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Be free, step up

Respect yourself, walk away

Someone disrespectful to you, or aggressive, or unsupportive, does not deserve your time and attention. People have different experiences, so they see things differently in life.

We can change, but most of our subconscious programming comes from childhood; so people might be unaware as adults of the damage they’re causing you due to their own early burdens. Try not to remain attached to their ignorance.

After all, is your life

Your life is about your self-development, and this requires your full attention, and this requires that you let go of any resentment or frustration you may feel towards another. Do it for you, not for anybody else. Because it is always up to you to become free.

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Your power/Your value

Aware of people

I think this is very personal and it goes with the unique experience you have in life. But it is crucial to remain aware of the people you trust, because sometimes people may ignore your feelings or abuse your good will. There is no evil people per se out there, but there is indeed highly ignorant people everywhere.

Nature of progress

Forgiving is of the better human being, because it is letting go of frustration and anger, of feelings of betrayal and neglect to move on with your life, to create a better you. But, having established this better nature of progress, the first thing is self-respect.

See your true value

Respect yourself enough to say “no more” or “I deserve better”. And this self-respect begins the moment you see your true value and stop leaning on others for love and happiness, for acceptance and approval. Free yourself. Awaken yourself.

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Just do your best

With faith & passion

No one is perfect. We all go through something. One day is a good day. Another day is a bad day. Life is a roller coaster, so don’t be too hard on yourself. As I see it, I just do the best I can; and, in time, things get better. You should see it like that too, it’ll help you in this life of unknowns.

I feel that punishing yourself for mistakes or failures in life is pointless. Learning and moving on with faith and passion onto better progress. This is something that I think most of us should focus on, instead of remaing stuck on what didn’t work or didn’t come out as expected.

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Mental routines…

Mental routine and depressive states

One of the greatest, and also most tragic, things of the mind is that it creates a routine, it gets used to a thought, a feel, a lifestyle. So, it happens that if you are raised a certain way, or told you’re not good enough, then your mind will start making it a reality for you.

Or if you lose someone important for you, and the people around you only bring you down and do not try to help you out of depression, your mind will get used to it and spread this depressive state and make you negative in other aspects of life.

And if you are deceived, treated unfairly, cheated on a relationship, then your mind will make you feel ugly, or worthless, or like you have no meaning; and it will make you afraid of other people, distrusful, and even negative regarding a future life.

Change your mental routine

Is love something only somebody else can give me?? Is my worth really given to me by my parents, by academic education, by my past relationships, by the established norms in society?? Why do I actually think and feel the way I do?? Do I constantly feed my self-pity??

What is the point of remaining in this self-victimization state, and how is it helping me to be truly happy and feel successful?? Ask yourself these questions daily. You need only to answer them with honesty and without bias. If you do, then you will rewire your brain and free your mind from the negative routine to thus create a new and better one.

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To be discovered…

Capacity for growth

Imagine a life without misery, without suffering, without challenges, without any great worry. Imagine we are all happy, we get what we want always, we satisfy ourselves and everything works out for all of us.

Now, this “perfection” obviously takes away the mystery, the hidden lessons, the capacity to learn and come up with our own ideas and strengths to find solutions and ways to understand life.

If everything is happiness then there is no need for struggle. But the only capacity for growth is in the struggle. I lost people I loved and suffered much in my life, and so I gained the capacity to learn wisdom and strength. If I never go through suffering then I remain dull and weak, unwise and without experience.

Welcome the chance to grow

It is really difficult, to lose people you love, to see your life not working out, to feel like you are trapped in your own story. But that is also where the possibility to gain strength, wisdom, and grow as a better person hides. I personally have learned not to see life as punishment or as something I should experience in fright.

I have learned, and it took many years, that life is made of choices. As a grown up, each choice I make, whatever it is, hides a lesson I must discover. Discovering the lesson, accepting the lesson, and welcoming the lesson is only up to me–and always through patience.

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Life’s beauty

Why give up now..??

You have struggled, suffered, experienced your share of troubles in the past; and so, that all has brought you here where you are now. Whether you like your life now or not, your past has made you; and hopefully you’ve learned from it.

So, life’s beauty is the mystery, the struggle to achieve dreams, the hope we can carry with us to make a better future. So, if you have overcome your past, as I’ve just said, why give up now…?? Mistakes, failures, and the rest. It is all to strengthen us and keep us building more hope and building more dreams.

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Dealing with loss

Remember the good times

When one loses someone is easy to fall into depression. Depression can lead us to highly negative thoughts, even to self-harm and suicide in many cases. But I think that we must focus on the positive memories instead of in the loss.

Dreams and hopes

Positive memories are uplifting, they remind us of the love and joy, and they’re a source of strength to move on in life. Life is all about moving on, building, forging ourselves to become better human beings with new dreams and hopes.

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Where is found…

Worry

I find that most of the time worry, stress, excessive preoccupation, serves no purpose. Most of the time, it just brings us overthinking while creating all these negative scenarios in our heads. So, if I cannot change it, I let it go. ‘I let it go’ means I cut cords with the thought and feeling, or I stop thinking about it, or I became detached from these.

I move on

Becoming detached from overthinking is not that easy, right?? But we do have to move on, start a new activity that keeps us away from the worry and overthinking. I find this very important, especially so I don’t become obsessed with the past or future. Because moving on is found in the present. So, make sure you stay in your present.

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Knowing your feelings

Feelings

Feelings can be scary. When your heart breaks can be difficult to love. When you are frustrated can be challenging to keep on. When you are disappointed can be tough to trust again. Feelings are what make us humans, and what give us the capacity to achieve love and happiness.

So, exploring your feelings, even though scary and hard at times, is what gives you more empathy and makes you a better human being. That is why spending time with yourself, accepting the way you feel and not trying to escape it, is truly important in order to really understand life and the right choices to make.

The right feelings

What are the right feelings..?? The right feelings, for me, are the ones that help you move on and create a better life for yourself. But for that, I need to focus on how I feel and totally ignore the world. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed due to the news, or the suffering of someone close to me, or the injustice out there, etc.

She said this. He did this. Ignore everything. Protect the way you feel. You have to do this in order to think clearly and be ready to love again, be happy again, and try your best again. A successful life is one where you feel positive and strong to forge your path. And from that, you may give a better example and good vibes to others, so they too can build a better life for themselves.

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What is now…??

A new purpose

It could be scary starting something new. A new habit. A change in lifestyle. Starting again. Building yourself from difficult times. It can be truly overwhelming. But it can also be truly rewarding to know that we can do better, to give ourselves permission to try again, to leave the toughest moments behind and fill our hearts and minds with this new purpose in life.

We are what is now

And what is now..?? We are now. We were in the past, and that is gone. We will be in the future, and that is to be determined by our choices now. So we are what is now. That is why to triumph in life one must be brave, and this bravery is about loving your life now.

The greatest accomplishments are born from loving your life now, which is the capacity to start fresh and introduce changes into our lives to build a better tomorrow. There is no shame in making mistakes, or in having failed in the past, or in having fears to start something new. This is normal and healthy. Because we must learn from it, strengthen ourselves, and move to newer and better purposes that can make us feel great passion again.

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