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My experience with moving on

“The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence; the past is a place of learning, not a place of living.”

― Roy T. Bennett

Lately I’ve been thinking about my twin baby sisters, which died before birth due to complications with contractions and the umbilical cord. Don’t really want to bring it up with my mom, in case there is still some painful memories in her. But, questions still linger in me: What would they look like today?? Would they be religious like my mother or in the path of awakening and self-discovery like me?? Interesting how things happen in life, and that everything happens for a reason.

If they were alive today, and so was my brother and father, how different life would be for me. How evolution takes its course in the direction set by each change, and so life takes shape. The main thing is to be grateful of how things are, however the situation might be currently. We evolve, take certain paths, and we have the opportunity to learn as well. I wouldn’t be who I am today if things were different. I learn from the pain. I either evolve from it or not. But absorbing the lessons in my life is always up to me. Remaining stuck to my past does not help me build my life and move forward.

One must acknowledge first that life is now, and that from being totally present now, then we can successfully evolve. Because we all carry burdens, pain, things which were tragic for us; but the real key to love and happiness is creating new experiences, and to do this we require courage. Now, courage, being brave, even strong willingness to move on, does not exist if we remain attached to the past. The past, the hurt, the things lived. These are there to make us stronger, to allow us to become better, to learn and move on. Stepping stones, and not burdens to stop us from creating a better future.


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Let it go.

What makes people act in harmful ways towards themselves and towards others…??

What they carry inside becomes quite often the monster and the tragedy of their present lives.

The secret is to let go, lose your attachment, practice better habits, and create new inspirations and new ways of thinking. Because we all carry our burdens, our challenges, and even past memories which might be coming back to haunt our present; but it is extremely important for your health to be more easygoing, more accepting, without less judgment and without making a big deal out of everything. Your mind and body requires you to accept yourself as you are, with all the burdens, flaws, mistakes, and things you secretly struggle to hide. This is the enemy. By hiding it, by escaping it, you give it more strength, more energy to alter your personality and make you choose wrongly in life.


And nothing is more damaging to the way we think and feel than being uptight and not flexible to life’s up and downs. Whatever happened, let it go. And whatever is bothering you now, is not actually bothering you. What presents itself as annoying, burdensome, challenging, is your own ego, your preconceived notion of things and your attachment to the way you want things to be. Let your mind rest, without all this anxiety and rigid perspectives of things. Your ego makes you act out and subconsciously you create a toxic program, a mental habit which creates more burdens and problems for you to believe as real


So, you are your own enemy; but you don’t even know it. Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer. Become acquainted with your enemy (ego) and learn to become more relaxed and adventurous. Don’t put the effort into thinking more ways to be anxious and upset; but put that effort instead into creating better habits, new thoughts, new perspectives, and to make yourself more understanding and creative in terms of life changes. Life goes well. Life goes not as well. We all go through this roller coaster. But the secret is to remain new all the time. Don’t let it consume you. Think freshly. Be more flexible. Not only for your relationships with people, but also for the relationship with yourself, with your past, with your present, with your thoughts of a future, and for that relationship with life itself.


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Reconnecting.

Nothing is more hurtful and it brings more anxiety to your mind than to hold on to the past, to the loss, to the tragedy, to the injustice, to what did or did not happen. How can someone possibly be happy like this…?? No, you can pretend; but you can never truly be happy attached to your past. This is very personal, but at some point in your life journey you must stop your stressed, anxious and stubborn mind to see this, to acknowledge that you cannot heal if you feed your addiction to what happened.

Your path to healing is one of love, but you cannot fight yourself and struggle in the process; because if you do, you are just widening the gap between unhealthy and healthy. Widening the gap is to resist to healing, because you are attached to whatever hurt you, or to whatever you allowed to hurt you. This is what intensifies the hurt or the chaos in you. Can’t you see this…??

So, it is about reconnecting with yourself, with your happier self and the one part in you which is not attached to the past. You are responsible for this reconnecting. You can feel you need it. And in order to achieve it, you must detach from the old to build the new. We always talk about love, but love cannot truly exist in your mind if you remain attached to the hurt, to the loss, to the struggle.

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Faithful to the horizon.

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  • I am all about letting go of the past.  About detachment from negative memories which bring self-pity and intimidation into our lives.  I write about this because life must be looked though positive and inspired eyes.  A life which is lived otherwise is a life which is painful, struggle, frustration, burden.

  • Each one of us is different, and that is our strength.  Each one of us suffered loss, heartbreak, tragedy, abuse at some level.  We must remind ourselves that we have done this, and that we are still going.  Let this be your inspiration  to keep moving.   
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The Alignment.

