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Meaning.

What is the meaning of life…?? Isn’t that personal??

But what is that feeling of belonging naturally born in ourselves??

It is not about others, but about yourself.

To feel in a relationship is vital. Life is relationship, because life is one thing divided into many; however, it is still one thing, the illusion is the division. Relationship is that feeling of belonging. When that feeling of belonging ends, then one contemplates suicide. Life has no meaning without feeling that relationship. And to be truly successful in that relationship is growing as a human being.

If you’re feeling like you’re failing, then you’re losing humanity, until life loses meaning for you. Success is not in anything but you, and relationships are about your inner growth. ALL relationships. If you are in a relationship and not growing, get out of that meaningless void. Seek to be better yourself. Let others worry about themselves. Don’t waste your time and lose meaning yourself.

Nothing is more important than this. We are creatures of relationship. We feel deep. We feel hurt. We feel loneliness. We feel rejection. We feel abandonment. But we also feel love in ourselves. And that love must be nurtured in you daily. And for this nurturing to take place in you, you must watch yourself, take care of yourself, stand up for yourself, seek your own respect and admiration. Do not focus on others. Even though we may love others, the only one who can love you unconditionally and throughout life, the only one who can strengthen you and make you into a successful human being in all aspects, is YOU.


Thanks for reading. I know reading is extremely important in growing empathy, better communication, and expansion of awareness. So here are three book promos, fantasy and sci-fi, which aim to do just that:

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Just love her.

TO MEN. JUST LOVE HER:

If she wants you, don’t worry about the rest. Love her entirely, with passion and honesty; and she will be yours, as long as you do this. The feminine just wants to feel loved, feel her own beauty blooming. This is her sole purpose for existence. This is her nature.

She has been born in a physical body to learn about her own beauty, and to feel the emotional and physical affection her soul’s nature craves. As you love her, she will find safety and comfort, freedom and sweetness in herself and with you. This will inspire her to better herself, to love herself, to keep herself beautiful and passionate.

She will mold to the masculine if she feels truly loved, free to be herself, and without judgment from him. If man can stop trying so hard. If man can stop overthinking. If man can stop trying to control and fix everything, then she becomes his in mind, heart and body.

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And if you enjoyed reading my article, please take a moment to visit my books.

Nonfiction

“I ALWAYS LOVED YOU.” A book about love and relationships.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 1). A book about self-esteem and individuality.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 2). A book about enlightenment and the renaissance of the leader in you.

Fiction

BENJAMIN JONES. The Call of The Shaman: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08MBFXSR9?ref_=pe_3052080_276849420

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The right one.

It so happens that life is really just a mirror of us. Not a mirror of our desires. Because most of us desire goodness for ourselves and for others. And most of us also desire good lives. But this does not really help. Thoughts and feelings do not create your life, but behaviors do. The right habits daily mold your character, build your life slowly.

1- If a man wants a beautiful and healthy looking woman, he must be that; which means that he must take care of his health, mind and body. Once he becomes that, he can now attract and get the same from a woman.

2- If a woman wants a good and decent man who seeks true love, then she must become opened to meet good and decent men in the right places, but she must be patient and not give herself easily. She must give herself time to fall for such man. She must get to know him deeply and not fall for romantic or lustful words and advances.

These are just two examples out of the many. Point being that in life you must become first. You want love?? Become it first in your daily behaviors towards yourself and others. You want success?? Become that yourself in the same way. You want happiness?? Become that as well. Life will give you what you already are inside yourself. So many people reach wealth status, have big families, great positions in society; however, this is not love and happiness. They must become inside themselves first. Take this to heart and adopt better habits. Take care of your body and mind. Become yourself all you seek in life.

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REVIEW OF MY BOOKS: “I really loved the depth of your approach, specially because sometimes I struggle with low self-esteem and that gets into my relationship with my new wife.  Thanks for helping us become aware of all these things.  Much love to you and yours.”

REVIEW OF MY BOOKS: “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..with a touch of humor i was able to find a sensible place to kick back to enjoy knowing I have always been Loved!!  YOUR advice is like finding a treasure. Thank you so much sharing!”

“I ALWAYS LOVED YOU.” A book about love and relationships.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 1). A book about self-esteem and individuality.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 2). A book about enlightenment and the renaissance of the leader in you.

