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Full of confidence

 “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” 

~ Eleanor Roosevelt

There is no worst enemy than one’s self-pity. There is no greater obstacle you bring to yourself than overthinking and analyzing something to death. Life is to be lived with courage, the successful life that is. But, of course, we all feel lack of confidence, some self-pity, maybe sadness about ourselves and where we’re going in life at times. Or perhaps, when one is lacking self-awareness, we tend to secretly compare ourselves to others. That is human and we all do it. But the truth is that this kind of mental behavior does not help us in any way. We human beings are meant to be ourselves, unique; and it is why each of us has a different experience, each of us feels different, each of us carries our own styles and ways of thinking.

This might sound harsh, but a great life is only for the brave among us. By brave I mean the ones who leave our pasts behind, the ones who are absolutely ourselves, the ones who do put importance to what others think and feel about us. It is my life and I experience and learn from myself, for myself.

This is not selfishness. This is empowering ourselves. This is saying ‘I create what I want, with patience, with courage, with love for myself; and it might go against what society teaches and does, but still it is all about my happiness, growing in character and in confidence.‘

The fact is that we are what we daily think. If we daily think we can’t do something, or be something, or achieve something, than we are that. And we so become what we daily think. Because what we daily think about ourselves becomes great part of our subconscious, which means it becomes who we are in all situations in life. Life is no more than this. Life becomes this. What I do is to be positive in spite of whatever goes on around me. People do not matter because they cannot live your life. Each one of us lives our own. So focus on your life. What do you think about yourself right now?? How is that helping you?? Why do you think that?? Are you comparing yourself to others?? Are you living in past mistakes?? Are you living in past, hurtful memories??

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I ALWAYS LOVED YOU

Love is at the very core of life. No concepts from society. No concepts from our egos. Love is action. And if you feel true love for yourself, for others, for the world, then you become confident, you lose anxiety and drama in your life, you become the lover. A better and kinder lover. A lover of life.

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How do you gain confidence…??

How do you become stronger, sharper, more able to lead yourself in life with success??

When you start saying in your head that you are love, that you are beautiful, that you are enough, then you start feeling that in time. And when this happens you give yourself the charm, the magnetic pull, the energy to be more and to attract more in life–in relationships and in all situations. But how do you accomplish this…?? One day at a time. Don’t expect everything to come to you when you want it. Be patient with yourself. Each thought, each day, creates your feelings; and this feeling becomes you, and in time it becomes your persona, your character.

This happens subconsciously and it makes you either weaker, shyer, more influenced by society, or stronger, more confident, less influenced by society and more unique. It all depends on your thoughts about yourself daily. Do you remain anxious?? Do you forgive yourself, your mistakes, your past?? Do you belittle yourself in any way?? We are all possible of being great, confident, to achieve our goals; however, we need to become aware of our self-talk, and we must raise ourselves from feeling down and unsuccessful. This is an individual process, nobody can help you; but you have to do it, train your own mind daily to react and respond better to yourself and to others.

When you carry a lot of guilt, anxiety, anger, and even frustration in you, then you become a magnet for bad things, for more of the same. But if you keep your mind free of this and calmed, then you attract good things into your life, and so you get to enjoy more your life. And you become more attractive to yourself and to others, and this gives you confidence to explore other ways, to find solutions, to raise yourself above your problems. And your mood improves, which means you can now understand life better and act more positively in it.

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Go for what you want.

 

Do not pay attention to people who belittle your goals and dreams.  If you do not build your own life, who will do it for you…??  If you do not stay focused on what really matters to you, then what will become of you…??

Life’s experiences are a reflection of how you feel, of the state of mind you carry, of your true identity and confidence.  Your mind must be focused in order to create commitment, in order to create value in your goals and dreams constantly.

You cannot expect commitment without patience though.  Go for what you want, never stop, become strong in your heartfelt desires; but carry always patience, seek always value in your goals and dreams.  Do not pay attention to people who tell you otherwise.  What are your true desires…??

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Road to success.

 

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No scriptures. No prayers to your imagination in the skies.  No hoping for a miracle.  You must realize your potential and rise up to the challenge. Believing in yourself is to direct your attention inwardly, where you find confidence and knowledge of self.
Nothing is going to help you succeed, be saved, become a better human creature, unless you reach inside you.  Deny the voices in your head, those egoistical and ignorant voices that tell you to seek help outside yourself–i.e., in scriptures, in religions, in other people, in beliefs and theories of the pitiful masses.
True and powerful confidence comes from an absolute belief in yourself.  And this is my own experience after years of personal struggle.  I had to learn that success is really in how you feel about your own life.  Because success is inner and not outer.

 

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Let it go.

 

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This is something I talk about in my book and try to bring to the attention of the reader, so they may apply it in their lives.  The importance of letting go.  The importance of detachment.  How this is crucial for learning to love your life, yourself, and others; because it is all about this.

If you let things go, if you detach yourself from prejudice and complaining, you will see more clearly and feel more liberated from your burdens.  Difficult times are not here to destroy you or to make you suffer, but they are here to give you the opportunity to challenge yourself and become a better human being.