 

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  • What is the most important in order to heal and move on…??  It is extremely important to let go.  Past hurts, losses, heartaches, abuse, neglect.  All this anger and frustration inside us.  This does not allow us to align with life.  Aligning with life is a harmonious mind which moves on.  Life is a miracle, but you cannot experience the miracle unless you align with life.  Appreciate life.

  • I am all about self-development, moving on and letting go, freedom from the past and from society’s influence.  I am not shy about it.  It is about truth and love, but also about not fearing to say it to others, less to yourself.

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Healing and moving on.

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  • Remaining angry, frustrated, full of envy and upset.  Where is that taking you…??  The mind fills itself with all this anxiety, and when this happens we forget about love, intelligence leaves us, and solutions cannot be reached.

  • But when you forgive, you empty your mind of its poison and you are ready to heal.  And you forgive and let go, but you do it for yourself; so you can think clearly and focus on moving on.  This is the heart of self-development, self-love, self-care.


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Are you stuck in life…??

 

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Resisting to any change, to any end of relationship, to any drama, to anything at all in your life, is to bring tension into your mind.  It is to keep a mind of anxiety.  Perhaps melancholy.  Maybe self-pity.

Or oftentimes we dwell on lost opportunities and wrong choices.  It is all resisting to change.  So let it flow, because change is the new you.  The old you is gone.  Move on.  Life is ever moving.

What do you have to lose…??  Why are you so afraid??  Who are you if you remain attached to the old??  Let it come as it may

 


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Let it go.

 

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This is something I talk about in my book and try to bring to the attention of the reader, so they may apply it in their lives.  The importance of letting go.  The importance of detachment.  How this is crucial for learning to love your life, yourself, and others; because it is all about this.

If you let things go, if you detach yourself from prejudice and complaining, you will see more clearly and feel more liberated from your burdens.  Difficult times are not here to destroy you or to make you suffer, but they are here to give you the opportunity to challenge yourself and become a better human being.

But you have to see this yourself, so you can gain patience and confidence in your daily life.  Unless you see the wisdom in this, nothing can help you through your troubles.  So, step outside of your ego, of your personal opinions and prejudice; and stop playing the victim.  Rise up and realize this.  Allow your mind to be free from unnecessary drama.


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For yourself.

 

 

Stop controlling, believing, philosophizing, and struggling to love life, to love in relationships. You show affections, in all aspect, by letting go, by maintaining your mind pure and anxiety free. Love for yourself, not for others. Always for yourself.
I asked a bird

I asked a singing bird who flew in my room,
“How can you sing in this world of darkness??”
She said, “I sing in spite of the darkness,
I sing to flame the fire that shines in the dark.”
And I asked, “And how can you fly worry free??”
She flew to me and said, “To worry free I fly.
I fly to love singing every day without worry.”
If you love someone, you let her go and be;
Like a bird who flies and sings every day,
For all life is must remain free to be true love.

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The moon talks about us tonight.

Ever enjoyed silent nights out on the porch or the yard, just you and the stars above…??  Ever stopped your mind from rushing and thinking, and just enjoyed what is…??  We tend to keep busy with all these plans and activities, all this stress and frustration, ideals and work to do, but this is just avoiding ourselves, keeping ourselves distant.  And yes, we all have our challenges, pressures, difficulties, and these must be attended and fixed; however, this activity is not creating energy but taking away energy, taking us away from ever finding that silent place within ourselves where true love and happiness live. 
And most people is so used to running around and intensely thinking all day that they miss themselves, their attention is always on the world and on their problems and appointments.  But is this all there is to life…??  Perhaps, to be one with yourself, recharge yourself, allow yourself to just be, and to let go of mind and all ego, one must stop for a moment and enjoy a moment under the stars or a moment of pure silence where your attention is on you and God’s nature, just being, just feeling yourself and nature without the complications of an unruly and rushing thought…

“The moon talks about us tonight.”

All I ever knew was how you felt,
All my deep passions and desires,
All my foolish wars and past hurt,
All my selfish and worthless blurt.
Tonight under the magic of the moon,
As I allow myself to stop my thought
And feel you without any mental holds,
Away my ego as my dear you unfolds.
I had searched day and night for you,
But my search had been in great vain;
For you were not in the world I knew,
But you were within me in plain view.
And the moon talks about us tonight,
She says we are the greatest lovers;
Its magical light bathes us in eternity,
So we stay ever together in serenity.

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That mysterious pull of the moon, influencing oceans and its tides.  And the human body is made mostly of water also, so we may feel the influence of the moon on us when we allow ourselves to step out of our heads and in touch with our emotions, silently, just being, in touch with what is.


 

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