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Hidden miracles.

Life might shake us, but there is always a reason. Sometimes life tries to tell you something important, but your mind is too busy. Silence your anxious mind and listen. Learn. Grow.

I remember when my father had just died. The confusion, the anger, the fear and intimidation of facing the world without my father. I was alone with my little brothers and my mother. Barely making enough money to survive. Living in Texas, and in a place very different from where I’d been born and had spent my childhood years. But, after years and years of self-hatred and self-pity, I started to see a light in me. I was so exhausted of failing and torturing myself that I was pushed to observe my own suffering. I had never wanted this life, but I had to deal with it anyway.

Nothing that I did worked and, even worse, I didn’t understand why. I was going to church back then. I was praying. I was taking care of my family. I was a good and decent human being. I was lost. But this light I saw in me was growing. And, not too soon, I learned that quite often our minds are so overwhelmed with our own problems that we miss life. The wholeness of life. And the wholeness of life is where the miracles hide. The miracles are not in religion, or in family, or in the nation, or in the money we make; but they are in the observation.

The observation is the attention we put into life’s moments. But this observing action must be done firstly by silencing the mind. You know, by not being so attached to thoughts of misery and anger, and envy and frustration. Plainly put, by not overthinking and filling the mind with anxiety. Our minds dictate how we feel about life. Life then is filtered through our minds. Life will be whatever the content of your mind is. So, let go of the stress, and of the frustration, and of wanting to control and possess. Flow with life. Do your best, and then let it go. Let it be. Listen to life, but for that keep a mind that is silent and not arrogant. Arrogance and thinking that you must always win and have your way. This is what brings suffering, and failure, and tears into your experience.

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Steering our lives.

We make choices each day, each moment, whether aware of them or not. We choose what to eat. We choose where to go. We choose how to spend our time. We choose what to think and what thoughts to let rule our thinking and feeling. Outcomes are then results of these choices.

One can believe that one was forced, pushed, made to do something; but, as grown ups, we steer our lives. Some choices we make in ignorance, unaware, and blinded by passions or fears. Some other choices we make knowingly, stressed, or fully clear on what we want. But the worst thing we can do to ourselves, which is exactly what most people do unconsciously, is to remain stubborn and blame others for the direction of our lives.

Life is your mind, meaning that we build our lives as we go. Of course, we might feel pressure, frustration, anger, and the rest; however, the truth still stands. And what is the truth…?? The truth is that our choices make our habits, our behaviors, and everything we experience. While you are reading this, you are probably coming up with excuses to blame your life on others. But deep inside you, you know the truth. Live that truth. Stop the excuses and self-pity.


 

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A prayer in your heart.

 

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  • Keep a prayer in your heart.  Not a religious prayer.  But a prayer which arises from gratitude, without holding fear or insecurity, and it is something which inspires you during your day.  This prayer is a constant joy in you, not a mechanical process of kneeling and crossing your arms in the morning.  But something alive in you, constant, inspiring, exceptional.

  • We all need that inspiration.  You can act strongly and confidently, but deep inside we all have moments of trouble, of insecurity, of intimidation.  That is why a prayer, a positive mindset, a loving attitude, is a must.  Enjoying the beauty of a flower in the fields is a prayer.  Listening to children play in the neighborhood is a prayer.  Putting kindness and communication into your relationship is a prayer.  Don’t close your heart, but open it.

 


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Go for what you want.

 

Do not pay attention to people who belittle your goals and dreams.  If you do not build your own life, who will do it for you…??  If you do not stay focused on what really matters to you, then what will become of you…??

Life’s experiences are a reflection of how you feel, of the state of mind you carry, of your true identity and confidence.  Your mind must be focused in order to create commitment, in order to create value in your goals and dreams constantly.

You cannot expect commitment without patience though.  Go for what you want, never stop, become strong in your heartfelt desires; but carry always patience, seek always value in your goals and dreams.  Do not pay attention to people who tell you otherwise.  What are your true desires…??

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Quiet observance.

 

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One recognizes another when there is quiet observance, a stillness of the mind without prejudice and without looking with the eyes of the past.  And sometimes it happens that we judge a person based on a group, or based on gossip, or based on anger and frustration we carry from our own life.

Someone did this in the past, so I do not like this person now.  This group is known for this, so I despise this particular person belonging to this same group.  I hate all men, or women, because in my life men, or women, make my life miserable.

Learn to see this prejudice in yourself, which many times might be subconscious and built into your mindset due to your own conditioning.  Practice opening your mind, judging by facts in the present; and so seeing people for who they really are.

 

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Amidst challenges and fears…

 

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To believe in yourself is to let go of your mistakes belonging to past memories, to learn from them and make better choices from now on.

To believe in yourself is to inquire deeply into your psychological traumas and fears, and so to rise above them and lead your life without those burdens.

If you carry your burdens without inquiring into them, without facing them, without understanding why you choose to suffer them, then there is no belief in yourself; for carrying your sorrows will block you from positivity and strength to see the best in you.

To believe in yourself then is to have faith in yourself.  Now, to truly have faith in yourself IS NOT to blindly hope that something good will happen in your life; but it is to ACTUALLY believe (as fact), trust, acknowledge your strengths now so you can lead yourself to a better life moving forward.

Nothing can be accomplished, inwardly and also outwardly, without believing in yourself.  You can put your trust, commitment, faith in others; however, this is just an escape if you do not actually believe in you.

So, learn to see your strengths and adopt positive attitudes towards yourself, even amidst challenges and fears, because this is the only path to transforming yourself into a better person, and your life into a better life.

 

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Apply to yourself.

How do you actually change yourself…?? What is the mental process which facilitates your actual change of behavior and thus lifestyle…??  Having high moral character as a human being does not have much to do only with the words you speak and merely the thoughts you entertain; however important these are, what actually makes you a better, truthful, awakened human being is your actions.  This seems silly even, but the truth is that most people have great knowledge and speak kind and wise words while their actions are not wise at all.

This is because the ego of people tend to wallow in comfort like pigs wallow in mud, the ego is self-righteous; thus, most of us believe that by getting spiritual or wise knowledge and getting a mouthful of enlightening words one has high standards of morality and walks the right path.  They read the scriptures, listen to wise words, pray, meditate, acquire great knowledge; but they never actually apply any of it, they are empty souls fooling themselves at each step they take.  So, what is the mindset they should have to begin the change in their lives…??

The mindset they MUST have is that of love for themselves, love for individual change, love for their path of righteousness.  And yes, when you apply yourself and you change out of true love for yourself you may find some discomfort at the beginning, because it takes time to accept a new behavior and change your lifestyle, and because your ego may disturb you and tempt you into falling into the same old pattern; nevertheless, the rewards of constantly changing and acquiring higher levels of morality are your own enlightenment through the awakening of your conscience to make better choices in your life.

So, the key to change is to APPLY what you learn, what you read.  For example, many people fill their mouths with Jesus and how great he was, and how he taught love and tolerance; however, these same people do not tolerate other nations, they abhor immigrants, feel superior to other religions, and have many problems at their own homes due to their lack of comprehension of love and tolerance.  See, no one is above these mistakes, so one must be constantly self-aware and APPLY to oneself what one knows to be true, says as truth, and reads as truth.

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