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Free from debt

I run away from debt

Think about people in debt. The constant stress. The extreme fear of being chased by debt collectors. The guilt and anxiety when they must buy the necessary to live. What freedom do they really have??

I personally despise to be in debt. That is why I put self-control as the priority. Now-a-days we have commerce everywhere, these ads on the internet offering us this and that, the normal impulse to buy and increase our well-being.

But is it worth it?? I mean, if we lack introspection and self-control to say ‘No’ to ourselves, to stop us from buying what we do not really need, then what kind of future our we creating.

Save what you can

Saving money is extremely important, which is something I’ve learned really late in my life. But I’m glad I have, and I’m glad I can truly see how my life can change by adopting the wise habit of saving money. Because money does not bring happiness, my friend; but it brings safety and stability in our lives.

And we all need safety and stability, don’t we?? We all need to be able to breathe and be able to know we can pay our rent, our food, our clothing, and help our loved ones. So, please, give a deep thought to this simple message. Save, whatever you can; but save with each paycheck you get.

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Be free, step up

Respect yourself, walk away

Someone disrespectful to you, or aggressive, or unsupportive, does not deserve your time and attention. People have different experiences, so they see things differently in life.

We can change, but most of our subconscious programming comes from childhood; so people might be unaware as adults of the damage they’re causing you due to their own early burdens. Try not to remain attached to their ignorance.

After all, is your life

Your life is about your self-development, and this requires your full attention, and this requires that you let go of any resentment or frustration you may feel towards another. Do it for you, not for anybody else. Because it is always up to you to become free.

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Are you really in love…??

What love is not

Love is a not a label already made for you, or an opinion, or an established way out there. You can be in love with yourself and with your life, if you let go of the influence from society, let go of what your family expects from you, and just worry about self-development.

What love is

Love is essentially what makes you healthy, what makes you feel confident, what allows you to feel happy and connected to your life–no matter the drama or challenges in it. That is why religions, politics, family and friends can’t really give you this; for they can only offer you moments of joy and mental constructs.

Where love is

Only you can give you love, if you learn to spend time with yourself and enjoy it. It’s all about befriending you, taking care of you. Because, even though humans have been programmed for thousands of years to be social animals, true love and happiness do not exist in the world and in what it has to offer. It only exists in you.

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Strengthening the bonds of love

True love is constant development

And that is the whole problem in society today, in how people have programmed themselves to recognize love. Just because you have opened your heart and mind to somebody, you think you deserve the same in return.

Or just because you are married, you start expecting unconditional and unquestionable affection and loyalty. But being human, when it comes to love, involves passion, commitment, desire, respect, always understanding more and more of how to keep that flame alive.

True love is wholeness

So love is not a given. We must develop ourselves further, better, and expand our understanding of that love. This includes all of it–the emotional part, the psychological part, the physical part, the sensual and sexual parts.

True love is wholeness, not just your poor understanding of it, not just what is known on the surface, not just what everybody else does. Learn more, because love is a mixture of many things to be mastered; and those things start as knowledge in different topics to expand your understanding, which never ends because it’s a journey to grow and grow until your last breath.

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Go for greatness

Style & Uniqueness

The more I grow in personal wisdom and also in my writing craft, the more I think about what style and uniqueness mean in my life. And I like these following quotes, which made me think deeper about it:

-“Elegance is refusal.” ~ Coco Chanel.

-“Style is knowing who you are, what you want to say, and not giving a damn.” ~ Orson Welles.

“One of the really bad things you can do to your writing is to dress up the vocabulary, looking for long words because you’re maybe a little bit ashamed of your short ones.” ~ Stephen King.

Creating your style

So, for style to be wholeness you must create yourself in all aspect. Whatever you do, the way to be different and stand out is the way of uniqueness. So, If you have a unique style and you want to create a new way to go about things, then practice to master it. Do not listen to others.

Most people are attached to the path society has already established for them. But in order for you to achieve greatness, you have to leave the close-minded masses and the way they choose to enslave themselves to the established thought.

Break the rules properly

A billion people may do the same you do, but if you are unique and bring your own style to your work then you’ll be recognized by your originality. See, no one is better or worse. That feeling of being more or being less, that is your own ego.

Achieve self-control over it, then you can create your own image and reach your uniqueness. I always say that rules are meant to be broken, but it’s only acceptable to break them when you master your own style–in your writing, in business, in fashion, in dating, in marriage, in everything.

