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Worry about your own faults.

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Post date January 20, 2020
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Stay with yourself. Create your feelings, and don’t let others control how you react. Learn that people cannot be changed by you, they are who they want to be; that is, for better or worse, not your problem.

You must express yourself, be true to yourself; but let people have their beliefs and opinions. It is not your responsibility to save anyone. You only point, but let them decide if they will walk in that direction or not.

Stop being so arrogant as to make it your duty to control people and make them see what you see. Worry about your own faults, your own ego, your own psychological addictions, and open your own eyes. That is the only responsibility you have.

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Allow it to guide you…

You must realize what is really important in your life. You must make a conscious decision between what your intellect tells you and what your heart tells you. A good and prosperous life is not a life guided by intellect, but one guided by the empathy and understanding of your heart; thus, you must live and love untainted by the rigidity and vanity of the ego.

Be aware of the people around you who is decent and who desire the best for you, quite often not perfect but with a pure and honest heart; for these persons might not be well-educated or even have the same ideas, aspirations, and beliefs you have, but they may bring you the emotional drive you need in certain moments of struggle.

History is full of people whose vanity and pride was so big that they left behind their loved ones and the people who truly cared for them just to follow their egos and chase after superficial conquests–i.e., women, men, money, higher class, more hours at their job, etc. etc. Sometimes what we chase is not better per se but pure vainglory, because we are trying to escape our own emptiness, insecurities, feelings of inferiority, and any fears perhaps from past memories.

Honesty is the best policy and so you must be honest with yourself, and make sure you surround yourself with the people that truly loves you and cares for your development; and no matter what happens learn to understand them and forgive their faults, because no one is perfect and we all need each other… In a world which is so vain and superficial, where family, friendship, and love is just the second-class citizen, you must raise yourself above this and become a free and compassionate individual–i.e., remember what is truly important, be guided by your heart…

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Strengthen your character.

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Post date December 20, 2017
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“Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.” ~ Buddha.

“Be Impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.” ~ Don Miguel Ruiz; Mexican author of Toltec spiritualist and neoshamanistic texts.

Quite often we tend to react emotionally to situations and people, destroying trust and distancing ourselves from clarity; and this happens when the mind is overwhelmed and angered, in conversations or even when we keep anger inside that we cannot contain.

So, that is when the mind explodes and careless words come flying out just like daggers thrust to an opponent in battle; however, as in battle, the greatest warriors are the ones who remain calm, the ones who control their reactions, and the ones who turn mental anger and fogginess into mental strength and poise.

See, the fact that you must be firm and serious in your battle, in your work, in your conversation with another, does not mean you have to be careless and hurtful with your words.

Now, you must understand that when you let your mind explode and you say whatever comes out of your mouth, you are not just hurting others but you are hurting yourself; for in this process you condition your mind, your character, subconsciously perhaps, to be subjected to this poison which runs now throughout your whole system.

You not only destroy your own integrity and peace of mind, but you destroy opportunities and distance yourself from people that now see you as this ego-centered bully; furthermore, your thoughts and words of anger or incomprehension release energy which is negative and attract all sorts of stressing situations into your life.

Your character develops strength based on the control on your reactions and the intentions you carry in thoughts and words.

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Be patient, wait to respond or formulate your message, remain clear and do not allow your emotions to cloud your thinking.

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Higher standards.

“You can’t please everyone. When you’re too focused on living up to other people’s standards, you aren’t spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it’s all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems!” ~ Kris Carr; American health author, wellness activist, and cancer survivor.

“Any time you sincerely want to make a change, the first thing you must do is to raise your standards. When people ask me what really changed my life eight years ago, I tell them that absolutely the most important thin was changing what I demanded of myself. I wrote down all the things I would no longer accept in my life, all the things I would no longer tolerate, and all the things that I aspired to becoming.” ~ Tony Robbins; American author, entrepreneur, philanthropist and life coach.

Most people in this world act like they do not like themselves, as they dumb themselves down for other people just to fit in with the fools of a group, whether family or friends, and as they engage in their own depressive thinking while putting themselves down in front of a mirror also; thus lowering their own standards to mediocrity and self-pity every day more and more.

They are like beggars asking for love and attention, mistreating themselves and belittling themselves and their lives; consequently, this shrinks the human mind and brings all sorts of distortions of reality.

And because you cannot see reality now, namely that you can do more and be more for yourself, you drown in your own ego while you distance yourself from all self-love which can help you experience all happiness.

There is no more love you can have towards yourself than self-respect, because this self-respect creates mighty confidence and strength from within so you can say no to lower standards in the world, so you can raise yourself above those negative thoughts you may have and the inferior influence from people around you.

So, remind yourself that self-discipline in this is to love yourself and care enough to create the greatest life for you. Worry and work on yourself, do not listen to others. You are THE ONLY creator of your life.

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As pure gold.

“To free us from the expectations of others, to give us back to ourselves—there lies the great, singular power of self-respect.” ~ Joan Didion; American journalist and writer of novels, plays, screenplays, and autobiographical works.

“That you may retain your self-respect, it is better to displease the people by doing what you know is right, than to temporarily please them by doing what you know is wrong.” ~ William J. H. Boetcker; German minister and motivational speaker.

