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Hidden miracles.

Life might shake us, but there is always a reason. Sometimes life tries to tell you something important, but your mind is too busy. Silence your anxious mind and listen. Learn. Grow.

I remember when my father had just died. The confusion, the anger, the fear and intimidation of facing the world without my father. I was alone with my little brothers and my mother. Barely making enough money to survive. Living in Texas, and in a place very different from where I’d been born and had spent my childhood years. But, after years and years of self-hatred and self-pity, I started to see a light in me. I was so exhausted of failing and torturing myself that I was pushed to observe my own suffering. I had never wanted this life, but I had to deal with it anyway.

Nothing that I did worked and, even worse, I didn’t understand why. I was going to church back then. I was praying. I was taking care of my family. I was a good and decent human being. I was lost. But this light I saw in me was growing. And, not too soon, I learned that quite often our minds are so overwhelmed with our own problems that we miss life. The wholeness of life. And the wholeness of life is where the miracles hide. The miracles are not in religion, or in family, or in the nation, or in the money we make; but they are in the observation.

The observation is the attention we put into life’s moments. But this observing action must be done firstly by silencing the mind. You know, by not being so attached to thoughts of misery and anger, and envy and frustration. Plainly put, by not overthinking and filling the mind with anxiety. Our minds dictate how we feel about life. Life then is filtered through our minds. Life will be whatever the content of your mind is. So, let go of the stress, and of the frustration, and of wanting to control and possess. Flow with life. Do your best, and then let it go. Let it be. Listen to life, but for that keep a mind that is silent and not arrogant. Arrogance and thinking that you must always win and have your way. This is what brings suffering, and failure, and tears into your experience.


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Missing someone.



And what is life if not experiences, lessons, moments in time, memories of joy and of suffering…??  It is all meant for some higher reason.  Don’t seek the reason.  Just observe the memories.  Don’t attach yourself and your current life to these memories, but learn from them.  Miss someone if you must, but observe the inspiration, the beauty it might bring.  Don’t be quick to reject it.

Rejection, running away from memories and what we have lived, brings suffering.  Because these memories are a part of you now, whether you like it or not.  So, learn to respect your memories with understanding, with love; because, if you don’t, then your mind will become angry and frustrated, and this generates great suffering in your life.

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Love must be observed carefully and not be a reactive impulse.  Some people are quick to love, when they are only seeking validation from their target.  This people do not know true love, but they are only seeking you to validate them and how they feel about themselves.  This is needy, clingy people.

Some other people show affection by honest behavior, without words, without labels.  They just give with joy, they comprehend the patient process of affection.  This people have a greater chance at true love, because they pace themselves and build trust.

Always observe the people around you–i.e., your family, friends, lovers, even in marriages of a long time.  People have different ideas of love and sometimes they distort their affections towards another.  You know love by close observation of behavior.





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Your responsibility.




You must worry, concern, work on yourself, develop integrity in all things, become healthier, react less and control your emotional outbursts, etc.

That is your only responsibility in life, because when you are successfully doing this, taking care of awakening yourself, then you can consciously do for others.

There are people out there, even among you, who are always trying to control others, looking at others, judging others; however, what is really needed is self-observation, judging and transforming yourself daily.

Strive for perfection. You cannot ever attain perfection in this life, obviously; nevertheless, if you seek perfection your mind will be centered on your innermost and in making yourself healthier, more moral, less egoistical, and you will be observing yourself through the eyes of pure wisdom constantly.

If you do this then you will not be centered on others, and judging others, and stressing about others; for your mind will be at peace, looking inwardly, without the anxiety the world brings, and so harmonious to make better decisions in life.

To feel deep and care about others is one thing, but to believe yourself to be not the problem and to judge others without judging yourself is utterly pompous and ignorant. Many people do this nonsense. Do you??

