer the great loss of a loved one, there is a lesson being imparted to you in the quiet corners of your mind; therefore, after you grieve or mourn you must surrender to this quiet corner in your mind where the voice of suffering may turn into the voice of wisdom.

One of the passages in the Bible says that it is easier for the poor to enter the ‘house of God’ (‘awakening into wisdom’) than for the rich.  This means that the poor, due to lack of all societal and financial means, may go through much more pain than the rich, thus his mind might turn all his suffering into wisdom/into an awakening.  So whatever you go through, remind yourself that all suffering, all failures, all misfortunes, all diseases have a purpose; and you mustn’t doubt this, because such doubt brings you more confusion and suffering.  You have to see through your pain and turn it into a strength, wisdom, experience which can shape you into a better, more prepared person; for this is the purpose of all your suffering, and by embracing it, by overcoming it, you grab the scepter of power.
Buddha.  Jesus.  Muhammad.  Lao Tzu.  Osho.  This is how the sage becomes the sage.  No sage or wise man is born a sage or wise man.  He becomes awakened by learning from his own pain; but he must be prepared to see through his pain instead of just complain and moan about it.


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What is the content of your mind…??


How are you living your life…??  Are you stopping yourself to breathe, to actually enjoy the moment, or are you just stressed and worried, constantly submerged in your daily troubles…??
I can feel the stress and the pressure each day, but the choice to dwell in them or not is mine; furthermore, the past and the future, the memories of what was and the images of a possible future must not drive me and fill the content of my mind.

The content of the human mind is just what we choose it to be, nothing and no one has the power or right to fill that content… unless we allow it, that is…
When you think about something, analyze it, figure out if it has a real purpose; as it is, realize that you must live in the moment, throw out memories which do not serve you and stop creating the future which is not real.

Your mind must be the most, and the only, sacred place you visit daily, such visits must be with analysis and patience, don’t rush into things just because the intense feelings of the moment compel you or because thoughts appear unannounced in your consciousness.  In order to be free from the strain and pressures of your situations you must maintain your mind fit, in harmony and concentrated on living the moment; because in living the moment it is the connection to your heart, to insights, and to the answer to deeper questions.  The unruly mind always leans toward thoughts of a future or towards memories of a past; however, this brings regret, worry, all forms of suffering and confusion, because in doing this you are away from the moment, from the feel of the heart.

In life you must go for what your heart tells you with patience and commitment, do not allow thoughts to bring fear and confusion; therefore, your mind must be sacred, not filled with filth from an ugly or embarrassing past, and not filled with the images of a punishing future either.  Awaken to this!  Choose happiness for yourself and for others by living, experiencing, and sharing the moment with yourself and with others.


“The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer.” ~ Arnold Schwarzenegger.



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