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Balance & Harmony within

The beginning of experience

So, the most important thing in life, and the base or origin of everything we experience, is our well-being, our health of body and mind. We must reach harmony and balance within ourselves in order to reach love and happiness in our lives.

First and foremost then is what we eat, how we eat, and the times we eat. What I put in my body becomes the energy that makes me–regarding the way I think, the way I feel, the way I treat myself and others, the habits and the actions in all other aspects of my life.

Strengthen your immune system

Here are 2 things I follow daily to eat right and to stregthen my immune system. Perhaps you can find some use in these as well:

1- Limiting greatly your intake of sugars: Our bodies make Insulin. And insulin stimulates your liver and muscle cells to store glucose (sugar). It also inhibits your liver and kidneys from making glucose. Needless to say, insulin must be kept in harmony. If levels are too high then large amounts of fat are stored, bacteria festers, illnesses and allergies, etc. So, in order to balance glucose and keep it in harmony, you have to lower the ingestion of sugars.

2- Do not snack between meals: When we snack between meals, insulin levels rise, which means the balance and harmony in our physiology is broken. Losing weight and having a strong immune system is almost impossible, especially for most people age 30+. Besides, snacking between meals, contrary to popular belief, makes you more hungry and it does not leave your stomach time to clean itself.

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Room to grow

“Could I be wrong..??”

This is a question most of us fail to direct to ourselves. Most people think that they know what they know. They trust their opinions, philosophies, judgments, ways of seeing issues in life, and especially when it comes to judging and labeling other people.

But the wisest among us know that life is different at each turn, and it is a different experience for each one of us. We cannot stay rigid in our minds and expect everything to be white or black. We must be psychologically prepared to be open, to question ourselves and understand that there is much to learn.

Question yourself

By questioning yourself, you expand your awareness, you free yourself from attachment and find true psychological freedom. And this, of course, comes with success in terms of your life in general. Others see that you remain open-minded and they respect you for it more, they trust you more and they connect to you more.

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The wisest path

Priority

Taking care of ourselves has to be top priority. Think about it?? How can you think clearly if you surround yourself with negative people or negative situations?? Or how can you be healthy of mind and body if you eat lots of junk food and whatever you crave without thinking what it does to you first??

And what about staying really late at night and not getting a good sleep?? If you want to feel positive, strong, confident and ready to ask the best from you, then you must become disciplined in self-care. It must become a set program in your mind, habits of excellence you can follow and enjoy.

New belief

Forget what others say. It is not selfish. Taking care of ourselves is the most intelligent thing we can do. Taking care of ourselves gives us direction, structure, motivation, inspiration to pursue our goals, and it makes us attractive.

And it must become a belief in you. A self-belief. The most important opinion, philosophy, habit we create for ourselves. It is what creates leadership in us. And it is the base of all greatness we can achieve from that same leadership.

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Personal issues

What we carry

In my youth I used to keep anger and frustration bottled up, and sometimes I would subconsciously seek the smallest things, trivial annoyances, to explode and let it out, especially with my brothers.

I would lose my temper really quick with them. Not something I’m proud to admit. But, as I grew up, I started adding meditation and studying psychology to change my perception of things, which worked wonders for me.

Because it was painful to carry all this anxiety when young, and even though I wanted to change it was difficult without more knowledge and understanding of myself. So, what I’m saying is that we all go through something personal, and it’s heavy on us because it affects all our perceptions in life.

Leaving the burden is personal

It even programs our DNA, our subconscious and the automatic reactions we have in life. It depletes our energy, it makes us age faster and without grace, it dulls our senses and lowers our intelligence and creativity, our relationships get affected in all aspects–especially when it comes to sexual desire and performance.

The reality is that we can all change, but it takes a personal committment from you; because it’s not about the world but about changing you and the mental programming running you. No one is perfect, but chasing excellence and creating better habits for ourselves leads to self-healing; and that is definitely something we all want in our lives.

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That special someone

To love another

It’s about your mind, not people. To find, and to always keep, a person special for you, your mind has to let go of the painful memories you’ve lived, your mind must become free of judgment, your mind’s duty must be then to stop self-pity and self-doubt.

To love another, to care for another, to see the value in another, is easy if you lose all the fear and anxiety that comes from trying to control the way someone is or the way someone should be. Pay attention: We don’t truly love someone because we need. We love someone because we want.

And wanting to love someone is a decision, and a hearfelt desire, only your mind makes. Is not fate or destiny. Is not a thread connecting 2 hearts. Let’s leave romance aside. Because it’s about your mind, the freedom in it from judgment, and the capacity to silence its noise.

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