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The capacity to be ALONE.


Why is it that for most people being alone is so difficult…??  Do you realize that when it comes to love and happiness, inward manifestations, they can only be known by one who knows how to be alone…??

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The undisciplined mind is always chatting and seeking entertainment and the company of other minds, seeking noise and distraction from the inner self; therefore, the egoistical mind hates to be alone, it despises meditation and depth, so it can never realize inward truths like love and happiness…  So what does it find out there…??

Out there, it finds attachment and pleasure.  The superficial mind loves attachment and pleasure because it distracts from the truth that the individual is not whole, the individual is lost and does not feel whole; so, the individual must seek for another person, another relationship, another buy, another trip, to feel whole…  Thus the illusion continues…  The illusion which says that the person knows love and happiness, but in reality the person only knows schemes in time and space, namely attachment and pleasure…  Isn’t this sheer madness, to live your whole life enslaved to this egoistical mirage and never actually experience true love and happiness…??

Love, same as happiness, is the foundation of what we are.  So how can it be found out there with all the noise and confusion…?? …  No.  Only the one who knows how to be alone knows it, because love is meditation, as life is meditation; and meditation only happens inwardly, when you accept and befriend your own silence, like the Sun finds its own energy and heat inwardly to bathe all of us and create life outwardly.

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Give them freedom…

Do you understand relationships…??  What is the point of honest communication…??  Do you bring freedom to your relationships…??

In human relationships the key element is honest communication, as we all know, as we all try to become better human beings in life; however, quite often one gets taken by this obsession for winning, for coming out ahead, for proving ourselves to the other, thus the ego takes over and a communication based on love and understanding vanishes.  This calls for self-reflection and less pride; so, this calls for more rich silence, less talking.

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The ego likes to talk and show off, defend itself and seek security; but the true heart of love is silent, wise, listens because it knows in silence there is true freedom.  And what is love…??  Is it a word…??  Is it talking and arguing…??  No.  True love is an essence which lives in the rich silence; in the rich silence of listening, in the rich silence of holding hands and walking together, in the rich silence of staring deeply into each other’s eyes… without a sign of ego… without trying to fix anything… without empty words all the time…


And that is exactly what one must bring into a relationship, into an honest communication with another, such freedom to liberate the mind of another and make them feel valued, appreciated to allow themselves to be heard by us, to express themselves freely and without any contention or threat.

This is love and understanding, to show true care in what someone else thinks and feels; because sometimes talking is of the ego and vanity itself, because sometimes to be quiet and listen is to guide our relationships into new, vaster horizons.


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“Much talking is the cause of danger.  Silence is the means of avoiding misfortune. The talkative parrot is shut up in a cage.  Other birds, without speech, fly freely about.”  ~ Saskya Pandita; Tibetan spiritual leader, Buddhist scholar, and writer.

 

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Heart of a relationship.

How can anyone actually listen without losing the message being conveyed…?? Why is it that so many arguments and misunderstandings in relationships occur…?? What is healthy communication, the kind of communication which unites or connects in harmony…??
Have you honestly ever stopped your rushing mind and ponder about this? Because if we analyze its importance, then we find that communication in any relationship is key; for communication is not only sharing opinions and passing a message, which is important in itself, but communication is an art form–communication is a deeper understanding of each other, a deeper realization of each other’s ideas and feelings.
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A deeper understanding and realization in order to find solutions which work for both parties, and also to mitigate misunderstandings and any psychological or even physical violence. Listening is the biggest part of a healthy communication, which is done only if your entire attention is on this process of listening.

If while communicating your attention is on your own thoughts and you are thinking on your reply to argue further, then you are losing the meaning of the communication, because you are disconnecting from this art form and you are distancing yourself from the other person or persons.  This ignorant act certainly creates a mind which is agitated, confused, violent, which lashes out at the ones around it; consequently, bringing its own suffering and walking away from one’s own heart.