As pure gold

As the concealed mysteries of the deep seas,

As the creatures which no eyes have ever seen,

There is the glorious purity of your soul

As profound and valuable as pure gold;

For it is in thee that life is appreciated,

For it is in thee that such is elevated.

All the kind people one loves and cherishes

May be as the light bulb which flickers in the dark,

The light which changes intensity as mood,

The light which guides and obscures the truth.

They may ask and demand, rob you of your option,

Where the light is faint, where truth is distortion.

The rose blooms under the light of the warm Sun;

You and I develop under the warmth of self-respect.

To master the space and the planets is nothing;

To master the Eternal Love in thee is everything.

Why give knowing that they will just take and take…??

If you always give, play the fool, your love is fake.

The repeated mistakes of good and decent people,

To give and forgive about the love for themselves,

To expect the beast to change when it lives by instinct.

But to love oneself is the glorious purity of your soul,

To know that you are as profound and valuable as pure gold.

~ Asa.

Don't you know yet...__Your light shines by beingnourished with self-love.Enrich yourself first, not others.

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Without chains.

“When I am able to resist the temptation to judge others, I can see them as teachers.” ~ Gerald Jampolsky; psychiatrist and author.

“The ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.” ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti; spiritual teacher, philosopher, and author.

We should never judge others and what they’re going through, because even though our thinking might tell us that we understand, such thinking is never the experience itself; so, in order to really understand, one must listen without judgement in one’s own thoughts.

The way one experiences a challenge in life is going to be different than the experience someone else has, because it is the human mind which translates the experience.

The human mind works differently in each one of us–i.e., when something is deeply challenging to someone, that same something might be not as deeply challenging to someone else, or vice-versa.

Misunderstandings and personalities driven by pure ego are the main reasons for broken friendships and all more intimate relationships, and this obviously happens because people judge without really listening and opening their hearts to a higher intelligence.

The highest intelligence is not in the brain, is not the I.Q.–i.e., the I.Q. only recognizes similar patterns and solves problems based on books and the experiences it has gone through, so it judges purely on these terms; however, the human condition, human experience, goes deeper than what can be analyzed by books and by cold patterns and measures from thought.

Never assume that knowing the psychology of someone entitles you to know and judge that person and the way he thinks exactly. Experiences and the way the mind goes through them is very different for each of us.

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Self-help life truths.

“Mutual evolution…”

“Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.” ~ Bruce Lee.

“If we lose love and self respect for each other, this is how we finally die.” ~ Maya Angelou.

Living in this realm of duality, where light and darkness must stand side by side and where love and fear hold hands together, man must find the balance and rise above his own Lower Self and powerful ego; however, always keep connected to this world and grow connections with other minds which still remain in the dominion of the Lower Self. After all, that is what being a human is all about, expressing your spirit through connections, through the sharing process, through the expansion of self-love.

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And even though we are all different and at different levels of understanding and maturity, we can still see beyond all the different experiences and cultural backgrounds if we allow ourselves to be led by the pure heart and not by the judging thought which divides us. In those moments of conflict or anger because of differences and opinions among people, always remind yourself that we all are doing the best we can from our level of understanding and experience.

Walk with each other, connect with one another, and always try to help in the freedom and elevation of the human spirit. The wise process of connection is to always be patient and poised in front of all differences, and to not label one another in your mind because this designs fears and anger towards one another.

The man with higher understanding of Nature is believed insane by the Lower Minds. The Lower Mind of common understanding is too “normal” to see his own ignorance, and only the Higher-Thinking man can help him reach higher levels of understanding.
But they both need time and tolerance to accept each other and respect their own times and individual steps to mental elevation.

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Vested.

“No matter what people tell you, words and ideas can change the world.” ~ Robin Williams; American actor.

“Don’t let others influence you into what they think is the correct path. This life is too short not to be happy–only manifest those outcomes that will bring you joy.” ~ James Van Praagh; American author, producer and television personality.

When someone allows others to influence every part of his thoughts and behaviors, when that someone lets the world put his value and integrity, is because that same person deep inside does not feel as an empowered individual, does not feel he has anything unique to offer to the world, so in subconscious confusion and suffering he lets himself be absorbed by the lack of morality and stupid ideology of the world. This is the ego taking over and distancing that person from who he really is, from his divine spark, from his uniqueness and natural talents.

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All of us, absolutely 100% of us, have been endowed with spiritual or divine expression, talents and special characteristics which make us who we are, which help us free our spirit from the bondage of all the depression and stress of daily living we may feel at times. We have been born with these great gifts in us because all of us are born to experience joy and bliss in all we do, and so find our true selves among the mediocrity of society; however, we must comprehend that these gifts, or to find these gifts within ourselves, are a test, and we must search deeply and inquire within us to allow ourselves to embrace them, and this is done so we learn to be free and wise in our own lives, in our own terms and by making our own decisions.

Stop letting family, friends, and the world overall, tell you what you should be and what you should think. Work on self-love and reach all your gifts.

Find out your own value, because no one is in your mind and in your body, no one can see in you and experience what you experience; therefore, what you could find if you inquire within yourself and allow your attention to steer to your true self is bigger than what you might think.

Reach absolute freedom and create your own way, break out from the mental prison the world creates, and share your hidden talents with the world.

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