To love another
It’s about your mind, not people. To find, and to always keep, a person special for you, your mind has to let go of the painful memories you’ve lived, your mind must become free of judgment, your mind’s duty must be then to stop self-pity and self-doubt.
To love another, to care for another, to see the value in another, is easy if you lose all the fear and anxiety that comes from trying to control the way someone is or the way someone should be. Pay attention: We don’t truly love someone because we need. We love someone because we want.
And wanting to love someone is a decision, and a hearfelt desire, only your mind makes. Is not fate or destiny. Is not a thread connecting 2 hearts. Let’s leave romance aside. Because it’s about your mind, the freedom in it from judgment, and the capacity to silence its noise.
-THANKS FOR READING-
- Asa Rodriguez - 
3 replies on “That special someone”
You’ve got a point, Asa. Falling in love at first sight often leads to heartbreak, because there’s no thinking.
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Yes. I feel that in order to truly love someone I must know that person. Know that person meaning her past, her moments of joy, her moments of sadness, her dreams, her flaws, her strengths, her likes, her dislikes. I need to feel connected and inspired to grow in that relationship, and this must go beyond just passion and desire to be with her.
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So do I. I’m still hoping I’ll find her someday.
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