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Wholeness of attention is to delve deeply into it, it is to stop your rushing mind when someone else speaks and being there wholly, listening without judgement; and because you cannot know everything, the inward act of attention conveys a message of humility saying, “I care about someone else’s feelings and not just my own, so I take the time to respect the other person as I’d like to be respected.



“Whatever you focus your attention on will become important to you even if it’s unimportant.” ~ Sonya Parker; American relationship writer, vloger, coach, and activist.


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Chains of Understanding.

A stubborn mind which is lazy and dull will not change, and such change–i.e., change of ideas, change of lifestyle, change of behavior, etc.–is what life really is, is it not…??  Weak minds, minds which enslave themselves to others, minds of unrestrained egos, minds which do not really live in harmony and love create illusions out of fear–i.e., fear of loneliness, fear of an afterlife, fear of Karma, fear of being left out, fear of not being popular like the others, etc. etc..

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Beliefs without actual, personal, proof are the MOST damaging nonsense to the human mind, it robs you of clarity and depth of understanding.   And beliefs are not just induced from childhood into your subconscious, forming your personality and the way you think and see the world as a grown up; but they are also greatly reinforced and designed by the TV you watch, the books you read, the activities with friends, your family traditions, your nationalistic views, etc. 

It all works subtly in your mind, so subtly you do not see it perhaps, but it is so strong that it influences all your views, choices, it dulls your thinking, it robs your mind from all clarity and deep understanding due to a heavily conditioned brain.

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TV watching, or the morons tube, is perhaps the most damaging of all when it comes to absolute mental freedom; as you watch the news or reality shows, or any other influencer, your mind gets conditioned to think one way, to see the world one way, and to make beliefs and choices one way… the way they want you to in order to sell and make you a part of the ignorant society.
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Nationalistic views and the nonsense of war is a great problem for individual thought.  Ignorant minds tell you to go to war, “be the best you can be” they say, do not think for yourself but go kill and obey blindly like a mere puppet.

People do not see this, and yet they want peace and love in the world, and yet they want an awakening in themselves; however, they want this peace and love in the world when their own minds are not peaceful and full of true, innocent love, they are full of beliefs of the masses based on fear, they are lazy enough to not question.  This is not love, but it is the opposite.

This ignorance is violence against themselves, it is the opposite of self-love because they do not love themselves enough to live based on reality and facts, they let ignorance rule their lives.
So, always question EVERYTHING society and specially religion says.  Always question how you think and feel about something, about anything.  Always question.  Question, question, question.   Until the day you die.  Your mind then must become supple, innocent and creative as the child’s, empty and full of new energy, able to grasp reality as it really is; thus, your mind can only understand and absorb an awakening if it is this superior mind.

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“And, through acceptance of belief, do we understand ourselves?  On the contrary.  A belief, religious or political, obviously hinders the understanding of ourselves.  It acts as a screen through which we look at ourselves.  And can we look at ourselves without beliefs?  If we remove these beliefs, the many beliefs that one has, is there anything left to look at?  If we have no beliefs with which the mind has identified itself, then the mind, without identification, is capable of looking at itself as it is, rich, pure, innocent, alert, truly intelligent; and then, surely there is the beginning of the understanding of oneself, the beginning of the superior mind.”  ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti.


 

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Keeping the peace.

“What is tolerance?  It is the consequence of humanity.  We are all formed of frailty and error; let us pardon reciprocally each other’s folly.  That is the first law of nature.”  ~ Voltaire; French Enlightenment writer, historian, and philosopher.


It is really easy to give in to anger and all sorts of anxiety, specially when dealing with really stubborn and illogical people–i.e., people of set beliefs, fixed ideas, attached to traditions of old, and all this nonsense people fall into out of sheer ignorance and a lazy mind. Basically most people fall into this category, but quite often these still can be good and decent people, people who try to do their best even with the mental conditioning they have, and sometimes people do not try to even do their best.  It can be really frustrating to deal with this erratic crowd.