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Love and anarchy: a poetry chapbook.

This is a poetry review.  I chose to read this one because it brings a new side of life.  I do not smoke.  I do not drink.  I do not choose to see the tragedy in life.  And yet, this work of poetry is very moving, and it expands my mind into understanding other aspects.  You can find love, relationships, the emotional roller coaster in the poet’s life.  There is a hint of depression and addiction here.  It is a mixture of emotions and each line explains the essence of anxiety, joy, sadness, lost love, memories.   

I give this one 4 stars out of 5.

  • I really think life is a tragedy, a theater of our making, a myriad of our most intimate experiences and inner dialogues (or daily self-talk).  And I think the poet tries to bare his experiences, raw and very intimate; thus desires to share that with you.  These experiences may elevate you, or give you a deeper insight into life.  I truly recommend these personal thoughts to you.  Personally, I’ll be reading this again and expanding my understanding into this phenomena roller coaster we call life. 

Straight from the poet’s mind:

My name is Tyler R. Martin I’m am a veteran having served in the US Army and now a published poet living in New York. My poetry attempts to put life under a microscope revealing the good the bad and the horrible. I spend my days chain smoking and drinking bourbon. Enjoy my work!

You can follow Tyler on:

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And if you enjoyed that, please take a moment to visit my work.  I write about self-development, the poetry of the better life, love and relationships.

Review of my books: “I really loved the depth of your approach, specially because sometimes I struggle with low self-esteem and that gets into my relationship with my new wife.  Thanks for helping us become aware of all these things.  Much love to you and yours.”

Review of my books: “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..with a touch of humor i was able to find a sensible place to kick back to enjoy knowing I have always been Loved!!  YOUR advice is like finding a treasure. Thank you so much sharing!”

“I ALWAYS LOVED YOU.” A book about love and relationships.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 1). A book about self-esteem and individuality.

“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 2). A book about enlightenment and the renaissance of the leader in you.

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Love beyond the surface.

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  • Love is not something superficial.  If it were, then the world would be full of people in love, never falling into anger, never falling into violence, never making the same mistakes due to not understanding each other.  So what is true love if not the essence of us…??  We create or build relationships, but true love must be found within oneself.

  • Now, when it comes to relationships, the path of spirituality, of essence must be taken.  You must seek those who can see you for who you are, not someone who only sees your surface.  The surface is what changes–i.e., our moods, our wants, our passions, our loneliness, our frustration, our thoughts of ourselves.  But there is something which does not change.  Love.  So, seek that.  And love others who seek the same.

Review of my books: “I really loved the depth of your approach, specially because sometimes I struggle with low self-esteem and that gets into my relationship with my new wife.  Thanks for helping us become aware of all these things.  Much love to you and yours.”


Review of my books: “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..with a touch of humor i was able to find a sensible place to kick back to enjoy knowing I have always been Loved!!  YOUR advice is like finding a treasure. Thank you so much sharing!”



“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 2). A book about enlightenment and the renaissance of the leader in you.
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Seeing through Things.

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The world fails in wisdom, fails in understanding, fails in seeing truth.  Because man is unable to see this, he creates wars, and bullying, and misunderstanding, and racism, and all kids of aberrations of the mind.  Why…??  Because all wisdom and love do not lie in living life, or in experiences.  You can have 90 years old and it wouldn’t matter.

The key is observing through things.  Not ignoring the pain one feels, but accepting it and learning from it.  If a man loses family, he, instead of depressing himself, should analyze what he feels deep inside and not label it as something bad.  All we go though is a lesson for the observer, not a punishment.

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I have written this book based on this.  That life is change.  And that change, no matter what that is, is love.  To really observe the experience of change is to find the love to learn from it, to thus change ourselves and better ourselves.  Happiness is the inspiration of love.  We must find it.

Inside my book you’ll find different topics, from self-love and self-esteem increase to successful relationships; however, you will also find the truth without coating.  I speak to you directly, not to others.  Because it’s about you.  It’s about self-transformation, not about trying to change others.

