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Without complaining and cursing.

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Allow yourself to just be one with your life, which is to accept things as they are and do the best you can in your situations; but do not fear change or be upset about how things turn out to be, detach yourself from expectations and feelings of anxiety.

If you have problems, challenges, things you do not like, then stop complaining about them in your mind and going back and forth trying to control them. The human mind suffers because it is attached to memories and to expectations.

Life’s experiences are for you to live them, but not for you to obsess and fear them; they are meant to bring a lesson to you, whatever that is, and thus you can improve your life and strengthen your mind.

If you complain and say, “My life is hard. My life is terrible. My life is not going anywhere good,” then you are denying yourself the capacity for improvement; because what you say in your mind, your self-talk, will attract better or worse.

Your mind creates your experience of life, how you feel about it; so, make sure you are thankful, positive, without complaining and cursing your experiences.

 

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How to help another.

 

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Relationships are what life is–i.e., relationship with yourself and your life, relationship with each experience, relationship with the earth, relationship with another human being, etc.

And when it comes to relationship with another, it can be difficult; so, one thing to remember is that each one of us is different, and require different treatment as our experiences shaped us differently–psychologically, emotionally, physically.

The first impulse of any decent and compassionate person is to help another, but one must always stop the desire rushing in the mind and ask oneself how to properly help; because, as I said before, each one of us requires different treatment.

So, to do this, you must practice the art of quietly observing people, without judging them, without guessing what they feel or think; but just be there, observing, learning about them.

And listen to your intuition.  Most of the time people tend to try to help another in the same way they would help themselves, but we are all different; so we may differ in what we need as well.

Sometimes just listening to intuition is what we need to know how to help another.  Sometimes is easier than what we think it is, because quite often it is about connecting to people by listening and just being there.  Emotional connection is EXTREMELY important to connect with another and so help another.

 

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Sexual Attraction.

 

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So, love and the mind are absolutely different experiences.  The mind creates sexual desire, consuming passion, romance, obsession with your partner to possess her/him.

Love is a very powerful connection to one another, not attraction to a body or an arousal to a desire; but a deep connection which makes you peaceful and not excited, selfless in your thinking and behaving towards another.

Now, as human creatures we know love through the mind, we can access love and the experience of it; however, in order to know and experience love, one must tame the wild mind, control sexual urges and not be obsessed by them, so love can have room in the mind.

If the mind is filled with desires and obsessions, with constant thinking of sex and attachment to another, then love is not known, it does not truly exist in such a mind.  Friendship is what better describes this selfless and unattached, liberating and peaceful phenomenon we call love.

That is how you know if you have true love for your partner, by being selfless, by being not obsessed by your sexual urges, by feeling like a true friend to her/him first.   Friendship, this connection beyond desires, leads one to happiness, to bliss, to harmony in life.

If life and your mind is harmonious, not filled with urges and desires, then your relationships will be harmonious as well.  A sexual attraction which is healthy for the mind is strengthened this way, for both the man and woman.

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The basics of understanding.

 

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Understanding is really different for each one of us.  Most people think that they understand something when they create their intellectual beliefs and ideologies; but this just creates the illusion of intelligence, of true understanding, and it designs pride in people.

What drives the human being is emotional, which it is to really take whatever you know to heart; furthermore, this emotional drive makes you change, real and immediate change in your life. This is true understanding. True intelligence. True enlightenment.

So, if you intellectually see the truth of being healthy, the truth of not being attached to anything and to anyone, the truth of real patience, it does not mean you understand anything at all.  This does not mean you are intelligent.  Accumulation of knowledge is not intelligence, understanding, or enlightenment.

The ONLY true understanding is change, which is the core of intelligence, which is sheer enlightenment.  Thinking truth is a mere illusion of the ego that you tell yourself in your own vanity, because it does not create true morality in your daily actions.

Now, one who TRULY understands truth is not responsible for another’s understanding or lack of it.  Each one of us is responsible for our own morality or immorality in action.  I am only responsible for myself, for speaking and behaving with truth; and so, I am not responsible for what you or others understand, or do not understand.

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The dawning of wisdom.

 

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Look deeply into your troubles, into the anger you feel, the loneliness, the envy, the heavy stress, the obsessive desire to possess someone or something; and discover the buried thinking patterns, so you can rise above that feeling and realize that you are bringing this onto yourself.

Complications, hardship, suffering is the construct of our petty, little minds when attached to our physical perceptions.  Everybody seeks dating, commitment, marriage, kids; thus, you observe this, you attach a “happiness” and “love” label to it, and so you develop the desire to copy.

You see others get wealthy, better jobs, expensive cars, great shopping; therefore, you believe that this is the “normal,” that this is what happiness really is, and that you desire to be part of this tradition and collective desire of the unconscious masses.

So, you do this, you struggle to be part of all this society nonsense, and you even fill your mind with constant anxiety in the process.  Why…??  Does it make you truly happy??

Do you even truly understand why you obsess about this and feel the nagging need to be this way, always seeking, copying, competing??  So, this is your ego, the secret obsession you have to achieve more and more; but you judge if it works for you or not.

Inquire into yourself and find out why you seek this and desire to achieve and even belong to the collective, because if you do not inquire into it then you will never really understand yourself, your life, and what love and happiness are beyond any petty desires you may have.

 

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Better than a lover can.

