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This makes a relationship work.




  • We come together in the search of each other.  We are all connected, and yet most of us feel lonely, separated from the whole, by ourselves.  A relationship, intimate, authentic, is about that wholeness.  Coming together to support and love one another.  In this, there is great freedom.
  • What makes a relationship work is this freedom.  Because people are different, and each one of us must be able to be ourselves freely.  We learn from each other.  We communicate with each other without fear of being judged for being ourselves.  This makes a relationship work.


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Ascension through self-mastery.


Just wanted to let you all know about my new Facebook group “ASCENSION THROUGH SELF-MASTERY.”  Created today.  It is a place where we can all share experiences and whatever messages of awakening and motivation we have.

Personally, to me this group is about connecting with people who seek to better their lives and understand more about themselves and the world.  I am all about self-mastery and greater understanding of the human experience.

Questions or positive and uplifting material is greatly welcomed!  It is a group about making friends and sharing with them.  Expanding our minds through understanding ourselves and others is what ascension is.  Feel welcome to join.

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Pay attention.




Be patient.  Be humble.  Be committed.  Stay on course and focused.  Don’t let negativity, loud and anxious voices in your head, and your stress, bring you down. 

Nothing can disturb you more than your own mind, so focus on self-discipline specially in the midst of hard times.  Keep your mind and body sacred.  Watch what you eat.  Be careful of what you allow into your mind.

Be mindful of your thoughts.  Pay attention to the time you give to others, because people can suck you into their dramas and anxieties.  In order to lead your life successfully, you must be self-aware at all times.





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You know love by…




Love must be observed carefully and not be a reactive impulse.  Some people are quick to love, when they are only seeking validation from their target.  This people do not know true love, but they are only seeking you to validate them and how they feel about themselves.  This is needy, clingy people.

Some other people show affection by honest behavior, without words, without labels.  They just give with joy, they comprehend the patient process of affection.  This people have a greater chance at true love, because they pace themselves and build trust.

Always observe the people around you–i.e., your family, friends, lovers, even in marriages of a long time.  People have different ideas of love and sometimes they distort their affections towards another.  You know love by close observation of behavior.





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Quiet observance.




One recognizes another when there is quiet observance, a stillness of the mind without prejudice and without looking with the eyes of the past.  And sometimes it happens that we judge a person based on a group, or based on gossip, or based on anger and frustration we carry from our own life.

Someone did this in the past, so I do not like this person now.  This group is known for this, so I despise this particular person belonging to this same group.  I hate all men, or women, because in my life men, or women, make my life miserable.

Learn to see this prejudice in yourself, which many times might be subconscious and built into your mindset due to your own conditioning.  Practice opening your mind, judging by facts in the present; and so seeing people for who they really are.





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Daily Interactions.


Each person lives in his own world, in his head and with his preoccupations; and when people interact with you, with the world, they do it under their own terms, based on however they feel and on what fills their minds at the moment.

Remind yourself that each person out there is like a robot, even though they may not understand why.  Each person obeys their own program, their own conditioning, views, beliefs, unique values; and they have been molded by their past, personal experiences.

Once you understand this truly, you will interact, initiate relationships, work and socialize with people and not get affected, irritated, angered by what they say or do.  Your mind will not be attached to them in any way.

Have in mind that you do have your own conditioning as well, but you probably do not see it in yourself as it is a subconscious behavior which may escape your awareness.  Allow yourself to be free from your own conditioning and from the conditioning of others.

Ponder deeply why something bothers you.  Study your thoughts and feelings about yourself and about people.  Internalize that which you meet in your relationships, the challenges and frictions, the difficulties and different views.  Don’t let it bother you and make you anxious, depressed, or disturbed in any way.





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Experiencing your own Enlightenment.




Whatever and whoever you find offensive, bothersome, irritating around you is indeed due to the way you feel inside, the way your chaotic mind is, the way you understand and love yourself; because what you find as experience out there is what you feel as experience in you.

The world, existence, your experience lies in you, and that is not something romantic and philosophical; for your mind truly creates everything, and it all filters through the mechanics of your brain.  Nothing exists but what your mind allows you to see, touch, think, feel, experience.

So, when you are annoyed, hurt, irritated by people, it is a by-product of your inner state, a reflection of your truest and deepest self.  And the more you attend or focus on someone’s flaws, weaknesses, things you do not like, the more you create your own flaws, weaknesses, irritations, etc.