A little bit about me:

I dedicate my life to help others.  I am currently writing a fantasy YA (young adult) fiction book titled “BENJAMIN JONES.  The Call of The Shaman.”  Because I deem creativity and understanding the two most important things in life.  Without them, there is no love, no happiness.

I am also into health, as the most important source of physical life is our immune system, and I treat my body as my temple.  Check out my books below as well.  Thanks for reading.


Review of my books: “I really loved the depth of your approach, specially because sometimes I struggle with low self-esteem and that gets into my relationship with my new wife.  Thanks for helping us become aware of all these things.  Much love to you and yours.”


Reviews of my books: “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..with a touch of humor i was able to find a sensible place to kick back to enjoy knowing I have always been Loved!!  YOUR advice is like finding a treasure. Thank you so much sharing!”



“LEAVING THE HERD” (part 2). A book about enlightenment and the renaissance of the leader in you.
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Relationships of honesty.

 

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In any relationship what matters is your daily behavior towards the other person.  One truly knows the affections of another by treatment, by living it, by observing the relationship and its course.  Words are desires in the moment, how we feel; but, as nice as this sounds, they are not reality.  Behavior is reality.

Truth is honesty.  A strong character showing sweetness and respect.  This is what is required to connect and grow a relationship.  And it needs a silent mind.  A mind which does not seek self-satisfaction but honest communion.

 

I write about issues we all live.  Life can be difficult if we don’t have the right inspiration.  Please follow me if you seek this inspiration.  And check out my books below.  Thanks.

Review: “I really loved the depth of your approach, specially because sometimes I struggle with low self-esteem and that gets into my relationship with my new wife.  Thanks for helping us become aware of all these things.  Much love to you and yours.”

Review: “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..with a touch of humor i was able to find a sensible place to kick back to enjoy knowing I have always been Loved!!  YOUR advice is like finding a treasure. Thank you so much sharing!”
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Do you seek inspiration…??

 

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We feel inspired to keep going through the support of others. Always support each other. Strengthen each other and forgive the little things ❤️⭐️🌞

I want to thank the ones who have sent me private messages to tell me you liked my book.  Your support means a lot to me 😃

I ALWAYS LOVED YOU. Creatures of Eternal Love. It is a book about love as the inspiration in yourself to conquer yourself, to love others, and to understand life.

Love what one of my followers said after reading my book, “It allowed me to see another explanation of love..and with a touch of humor..i was able to find a sensible place to kick back and enjoy knowing that I have always been Loved!! YOUR advice are like finding a treasure and I thank you so much sharing!”It is about believing in yourself through sheer commitment to yourself, to inner work, to progress through moral values displayed in daily behaviors.  We are relationship.  We relate to one another.  But it all begins with how you feel about yourself.  The work starts in you. 

I write about issues we all live.  Life can be difficult if we don’t have the right inspiration.  Please follow me if you seek this inspiration.  And check out my books below.  Thanks.

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He who builds walls.

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  • It is quite often that we may encounter people with shifting moods, people stressed, people arguing for any silly thing, people trying to win at all costs.  These people make life and relationships into a competition.  A competition to be won.  And they’ll do anything to win.  This is the issue they carry.  These are the burdens which they allow to guide them.

  • They may fail in communication.  In fact, true communication is emotional.  Emotional connection to another.  And they lack this.  Just know that the fact that they lack this emotional communication is not on you.  Your priority is to seek respect from them.  Respect from yourself.  Let it go.  Walk away and keep your mind free of anger and frustration. 

 


I write about issues we all live.  Life can be difficult if we don’t have the right inspiration.  Please follow me if you seek this inspiration.  And check out my books below.  Thanks.

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This makes a relationship work.

 

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  • We come together in the search of each other.  We are all connected, and yet most of us feel lonely, separated from the whole, by ourselves.  A relationship, intimate, authentic, is about that wholeness.  Coming together to support and love one another.  In this, there is great freedom.
  • What makes a relationship work is this freedom.  Because people are different, and each one of us must be able to be ourselves freely.  We learn from each other.  We communicate with each other without fear of being judged for being ourselves.  This makes a relationship work.

 


I’ve been on this journey for long to finally understand that our minds create our lives and every experience we have. I know we can all better our lives by individual self-development and spiritual understanding. Check out my self-help books to enlighten yourself and others.