Whatever and whoever you find offensive, bothersome, irritating around you is indeed due to the way you feel inside, the way your chaotic mind is, the way you understand and love yourself; because what you find as experience out there is what you feel as experience in you.
The world, existence, your experience lies in you, and that is not something romantic and philosophical; for your mind truly creates everything, and it all filters through the mechanics of your brain. Nothing exists but what your mind allows you to see, touch, think, feel, experience.
So, when you are annoyed, hurt, irritated by people, it is a by-product of your inner state, a reflection of your truest and deepest self. And the more you attend or focus on someone’s flaws, weaknesses, things you do not like, the more you create your own flaws, weaknesses, irritations, etc.
At the end, it all comes down to your inner state of mind, how you feel about yourself, how much or not you love yourself, how harmonious or not you experience yourself. It all, everything you think you experience coming from outside, comes really from you, it is a reflection of you, literally so.
So, to understand the world, your surroundings, people, environments, nature, then understand yourself. To love all existence, love yourself entirely. If you can truly understand and realize this daily, then know that you are blissfully experiencing your own Enlightenment.
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