The moment you say that you do not do it, you are automatically believing yourself not to be the problem and so finger-pointing at or blaming others. So, look inwardly, past your own sanctimonious thoughts, and study yourself, whether you are 20 or 90 years old.




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The flame surrounded by darkness.

You must be able to see beyond agreement or disagreement in what I write.  You must be able to see art and truth beyond drawings, words, or beautifully embellished speeches.  When you see a flower, you tell yourself that it is beautiful or not; thus your thought pops up and beautifies or dirties that flower.  You are no longer seeing the flower but you are seeing the image thought has built in your mind; and when this happens there can be no insight.
Drop the mind, so insight appears in conscious view….
And what do you think insight is…??  Insight is emptiness.  Insight is direct knowing.  Insight is not concentration.  Insight is absolute intuition power.  Insight is the emptiness between two thoughts; and when thoughts never stop coming up, as usually happens with the mind, insight is lost and buried under thoughts.  Thoughts are objects I can transfer into your mind through my words, but insight is divine and non-transferable.  An individual experience…  Can you see this without agreeing or disagreeing with me, or without having thought study what you read here…??–if you can, then you see it!  Therefore, it is a divine insight rising from the depths of you.

Insight is not any effort, because the conscious mind is effort and insight comes from deeper.  When you read and make an effort to understand, when you see a work of art and study carefully its meaning hidden to you, when you are in a relationship which brings some level of inquiry and confusion into your mind, there is no insight; however good or bad to you, there is no insight there.  And whatever in not insight is a fabrication of society, of our traditions, of our egos, of our beliefs; thus, useful to understand, but tied to a mechanical process like math or any other subject of knowledge, step by step you study and understand, and so step by step you see the light…

But insight is like a flame, deep buried, innocent, creative, beautiful, powerful like a thousand Suns.  It is buried deep under all that knowledge you have acquired through years and years; and it is buried and surrounded by you darkness, such darkness you fear to look into and where love and happiness dwells…  So divine and eternal love and true happiness are insights, not thoughts or feelings; they are your divinity living in buried emptiness, not your humanity wallowing in mental objects/thoughts…

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Freedom from the enemy.

Is the word, opinion, judgement, or idea which appears in the mind, the actual experience…?? Does a word have reality which can actually hurt you, or is it a word a form of duality from what is actually happening…?? How can anyone really be free and independent if one does not meditate on this deeply…??

Words are powerful constructs in the mind, mechanical, patterns of conditioning mostly; especially negative words which condemn or judge, because these words analyze experiences as they might go for us, as they might be for us, and not experiences as they really are–i.e., “She will break up with me,” “I won’t be good enough,” “I will faint in front of them,” “I will get sick,” “I am not awakened enough to become that,” and so on and so forth.  All thoughts not based on reality.


But all words, negative and positive, are of time, are they not…??  They either describe the past or the future.  You are looking at a flower, you see its colors, its form, you feel mystically enthralled by it or not; so, then comes thought, a word or phrase which says “It is a beautiful flower” or “It is a horrible flower.”  But as soon as these words come into the mind, you are distancing yourself from the actual experience, the actual Now moment, you are labeling the experience as you wish, you are focused on the words and not on the actual substance which connects you to the flower–namely love, which is pure silence.

Words judge for good or bad, they create a description which is not the actual experience; there is an image of the flower in your mind now, that image attracts you to the flower’s form or it repulses you.


This is how all fear, and its many forms of attachment, is born, by a thought which judges and creates a distance between this same word and the actual experience which does not need words.

But by just observing fear, without judging or naming it, you go beyond it, beyond thought, beyond time itself; consequently, you dwell in this silence of the mind which is beyond thought, and this silence is rich, vital, energizing, dynamic, without judgement of any kind, where there is ABSOLUTE freedom from fear–unlike any concept of freedom the intellect or the ego understands.

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“Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.” ~ Bertrand Russell; British philosopher, logician, mathematician, historian, writer, social critic, political activist, and Nobel laureate.


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