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Steering our lives.

We make choices each day, each moment, whether aware of them or not. We choose what to eat. We choose where to go. We choose how to spend our time. We choose what to think and what thoughts to let rule our thinking and feeling. Outcomes are then results of these choices.

One can believe that one was forced, pushed, made to do something; but, as grown ups, we steer our lives. Some choices we make in ignorance, unaware, and blinded by passions or fears. Some other choices we make knowingly, stressed, or fully clear on what we want. But the worst thing we can do to ourselves, which is exactly what most people do unconsciously, is to remain stubborn and blame others for the direction of our lives.

Life is your mind, meaning that we build our lives as we go. Of course, we might feel pressure, frustration, anger, and the rest; however, the truth still stands. And what is the truth…?? The truth is that our choices make our habits, our behaviors, and everything we experience. While you are reading this, you are probably coming up with excuses to blame your life on others. But deep inside you, you know the truth. Live that truth. Stop the excuses and self-pity.


 

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Peace with yourself.

 

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    • If your mind is focused on others, then your mind is not focused on you.  That brings anxiety into you, loneliness, feelings of self-neglect.  It might happen subconsciously.  But after this, you act out, you become impulsive, irrational, negative with yourself and with others. 

    • So, keep your focus on yourself.  Battle yourself to find yourself.  Better yourself.  Let others be.  Don’t allow what others think and do to affect you.  People don’t do things to you, but you do it to yourself by clinging on to thoughts of attachment about them.  Life is a miracle to be discovered in you, so keep seeking it in you.

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Pay attention.

 

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Be patient.  Be humble.  Be committed.  Stay on course and focused.  Don’t let negativity, loud and anxious voices in your head, and your stress, bring you down. 

Nothing can disturb you more than your own mind, so focus on self-discipline specially in the midst of hard times.  Keep your mind and body sacred.  Watch what you eat.  Be careful of what you allow into your mind.

Be mindful of your thoughts.  Pay attention to the time you give to others, because people can suck you into their dramas and anxieties.  In order to lead your life successfully, you must be self-aware at all times.

 

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In the present.

 

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Don’t block yourself from that warm feeling of wholeness in you.  Don’t fill your mind with desires for something and/or someone.  Leave all the overthinking and planning obsessively.  The worst you can do is to be here while your mind is somewhere else.  Be present wholly.

To be present wholly, be actually present, stop thinking so much, and learn to value the moment you are living.  It all stems from the moment you are living right now–happiness, love, success, confidence, etc.  Don’t let your mind wander and steal from you the value of this moment.

You have one life to live, lead it from the present moment.  Many times people engage in an activity while their minds are somewhere else.  This is not productive.  This is not being aware of yourself.  This is seeking the illusion of love and happiness in your mind, instead of being yourself love and happiness in your body and in the moment.

 

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Being in a good mood.

 

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Being in a good mood is being positive, even in the face of something you do not like.  Being in a good mood means to focus on the positive side of your life.  Being in a good mood is to choose inspiring conversations and ignoring mediocre ones which do not serve you.

Being in a good mood is to give your time to people and situations in life without letting your mind be affected by any toxicity.  And to be in a good mood you must keep your mind fit, healthy, truthful; and without self-deceit and self-neglect.

To be in a good mood watch entertaining and inspiring movies which give you better mental vibrations.  To be in a good mood choose good music as well.  And to keep yourself in a good mood develop greater habits daily, inspiring and creative habits which strengthen your unique character.

 

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Your power.

 

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Do not pretend.  Do not try to sell yourself to others.  Do not specifically act in order to be approved by others.  Be always yourself, with your ignorance, with your great understanding, with your flaws, with your strengths.

The first thing you must realize is that your happiness, your joy, love for your own life, dwells in your very character; therefore, you must be true to yourself, always, without excuses.

Your power as a human being is in acting completely honest and true to yourself.  Life will be a mirror to you, so if you pretend, or if you are fake in any way, then life and what you experience will be measured by this–by your character.

You have to mature and see that the only person to love and to dignify, value and respect, is you; and then you can be a true individual and light the path in your life’s journey.  Meanwhile, lighting also the path of others.

 

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See something useful.

 

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There has to be a sense of dignity and honesty in all you do, from talking to yourself each moment to going to work hours and hours.  It does not matter what it is you do, it must originate from a positive and proactive place in your mind.

If your full attention and heart are not in it, then you will start to hate the task; and you will complain and begin to bring some negativity into your life.  And then things will get worse.

Because when your mind starts dwelling in the ugliness, in the negativity, in the drama of something in your life, then your whole experience in all aspects will get tainted, poisoned; thus, your persona will become affected, your choices will become affected as well.

Love is the deep connection that you need in all things you do; no excuses, no overthinking it, just make yourself see something useful in each activity you engage.

 

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Stop!

 

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You cannot find yourself to do this or that.  You tell yourself constantly that you do not have time.  Other things seem to occupy your mind while you keep allowing them to do so often.

All the excuses you make are something you invent in your mind and convince yourself that it is true, real, that cannot be changed.

But if you really love something, if you really see something as important, you make time for it, you train your mind to see it as the most important thing to do; and you stop making excuses, because you realize that morality is improving yourself.

Behaviors rooted on health of body and mind, attitudes which are positive and moral in their core, treating yourself and all other creatures with respect and understanding–this is the only thing to seek in your daily choices.

Stop the lies and excuses and start maturing.  Learn to fit rationality, morality, real values which lead you to real behaviors in your thinking and feeling.  Give an example unto yourself and unto others.

 

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Weakness.

 

 

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Don’t ask what makes you weak, mediocre, immoral; for you already know.  You may lie to yourself and say that you do not know, and then play that intellectual game of always seeking and seeking answers to escape the truth; but you do know deep inside.

Extra fatty foods, physical laziness, gossip, hiding the truth, clinging to past memories, attachment to expectations, impulsive reactions, chasing money desperately, and so on and so forth.  Don’t you know then…??

What is your life if not greater development, always moving forward in you, through your better health, through your rational ideas, through your moral behaviors…??  And what are you if not your life, which is how you think and feel–so your developing experience moving forward…??

Anything that makes you weak, lazy, stubborn, envious, angry, unhealthy, etc., must not be made part of you; because, in very fact, whatever you add to you, in thinking, feeling, eating, certainly becomes you.

And you cannot live a happy life, in love with it each day, if you become weak in this aspect.  Weakness brings suffering, confusion, immorality, wrong decisions, delusions in your ways of thinking; thus, it slowly destroys your life, it slowly destroys you.

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The basics of understanding.

 

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Understanding is really different for each one of us.  Most people think that they understand something when they create their intellectual beliefs and ideologies; but this just creates the illusion of intelligence, of true understanding, and it designs pride in people.

What drives the human being is emotional, which it is to really take whatever you know to heart; furthermore, this emotional drive makes you change, real and immediate change in your life. This is true understanding. True intelligence. True enlightenment.

So, if you intellectually see the truth of being healthy, the truth of not being attached to anything and to anyone, the truth of real patience, it does not mean you understand anything at all.  This does not mean you are intelligent.  Accumulation of knowledge is not intelligence, understanding, or enlightenment.

The ONLY true understanding is change, which is the core of intelligence, which is sheer enlightenment.  Thinking truth is a mere illusion of the ego that you tell yourself in your own vanity, because it does not create true morality in your daily actions.

Now, one who TRULY understands truth is not responsible for another’s understanding or lack of it.  Each one of us is responsible for our own morality or immorality in action.  I am only responsible for myself, for speaking and behaving with truth; and so, I am not responsible for what you or others understand, or do not understand.

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