At the end, it all comes down to your inner state of mind, how you feel about yourself, how much or not you love yourself, how harmonious or not you experience yourself.  It all, everything you think you experience coming from outside, comes really from you, it is a reflection of you, literally so.

So, to understand the world, your surroundings, people, environments, nature, then understand yourself.  To love all existence, love yourself entirely.  If you can truly understand and realize this daily, then know that you are blissfully experiencing your own Enlightenment.





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Understanding people.


People are easily swept off their feet, mesmerized, hypnotized, influenced, excited, robbed of morality and rationality by the world around them because they worship their physical senses and the crooked realities they bring them.

And this, obviously, leads them to be unconscious and to envy greedily, to try to feel superior and put others down.  This you must understand about people, ALL people, including the people you care about, the people you least expect, and perhaps you unconsciously do it as well.

This appears to be a sickness in most people when they do not feel whole inside, so they seek to fill their emptiness to feel better about themselves and their lack of integrity.  Some do it consciously, some others unconsciously; however, it is certainly in all unawakened human creature to do this in their different ways, seeking their own self-gratification.

Because people compete with one another, but they do not know it most of the time; and until they bring illumination into themselves (which it might never happen in most cases), their behaviors and intentions are erratic and concealed to their own awareness.

So, one must understand that they do this, and they act out, and they pity themselves at your expense, because of the great void and unhappiness buried deeply within them.  This is the sick game they play.

And to understand this gives you the depth and insight into all your relationships.  And relationships are the very evolution of situations and people you have to master in your journey to be happy; so you may look into people’s unconscious behaviors and gain patience for your own harmony and illumination.



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Another person in your life.




People are physical manifestations of nature’s or consciousness’ evolution, and each one brings an individual purpose and finds it along his/her unique experiences in life.

We are all different, each one of us thinks, feels, behaves differently; and, even when people have grown in the same household and share similar views, we experience things in our own unique manners and with our own ideologies.

And this must be a theme of celebration really, because it is telling us that we all have a different path we are creating constantly, and that we all have the chance to learn to grow in our paths from each other.  No one is lost, or meaningless, or lonely, unless they choose to feel that way.

Sadly, there are unconscious people who choose to feel that way, and so they fall into depression, anxiety, desperation, even suicide.  Now, other people may hurt us, love us, confuse us, make us feel like we are alone; however, in reality these are manifestations to help us move on and learn to become better human beings.

Not many people can see this truth, because most people choose the path of denial and so see other people as perhaps nuisance or curses in their lives; but one must awaken and see past this nonsense, and so realize that we all, each one of us has a purpose, and that we all can help each other in some big or small way.

Your mind just has to be patient and find the purpose of another person in your life.




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The ordinary behind.

What or who is the ordinary man…?? And why is this planet full with the ordinary…?? Society including all its institutions, thousands of years of it, programming minds by popular influence and “education,” growing weeds instead of superior human beings. Is this any surprise…?? “I fear this and that,” “I covet such and such,” “I was not born to accomplish more,” “I judge others based on my own ways of thinking and based on my lifestyle and beliefs,” “The true path of life is to be a perfect saint like Jesus or Buddha,” “It is absolutely necessary to send young men to protect our country by killing other young men.” This is the backwards society and its influence on the mind, perhaps on yours as well.


Why is this though…?? People pretend to be someone else, pretend to act like someone else, pretend to think like someone else, pretend to feel like someone else; and this is the sickness exactly, nobody stands out from the crowd and is truly him/herself. The program runs them like computers that age without even a new program. Idiots everywhere–nice ones claiming to be saints, claiming to live by the truth, claiming to be responsible; but it is all an act to be seen by others, to lie to themselves and keep their old programing. No one explores their subconscious and inquires why they follow and do things the way they do things. Do you inquire into yourself, or are you just another ordinary idiot claiming to be different…??

People claim to know love, compassion, tolerance, understanding, some sort of awakening; however, these same people are “compassionate” by supporting wars and eating animals, these same people also are “intelligent” by reacting like morons to any situation they encounter, these same people “love” by arguing violently and treating their partners like a toy which loses popularity and is tossed into the garbage, Mundanity fills their minds, and they wonder why life is what it is for them, and they complain and come back to make the same stupid mistakes over and over again. Mistakes are great, gold; but only if you truly dedicate time, remain self-aware, and learn from them–then this is how the human being grows and some illumination can bathe the mind. Life is to stop following, stand on your own, embrace the truth and create your unique path; not by asking and wondering and following still, but by inquiring and reaching deeper into yourself, and so being born again and leaving the ordinary behind.



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