But you have to see this yourself, so you can gain patience and confidence in your daily life.  Unless you see the wisdom in this, nothing can help you through your troubles.  So, step outside of your ego, of your personal opinions and prejudice; and stop playing the victim.  Rise up and realize this.  Allow your mind to be free from unnecessary drama.

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Steps to Enlightenment.

 

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Stupid is to believe that you are thinking without really inquiring and realizing what you are doing.  Being unconscious is the choice you make, and to wake up, if you truly desire it that is, starts step by step.

Start with health, because if you are not truly healthy then no awakening is possible, no intelligence will flourish, and your brain will not function properly to allow you to see reality as it is.

You need great amounts of energy to wake up from stupidity, to awaken, to enlighten yourself; and so, health brings you that clean, vast energy.  Be honest with yourself:  Are you eating healthy…?? 

Are you consuming fruits and vegetables and adding all the nutrients that your body needs, or are you always choosing unhealthy foods and making excuses??

I choose health above ALL else personally.  I do a quick research on the foods I eat, what nutrients they have, what they do to my body specifically.  Health leads you to feel good about yourself, feeling good about yourself helps you have a clear thinking and confidence for everything you do.


Just following thoughts and imitating others and the way they eat is what being stupid really is.   And don’t eat with your ego, but eat with intelligence.  So, next time you think is difficult to awaken, think that awakening, intelligence, enlightenment, starts with the morality of health.  Stop your pitiful excuses.

 

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See yourself.

 

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So, if you are confident and strong you do not have chains, you do not feel the need to belong, to get the attention of others and to boost your own ego.  But, sadly, this is not the case of most people, as good, well-intentioned, and decent as they might be.

Vanity, self-absorption, an obsessive and unconscious angst leads people to seek validation from others, to seek to prove themselves to others.   This people escape themselves by competing with others, by designing ways to create something which makes them stand out, show off, and separate themselves from the rest.

The most unconscious in this are politics and religion (and the people who practices these abominations)–i.e., the engines of immorality and divide in the world.

And this comes about because there is loneliness inside, and anxiety, and there is no identity in the individual.  See, when one has identity, or feels identity, there is no need to prove yourself to others in order to fit in or belong.

Being one with yourself requires no seeking to belong.  When you feel truly whole, what can the masses offer you really??  You have to take time out of your day and see this truth in yourself, silently, confidently.

Observe how the ignorance in the world moves, how people are obsessed with needing to belong to this and that, so you can free yourself and stop imitating them.  And that very enlightenment will change you completely, and steer your life in a better, more clear direction.

 

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Passion and Commitment to your Cause.

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To be truly effective, to bring good change, to deliver with efficacy and integrity in life, one must be loyal to oneself and to one’s purpose; for it is not enough to desire something, because a mere desire is of the ego, thus weak and easily influenced and corrupted, and soon you may get distracted or even lose commitment to that same purpose.

So there has to be a higher level of loyalty and commitment in you in order to create great effectiveness in whatever you do.  Many who start a diet and eating healthy, for example, fail and soon return to their unhealthy habits.

And many who truly make an effort to love unconditionally soon collapse and find themselves not truly loving anymore, perhaps struggling to accept another and care for another and even oneself.

Same happens in any aspect of life.  You must develop clarity and understanding of the specifics of that purpose, and this will give you balance and strong commitment, which in turn will solidify your desire and transmute it into a burning passion.

But this attitude and commitment to be effective in what you want or desire must also be based on integrity of character, on higher moral values; for higher moral values will keep that passion and commitment burning, for higher moral values are based on your inner joy and well-being and not on outside circumstances which can be outside your control.

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A visionary.

Fear brings anger, confusion, stress, anxiety, envy, and all forms of distortion of reality in the mind of man. And all this affects our characters, behaviors, ways of thinking, and it even limits our ideas and capacity for understanding.  The pessimist lives with this fear in his/her mind.

Of course, most of the time this fear lives in the pessimist unbeknownst to him, so he remains unaware that it is there controlling his thought, feel, and behavior; and that is exactly why the pessimist cannot see it in himself, so he thinks it is normal to live life like this.

The outcome of this is that the mind is so used to living in this sewage of fear and stress that it clouds conscience, the light in things, even reason at times; in this manner, the pessimist’s mind sees most of the darkness and the ugliness in things, he subconsciously seeks for the bad or difficult in situations, and he avoids change and moments which make him uncomfortable and bring a challenge to his way of thinking.

Obviously, one must always search for the light in things, the capacity in oneself to learn from a bad moment, the opportunity that is to be discovered in darkness, without any fear or anxiety, without labeling or judging a person or a situation ahead of time, and even remaining patient and contented when something happens which is not expected.

So you can become a person who brings power and confidence to your very life, and you develop your character with wisdom and love to see the positive on everything.  This is to be intelligent.

 

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To be intelligent is to be brave. 

To be brave is to see past the chaos and the ugliness of things.

To be brave is to create a world of order and light in a world of disorder and darkness. 

And this is to be a visionary.

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