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How to love

There is no feeling like the one that gives us acceptance, support, unity, harmony, and that sense of freedom yet embrace from the ones we love. After all, everybody in life seeks to feel accepted and validated by the people around them. But this love must be nurtured within you first, because if it is not then you’ll become needy and you will become a slave to others while you are in search for this love from them. No one wants to feel needy, like we must get validation or assurance from others in order to feel loved, valued, happy. That is why is extremely important to nurture this greater love first in ourselves.


And sometimes people seek to demonstrate love by going to great lengths, by giving opinions, by trying to fix, by showing that they can be nurturers; but really, quite often, just being there is enough. Just to let ourselves and others know that the value of love is in remaining. The ego, the overthinking mind, seeks to show worth, to validate by action, to seek more ways to display how we feel. Sacrifice, strain, effort, gifts, great demonstrations. This is what society says one should do to love, to make someone feel loved, to find value in ourselves; however, this is a mechanical pattern which is born out of our egos to feel better about ourselves.


Because the simplicity of love is experienced fully by just being there, for ourselves and for others; and this does not require the ego to come up with newer ways to “love.” Because this is a more pure, heartfelt, honest and authentic love; and a love which does not make you a slave to others or to their ways to love you or not love you, to their expectations or to their requirements from you. It’s a love which remains in you. It’s a love which heals in relationships. And it’s the only love which can make you whole. And this wholeness is what we all seek. It is in us really. Without anxiety about finding newer ways to show our care. Without copying others. Without feeling less than others and their actions. Just communicating. Just gazing into each other’s eyes. This is all that love is. The rest is a made up scheme from the overactive ego in us.


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Explore yourself.

It is widely believed that talent is what brings great things. You have a talent, use it. You must seek your talents. You reach success like this. But this is nothing special. What’ll get you to feel love, to feel happiness, to feel successful in life, is to grab your talent and strengthen it through hard word and commitment.

What gives you motivation about yourself…?? Go in deep. Explore yourself, your hobbies, your talents, that which makes the time go by without you noticing it. Life is about this. I know that most people do the same. They go to school, college, date, marriage, kids, travelling and the rest. But, as nice as this is, it is what everybody does. It is not exploring yourself. Only exploring yourself gives you eternal happiness.

Nothing can bring you more satisfaction, joy, gratitude than your own hard work and commitment, perseverance through it all. Dedication to yourself is self-love. Developing your passions, your talents, your nature. It is your purpose. Because in order to feel confident, inspired, proud of yourself, you must create yourself.

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This is rising.

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It is like being chained to your beliefs, opinions, burdens, etc.  These do not allow your mind to expand in understanding.  You think you are wise, but you are only deceiving yourself and enjoying your chains in underground mediocrity.

But to let go, to quit your self-righteous ways, is to rise, to ascend and break those chains.  This is freedom.  This is love.  And this is rising.  Because now your mind expands, and you are not fixed to any belief, opinion, habit; thus you can flow with life and adapt to all change.  New information.  New ideas.  New opinions.  This is rising. 

 


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Peace with yourself.

 

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    • If your mind is focused on others, then your mind is not focused on you.  That brings anxiety into you, loneliness, feelings of self-neglect.  It might happen subconsciously.  But after this, you act out, you become impulsive, irrational, negative with yourself and with others. 

    • So, keep your focus on yourself.  Battle yourself to find yourself.  Better yourself.  Let others be.  Don’t allow what others think and do to affect you.  People don’t do things to you, but you do it to yourself by clinging on to thoughts of attachment about them.  Life is a miracle to be discovered in you, so keep seeking it in you.

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Increasing self-esteem.

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  • Self-esteem is acceptance first.  It is a process of love.  You must accept yourself first.  Don’t look at your past mistakes, troubles, pains.  Detach yourself from past shames and heartaches.  You are Now.  Focus Now.  Self-esteem is gained Now by living Now.
  • Belief in yourself means being yourself first.  It is about embracing your inner values.  You work on yourself and become strong.  As you become strong, you then start expanding your awareness and realize that you are all you need.  You realize your own inner values.
  • When you have started this process, you do not stop but continue building yourself.  This leads you to seek validation only from yourself, and you increase in self-love.  Now you can feel self-esteem and the belief in yourself increasing, and thus you enjoy life much more because you have become confident and do not rely on others.  

 


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Let it go.

 

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This is something I talk about in my book and try to bring to the attention of the reader, so they may apply it in their lives.  The importance of letting go.  The importance of detachment.  How this is crucial for learning to love your life, yourself, and others; because it is all about this.