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But we have to remind ourselves that people come from all sorts of places, environments, families, and with all different experiences that have shaped their minds one way or the other; so, for better or worse, these individuals must be seen from a psychological level, not just to understand what we can understand about them but to keep your own mind in peace when dealing with them.

And your mind must remain in peace and harmony, because, even though it can be difficult at times, it is all about you and not them, it is all about communion with yourself through a mind which is not in any agitation whatsoever.

Each one of us has a purpose for being the way we are, and we may not understand why this or that person reacts one way or the other, or why this or that person thinks one way or the other; however, life is conscious and wise, and it is not our business or concern to straighten them out or make them better.  Your only concern must be your own self and to show respect and love for people, and if they don’t care for you then just walk away and keep your ego tamed.

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Watch your own ego, which always wants to fix everything and everybody.

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One with it.

“We could never learn to be brave and patient, if there were only joy in the world.” ~ Helen Keller; American author, political activist, and lecturer.


“You learn more from losing than winning, more from pain than joy.” You learn how to keep going.” ~ Morgan Wootten; American former high school basketball coach.



It is extremely important to develop ourselves and vital for true happiness in life to self-reflect and know our deepest selves, our darkness as well as our light, our pain as well as our joy.

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Sadly, most people today do not understand that in order to know why something happens in life, you must embrace it, become well acquainted with it, study it closely; and, opposite to this, you must never escape and try to ignore it, specially when it comes to emotional and psychological issues.

The human being suffers pain, and, no matter your unique situation in life or who you are, you must learn to adjust to this; because pain is meant for your mind to analyze it and comprehend it in order to not allow it to destroy you and your dreams.

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.  Do not run away from pain through activities, relationships, jobs, religion, travels, and the rest; but stay with pain and learn the lesson in them.  Do not avoid pain and what makes you uncomfortable, but realize that it is a blessing in disguise so you can grow.

Personally, I welcome challenges and pain, because If my father and brother hadn’t died, if my mother hadn’t nearly been killed by my once stepfather, if I hadn’t gone through so many challenges in my life, I wouldn’t have awakened to many wonderful things I see so clearly now, and, of course, I wouldn’t be sharing this with you and trying to help you in your own life.

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So, you see, life turns to be wonderful and miraculous once you study and analyze those moments that have caused you so much pain and still anguish.  I hope you can see this, too.


 

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Mutual respect.

“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter.  Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don’t even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets!  It’s time to put an end to this.  It’s time for us to let ourselves be loved.” ~ C. JoyBell C.; American philosopher and inspirational writer.



When it comes to true love there must be respect, because true love is indeed a constant celebration of respect and deep connection; and so, respect means freedom to be who you are without being bullied or judged, it means you respect the other person and are yourself respected for how you think and feel.  That is self-love.

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How you think and feel must be respected, even if the other person does not agree with you.  You either respect each other or there is no love, and if there is no love to celebrate, then, what is the point of staying in a relationship with no love…??  All relationships should be for your development.

One must develop patience and understanding in any relationship, but not allow oneself to be put down or treated badly; for it is all about self-love all the time, it is about your own individual development.

To have self-love, you cannot live in fear of being alone, of ending the relationship and starting a new life where you can be yourself; self-love is freedom to be yourself, it is knowing that you are already whole and that people have nothing to do with how you love yourself.

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So, in order to recognize true love in another there must be mutual respect, which is freedom to be yourself and not his/her slave.  And self-love is not fearing change, such is change to fix your life and get rid of relationships that do not serve you.


 

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Connect.

“Attitude is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than what people do or say.  It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.” ~ Charles R. Swindoll; evangelical Christian pastor, author, educator, and radio preacher.


 

When dealing with people it is wise to remind ourselves that we all have different experiences, upbringings, likes and dislikes that have shaped our minds and behaviors; therefore, we must all accept each other in order to tolerate and further connect with each other.