 

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So, love, that force which connects us all, the essence which makes us at some deep level realize that we all know each other from before, is a given; however, it is the mind of likes and dislikes the one that separates us and finds excuses to believe that we do not belong together.

So, when it comes to romantic feelings, our minds choose to see the negativity or the positivity in the relationship.  The behaviors of a person could bring either that negativity or positivity as well, but we choose if to give those behaviors real importance or not.  And it is a very personal decision.

Still, one must be able to keep the mind of likes and dislikes in peace and clear from any anger and anxiety in order to judge if to forgive those behaviors or not.  Most of the time, people tend to jump to conclusions and judge immaturely and impulsively, without patience, without stepping back and observing the whole picture.

To do this, to step back, breathe and calm yourself in order to make the right decisions, one must be not just the significant other, the lover, but also the friend who understands and supports.  Friendship, unattached and understanding, is vital to make any relationship work, specially a romantic one.

A friend can see your flaws and weaknesses and understand you better than a lover can.  A friend cares enough to sit down quietly and listen without judging you.  A friend gives you the space and the time you need to develop yourself intellectually and emotionally.

 

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Free from illusions.

 

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Why belief??  Believing in yourself is absolutely different, evidently.  But ideas about the future, trust in books that your mind claims as holy, this obsession with the words of others who are proclaimed saints and/or “learned.”

And not to mention stupid trust and obedience of traditions, cultural history and ideologies.  You might be old in age, but you do not have to remain attached to this nonsense.

Or you might be young and full of knowledge and fantastical ideas from other people, from gurus, from books, and from your own imagination even; however, you want to see the truth and awake, but beliefs are not the way–beliefs are what keep you asleep and ignorant or unwise.

A healthy mind is an empty mind, which is not actually empty; but it is indeed empty of any attachments to beliefs, ideas, traditions, cultures.  In order to know yourself and ALL existence, you must empty yours from any attachment whatsoever.

It is your own mind after all, and it shows you your life based upon its content.  If all you have in your mind are beliefs, traditions, attachments to ideas and philosophies, then you will live in this illusion created by the attachment to all this.

Free yourself from the illusions you carry.  Practice an empty mind, such mind is fresh, insightful, open-minded, young no matter your age, wise and ready to accept any change and new idea.

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A creative and intelligent mind.

 

Creativity, or the essence of creativity, what fuels the creative process, is not of the busy mind or of the ego; but it comes from beyond that, and in order to tap into it, or in order to access it, one must quiet the mind.  And how do you quiet the mind…??

By observing an introspective or meditative life, a life that is not always busy and noisy, in an environment which offers calm and focus.  When the environment and the body surrender to this quietude as a daily practice, then the brain alters, changes its structure and functioning, and so it access this creative essence easily.

This creative essence is intelligence, it is the purity beyond the noise of the mind, to thus understand life and yourself.  Because that is what intelligence truly is:  Creativity in its purest essence, not only to create art, but to understand life at a deeper level.

The anxious and stressed mind, frustrated and busy, cannot access this pure creativity; for what fills it escapes harmony and calmness, and in doing so creates a psychological environment of pure suffering.  And how can intelligence live in this hostile environment…??

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For your moral development.

 

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What is being intelligent…?? What is intelligence?? Is the person who reads a bunch of scientific, spiritual, philosophical books, and then talks about them, truly intelligent??

And what about the physically and psychologically old person who has lived many, many, many years on this earth…?? Is that person intelligent just because of the many experiences lived through time??

All these people I have mentioned have a great amount of acquired knowledge, memory of experiences, an accumulation of information of the past; so, in their vanity and unconscious thinking they follow what society says and believe they are intelligent.  But, are they??

Because intelligence in reality is not a product of knowledge, like happiness and love are not products of this accumulation of information either.

If intelligence were a product of knowledge, of experience, of accumulation of information, then the world would be a paradise and everybody would behave morally and be Enlightened.  Can you understand this??  Take a moment if you have to ponder.

So, the worst thing for your development as a moral human being is to believe that you are intelligent because you have knowledge and experience, because this irrational belief makes you egoistical, prideful, and it stops you from realizing your own weaknesses, your own faults, your own unhealthy patterns.

 

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Experiencing your own Enlightenment.

 

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Whatever and whoever you find offensive, bothersome, irritating around you is indeed due to the way you feel inside, the way your chaotic mind is, the way you understand and love yourself; because what you find as experience out there is what you feel as experience in you.

The world, existence, your experience lies in you, and that is not something romantic and philosophical; for your mind truly creates everything, and it all filters through the mechanics of your brain.  Nothing exists but what your mind allows you to see, touch, think, feel, experience.

So, when you are annoyed, hurt, irritated by people, it is a by-product of your inner state, a reflection of your truest and deepest self.  And the more you attend or focus on someone’s flaws, weaknesses, things you do not like, the more you create your own flaws, weaknesses, irritations, etc.

At the end, it all comes down to your inner state of mind, how you feel about yourself, how much or not you love yourself, how harmonious or not you experience yourself.  It all, everything you think you experience coming from outside, comes really from you, it is a reflection of you, literally so.

So, to understand the world, your surroundings, people, environments, nature, then understand yourself.  To love all existence, love yourself entirely.  If you can truly understand and realize this daily, then know that you are blissfully experiencing your own Enlightenment.

 

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