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Are you frustrated about something…??

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Are you frustrated about something…??  Suffering??  Struggling??  The problem with most adults is that they have forgotten their inner child and lost the sense of wonder and curiosity in life.  Can you see this…?? 

Now immersed in their struggles and burdened by their frustrations, they tend to gravitate towards too much overthinking and serious anxiety about their current lives.  What they have.  What they do not have.  What could happen?!  Why is it so?!  When will I find someone who loves me?!  Why don’t I feel whole?! 

All this comes to the adult’s mind because there is no laughter, no positivity to see opportunity in struggle, no sense of wanting to discover the depth of life further.  This is something to ponder deeply, because, when we lose curiosity and laughter in life, we then fall into struggle and suffering easily.

 

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Road to success.

 

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No scriptures. No prayers to your imagination in the skies.  No hoping for a miracle.  You must realize your potential and rise up to the challenge. Believing in yourself is to direct your attention inwardly, where you find confidence and knowledge of self.
Nothing is going to help you succeed, be saved, become a better human creature, unless you reach inside you.  Deny the voices in your head, those egoistical and ignorant voices that tell you to seek help outside yourself–i.e., in scriptures, in religions, in other people, in beliefs and theories of the pitiful masses.
True and powerful confidence comes from an absolute belief in yourself.  And this is my own experience after years of personal struggle.  I had to learn that success is really in how you feel about your own life.  Because success is inner and not outer.

 

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Let it go.

 

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This is something I talk about in my book and try to bring to the attention of the reader, so they may apply it in their lives.  The importance of letting go.  The importance of detachment.  How this is crucial for learning to love your life, yourself, and others; because it is all about this.

If you let things go, if you detach yourself from prejudice and complaining, you will see more clearly and feel more liberated from your burdens.  Difficult times are not here to destroy you or to make you suffer, but they are here to give you the opportunity to challenge yourself and become a better human being.

But you have to see this yourself, so you can gain patience and confidence in your daily life.  Unless you see the wisdom in this, nothing can help you through your troubles.  So, step outside of your ego, of your personal opinions and prejudice; and stop playing the victim.  Rise up and realize this.  Allow your mind to be free from unnecessary drama.

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I always loved you…

What is love…?? How do you love?? What exactly is it?? Society, friends, family, what we watch, listen, hear, read. It is all a haze. These steer us one way. They say this. They do that. Thought and words do not match people’s actions.

People love with hate, with selfishness, with stubbornness, with jealousy, and so on and so forth. But people still feel lonely though. Some others feel needy. Or neglected. Or anxious. Another group has lost all capacity and desire for love, to love, to be loved… This book is all about this, and more.

We delve into the depths of love, of natural magnetism, of intimacy with ourselves and with another; and we do it without excuses. Excuses are not allowed! This book studies the psychology, as well as the spirituality, in the human experience, in order to awaken the mind and bring light into our lives.

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A book about the essence of love.

Just wanted to introduce my first non-fiction book, “I ALWAYS LOVED YOU – Creatures of Eternal Love.”  Coming soon to Amazon, in e-book and paperback formats.
 
It is written, or divided, in Two Parts:  The first part is about self-love.  And about the meaning and purpose of existence.  Also about the nihilistic mind and how it operates arrogantly as a philosophy in our heads.  It goes in deep into people who feel empty, and lonely, and frustrated with love.  The confusion brought on by relying too much on society’s influence.
 
The second part is about relationships with another.  Romance.  Attraction.  Natural magnetism.  And about the feminine.  Men and women as romantic partners.  Why life and women test the masculine and men.  And many other things….  A little seriousness.  A little comedy.  Storytelling to understand better what is being said.  It carries my style.
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You know love by…

 

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Love must be observed carefully and not be a reactive impulse.  Some people are quick to love, when they are only seeking validation from their target.  This people do not know true love, but they are only seeking you to validate them and how they feel about themselves.  This is needy, clingy people.

Some other people show affection by honest behavior, without words, without labels.  They just give with joy, they comprehend the patient process of affection.  This people have a greater chance at true love, because they pace themselves and build trust.

Always observe the people around you–i.e., your family, friends, lovers, even in marriages of a long time.  People have different ideas of love and sometimes they distort their affections towards another.  You know love by close observation of behavior.

 

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For yourself.

 

 

Stop controlling, believing, philosophizing, and struggling to love life, to love in relationships. You show affections, in all aspect, by letting go, by maintaining your mind pure and anxiety free. Love for yourself, not for others. Always for yourself.
“I asked a bird“

I asked a singing bird who flew in my room,
“How can you sing in this world of darkness??”
She said, “I sing in spite of the darkness,
I sing to flame the fire that shines in the dark.”
And I asked, “And how can you fly worry free??”
She flew to me and said, “To worry free I fly.
I fly to love singing every day without worry.”
If you love someone, you let her go and be;
Like a bird who flies and sings every day,
For all life is must remain free to be true love.

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Worry about your own faults.

 

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Stay with yourself.  Create your feelings, and don’t let others control how you react.  Learn that people cannot be changed by you, they are who they want to be; that is, for better or worse, not your problem.

You must express yourself, be true to yourself; but let people have their beliefs and opinions.  It is not your responsibility to save anyone.  You only point, but let them decide if they will walk in that direction or not.

Stop being so arrogant as to make it your duty to control people and make them see what you see.  Worry about your own faults, your own ego, your own psychological addictions, and open your own eyes.  That is the only responsibility you have.

 

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To truly love and feel loved.

 

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In order to truly love, and feel loved, you must accept everything about yourself.  Come to terms with your past, however ugly and unfair.

Accept that you made mistakes and welcome the lessons.  Accept that others made mistakes or behaved badly towards you, forgive and move on.

Be open emotionally and recognize your own blindness and the fact that you must acknowledge absolutely everything you feel, whether it is miserable or joyful.  Do not fear or escape how you feel.

Understand that you have to create good habits, discipline yourself, in order to have more opportunities in all aspects of life.  Do not limit yourself and feel sad because you see that you cannot be successful at something in particular now.

To love others, to have a great and prosperous relationship and life, you have to love yourself wholly.  This means to know every thought, every feeling, conscious and subconscious, that you have in each moment you are alive.

 

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Chasing…

 

Chasing, becoming anxious about achieving, obsessing, becoming attached and ambitious for something, only ruins your mental peace and your clarity in life.   The way is the inward way.   In life you get everything by detaching yourself from what you desire.

Take for example happiness:  If you chase happiness through money, through sexual and emotional relationships, through fame, through traveling, through any activity, then happiness is not discovered in you, it runs away from your experience.

  Sure, you have moments of pleasure and joy, of excitement and pride; but those die soon, because real happiness is already in you and not in your activities.  Your activities give you wonderful experiences, but these activities pass away in time.  Happiness never dies, because it is constant. 

Or love, for example:  Love is not a product of your relationships with another, sexual affairs, marriage, kids, etc.  Love cannot be chase and grabbed by you, you cannot make it happen by the struggle and demand of your mind.  Love is in you, but you cannot experience it because your mind is always busy chasing something out there.

Greed in chasing after something is what you must kill, so you can become a magnet and attract.  You attract what you become.  The problem is allowing your mind to get envious and desire what others have.  Time is an illusion and you shouldn’t be concerned with it.  Do not run after what you want desperately, and do not obsess about the time in life either; for this makes you a repellent for all things of value to you.

 

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