If you let things go, if you detach yourself from prejudice and complaining, you will see more clearly and feel more liberated from your burdens.  Difficult times are not here to destroy you or to make you suffer, but they are here to give you the opportunity to challenge yourself and become a better human being.

But you have to see this yourself, so you can gain patience and confidence in your daily life.  Unless you see the wisdom in this, nothing can help you through your troubles.  So, step outside of your ego, of your personal opinions and prejudice; and stop playing the victim.  Rise up and realize this.  Allow your mind to be free from unnecessary drama.


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I always loved you…

What is love…?? How do you love?? What exactly is it?? Society, friends, family, what we watch, listen, hear, read. It is all a haze. These steer us one way. They say this. They do that. Thought and words do not match people’s actions.

People love with hate, with selfishness, with stubbornness, with jealousy, and so on and so forth. But people still feel lonely though. Some others feel needy. Or neglected. Or anxious. Another group has lost all capacity and desire for love, to love, to be loved… This book is all about this, and more.

We delve into the depths of love, of natural magnetism, of intimacy with ourselves and with another; and we do it without excuses. Excuses are not allowed! This book studies the psychology, as well as the spirituality, in the human experience, in order to awaken the mind and bring light into our lives.

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See yourself.

 

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So, if you are confident and strong you do not have chains, you do not feel the need to belong, to get the attention of others and to boost your own ego.  But, sadly, this is not the case of most people, as good, well-intentioned, and decent as they might be.

Vanity, self-absorption, an obsessive and unconscious angst leads people to seek validation from others, to seek to prove themselves to others.   This people escape themselves by competing with others, by designing ways to create something which makes them stand out, show off, and separate themselves from the rest.

The most unconscious in this are politics and religion (and the people who practices these abominations)–i.e., the engines of immorality and divide in the world.

And this comes about because there is loneliness inside, and anxiety, and there is no identity in the individual.  See, when one has identity, or feels identity, there is no need to prove yourself to others in order to fit in or belong.

Being one with yourself requires no seeking to belong.  When you feel truly whole, what can the masses offer you really??  You have to take time out of your day and see this truth in yourself, silently, confidently.

Observe how the ignorance in the world moves, how people are obsessed with needing to belong to this and that, so you can free yourself and stop imitating them.  And that very enlightenment will change you completely, and steer your life in a better, more clear direction.

 

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The Lover.

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A true lover loves life.  Life is the lover.  There is no separation.  One and the same.

 

When people tend to “love” other people, and things, and systems and situations, there comes confusion, ego activity, political games, attachment which leads to suffering.

But there is no freedom in this.  And true love is freedom, absolute freedom.  So when you are a true lover, you reject all systems of politics and competition in life.

And so, with a mind which remains liberated and harmonious, you seek to share your love with all life, like the stars shed light and like The Sun shares energy.

And you occupy your time sharing your love, for there is no time to argue and hate, or envy and compete, or be negative and frustrated.  You just become this lover all the time.

The Lover Plays

The lover feels one with all,
He spends time with himself,
He meets his love every day.
Ever joyful and of good spirits,
He claims what it calls to him.
The lover rejects arguments,
He seeks himself in harmony
And does not befriend noise.
A light unto himself he stays.
Freedom on his own he seeks.
In the curious playground of life
Unattached to others he plays.

 

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Realize your worth.

 

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What is to be selfish…??  Is selfish to love yourself and respect yourself??  Is selfish to desire to be recognized for your moral values, honesty, and good, heartfelt emotions by others??

Perhaps the world does not understand what selfishness really is, so you must ponder what it means individually to you.  Really study yourself, your intentions, your ideas, your emotions, your worth, and discover if you deserve better in your life.

Because when it comes to your joy, love and happiness, harmony and peace of mind, no other person, even if it is a loved one, can truly give it to you.  You must be brave, rational, conscious, and give it to yourself.  Can you find it within yourself to do that now–not later, but NOW…??

If you do not, if you keep making excuses, if you maintain yourself attached to neglectful treatments from others, then it means you do not know love, it means you do not know happiness, it means you have lost your identity, and it means you are against life itself–i.e., against your true self.

Your true self is life, it is joy and value and it recognizes itself; so, you must train your mind and ego to see this, to realize your worth, to analyze your current understanding of love, and to wake up from self-pity and self-inflicted suffering.

If you are not happy in life, if your mind is anxious and frustrated with others and with situations around you, then you are neglecting yourself, forgetting your identity and value.  And you have to work on making better that situation in your mind, create your experience, realize your worth and adjust your surroundings and people to your own standards.

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