This is something I talk about in my book and try to bring to the attention of the reader, so they may apply it in their lives. The importance of letting go. The importance of detachment. How this is crucial for learning to love your life, yourself, and others; because it is all about this.
If you let things go, if you detach yourself from prejudice and complaining, you will see more clearly and feel more liberated from your burdens. Difficult times are not here to destroy you or to make you suffer, but they are here to give you the opportunity to challenge yourself and become a better human being.
But you have to see this yourself, so you can gain patience and confidence in your daily life. Unless you see the wisdom in this, nothing can help you through your troubles. So, step outside of your ego, of your personal opinions and prejudice; and stop playing the victim. Rise up and realize this. Allow your mind to be free from unnecessary drama.