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There is no more ignorance from an oversized ego than to judge people ahead of time, without knowing their reasons and without knowing their full intentions through their behaviors; otherwise, you will miss the opportunity to develop yourself as a more compassionate and understanding human being and to, perhaps, connect with that person at a deeper level.

Most ignorant people tend to judge people specially based on looks, they do not stop their thought and try to understand the psychological experiences that person might have had to live through to adopt the way he or she looks.

Tattoos, esthetic surgeries, body piercings, excessive body fat, the way one dresses, etc.–these might have a past, some right or wrong reason, some psychological origin; however, that should not be judged, because if one spends the time judging and pointing fingers, then there is no time and desire for your mind to expand in understanding and for your heart to love without an interference from some ridiculous ego.

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Higher planes.

“Man’s status in the natural world is determined, therefore, by the quality of his thinking.”  ~ Manly P. Hall; Canadian author, lecturer, astrologer, and mystic.


 

High mental elevation can be described as the communion with higher understanding which truly frees your soul from all of society’s chains–i.e., religious beliefs and dogmas, energy-blocking foods, selfish and unwise behaviors, and overall following and praising of the masses.

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Onto higher mental planes.

And high mental elevation is then not something popular or common in the world, and this is why you will not find this in many people–regardless of how spiritual and good-hearted they claim to be.

This is why the true sage is not at the same level of understanding of the masses, because he does not feel fulfilled with meager crumbs like the rest, because he dwells in higher mental planes the common man cannot even imagine.

This leads us to the true purpose of life, the one that is beyond the mere existence you see around you, the one that cannot be understood by the crowds.

Human existence is given to us as a mystery to unfold, not just as a mortal plane to experience and live through until death; but it is a hidden puzzle living in each moment, one that only a high mind is allowed to discover.

And it is because of this hidden puzzle that lower minds act with lower understanding, because they cannot see and experience the discoveries related to the puzzle the higher minds are allowed to see and experience.

The steps to elevate your mind are quite obvious and they serve the highest purpose yet, The Liberation of Your Humanity:

1 Leaving all beliefs from other men, religions, and books.

  2- Believe ONLY your own experiences, not your ideas or thoughts but your experiences.

3- Always be curious and do research, find out things on your own.

4- Practice self-love before loving others; realize that the way you talk to yourself and the way you behave makes your reality, and your reality makes you experience happiness and confidence to be better.  And then you can truly love and help others.

And so, it is only when one elevates his own mind that life, in its richer, much more meaningful state, allows itself to be peered into and experienced fully as it transfigures your whole human existence to grander heights.

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Portal to Elevation.

“Truth is, I’ll never know all there is to know about you, just as you will never know all there is to know about me.  Humans are by nature too complicated to be understood fully.  So, we can choose either to approach our fellow human beings with suspicion or to approach them with an open mind, a dash of optimism and a great deal of candor.”  ~ Tom Hanks.


 

Keys to an Open Mind.

To have an open mind means that you accept that you do not know everything, and to accept that is indeed the beginning of wisdom.  And people come from different backgrounds and experiences, so to be close-minded to what they have to say or to believe that they cannot teach you anything is rather foolish, selfish and ignorant indeed.

The fact is that one cannot truly awaken if one has not an open mind, because the process of having an open mind allows Infinite Intelligence to flow freely through our minds to elevate the same; however, the ego makes people believe that just by knowledge the mind elevates, but this is one of the major illusions.  And the example is that there are people out there who are true encyclopedias and have large amounts of data stored in their brains, but their minds are not elevated one bit.  Wisdom does not reach their minds for this matter; their minds are full of beliefs, ideas, and thoughts from another.

I agree it is not easy to have an open mind, specially with so many nice but egotistical people around us; but in order for us to connect to self-love and reach that condition of bliss which elevates the mind, there must exist the deeper understanding of an open mind which steps aside all selfishness and ignorance for the sake of love expansion and true mental elevation.

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