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Heart of a relationship.

How can anyone actually listen without losing the message being conveyed…?? Why is it that so many arguments and misunderstandings in relationships occur…?? What is healthy communication, the kind of communication which unites or connects in harmony…??
Have you honestly ever stopped your rushing mind and ponder about this? Because if we analyze its importance, then we find that communication in any relationship is key; for communication is not only sharing opinions and passing a message, which is important in itself, but communication is an art form–communication is a deeper understanding of each other, a deeper realization of each other’s ideas and feelings.
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A deeper understanding and realization in order to find solutions which work for both parties, and also to mitigate misunderstandings and any psychological or even physical violence. Listening is the biggest part of a healthy communication, which is done only if your entire attention is on this process of listening.

If while communicating your attention is on your own thoughts and you are thinking on your reply to argue further, then you are losing the meaning of the communication, because you are disconnecting from this art form and you are distancing yourself from the other person or persons.  This ignorant act certainly creates a mind which is agitated, confused, violent, which lashes out at the ones around it; consequently, bringing its own suffering and walking away from one’s own heart.

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Wholeness of attention is to delve deeply into it, it is to stop your rushing mind when someone else speaks and being there wholly, listening without judgement; and because you cannot know everything, the inward act of attention conveys a message of humility saying, “I care about someone else’s feelings and not just my own, so I take the time to respect the other person as I’d like to be respected.



“Whatever you focus your attention on will become important to you even if it’s unimportant.” ~ Sonya Parker; American relationship writer, vloger, coach, and activist.


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In the footsteps of the master.

“Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is Enlightenment.”  ~ Lao Tzu.


“Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.”  ~ Sun Tzu.


The way of peace is knowing yourself, and this way is practiced by the superior mind; because the superior mind knows and deeply understands that confidence and power can only flower when the human mind is resting in the silence of internal peace and harmony–i.e., peace from the agitated mind, and harmony with the true self. 
Furthermore, this confidence and power flowering in the peaceful mind is what can conquer all your battles in life, overcome all obstacles, attain all victories over negative circumstances and mediocre naysayers, for this mind is free from all outside nuisances and pressures, for this mind stands on its own.

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The Tao (The Way to Enlightenment/The Source of Everything) in its unmatched wisdom says,  “But knowing harmony creates abstraction, and following abstraction creates ritual.  Exceeding nature creates calamity, and controlling nature creates violence.”  This says, ‘Knowing harmony, living and experiencing a wise and peaceful mind, creates the deep analysis and study of profound ideas, profound philosophies for a better life; and so, following this abstraction or greater philosophies, creates superior habits and thus ways of the superior mind.’
Then it explains, ‘Trying to force nature, and everything that happens in your life, brings chaos into your life; and controlling nature and outside events, creates an agitated mind and all violence.’

You must clear your thoughts from all agitation whenever you see obstacles and people wanting to hurt you in any way; for only with a clear and pure mind you may think straight and arrive to a solution or to an inspiring idea.  And when you need to become firm and fearless, fight people’s arguments and life challenges head on, then be also calm and confident because the energy of your own mind, of peace and harmony, will create your reality, will dictate the outcome of your experience.

The fool initiates quarrels and rebellions because he is full of fear/rage and hate, and his mind does not think clearly due to an inferior understanding/an inferior mind; however, the wise and superior mind of the sage remains peaceful and confident because nothing from the outside moves him, he is in constant meditation and harmony with his true self.

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The sage is the one who really holds the power.


 

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Greatness unleashed!

“Don’t let fear or insecurity stop you from trying new things.  Believe in yourself.  Do what you love.  And most importantly, be kind to others, even if you don’t like them.”  ~ Stacy London; American stylist/fashion consultant, author, and magazine editor.


“Don’t aim for success if you want it; just do what you love and believe in, and it will come naturally.”  ~ David Frost; English journalist, comedian, writer, media personality and television host.



One of the problems people encounters is not to understand desire, so they believe that just by following a desire your mind came up with and you envision yourself enjoying is enough to reach success–so they see celebrities with money and fame, they want that; they see writers publishing successful books, they want this; they see great businesses expanding worldwide, they want it and start a business.


But the reality is that your desire alone, no matter how strong that desire is, does not drive you to any success, because you need constant confidence and patience to succeed at anything, such mighty things a simple desire does not give you; but only a truly passionate heart does, and that is more challenging than just a simple desire in your mind.

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You must forge yourself and find your noble and truest passion, something you truly love from your heart, something you honestly believe in, if you really want great success in life.

See, it does not matter if you don’t think it would bring success, it does not matter if your passion is something you do not see as popular in society; because what creates success in life is not just the product or idea you sell or bring to the public, but the way you do it and the passion is, and the personal belief you have.


People take time, so you need patience, but they pick up on the passion you have; for it is the invisible force the one that attracts success, and that is your natural drive.
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Either you live your life just existing and hoping for the best each moment without greater vision (loser’s chosen lifestyle), or you take full control with great strategy and working towards a vision, slowly but steady, patiently but 100% committed (successful mindset).  Your choice must allow you to experience true happiness–mentally, spiritually, economically.
A mind that is strong will learn and become stronger from obstacles and challenges.  A mind that is weak and pitiful will become weaker and quit on the first pebble on the road.  And if you don’t find your truest, most heartfelt passion, you will have no drive to last and endure the road to success.
Find that drive, be patient, believe in yourself, and the world is yours.  This is my current experience.
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The Fountain.

“First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination.”  ~ Napoleon Hill; American self-help author.


“With ideas it is like with dizzy heights you climb: At first they cause you discomfort and you are anxious to get down, distrustful of your own powers; but soon the remoteness of the turmoil of life and the inspiring influence of the altitude calm your blood; your step gets firm and sure and you begin to look for dizzier heights.”  ~ Nikola Tesla.



The energy of ideas comes to us from Infinite Intelligence and our ego molds it into a concept or belief, an image or strategy; therefore, this essence of creativity is divine and gives us the responsibility of forming inspiring and wise thoughts with it.

Sadly, most people do not recognize this, and so they create contention and prejudice, religious and cultural enmity, self-destructive behaviors, and the rest, with the god-given energy of their minds.

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Imagination then comes to us as the greatest form of inspiration and fuel to create happiness and so reach great things in our individual lives; and this is why is so important to feed our mortal minds properly, to be ready and offer the right atmosphere, to shape ideas and all thought-forms to aid humanity, not to pity ourselves and others but to raise above mediocrity and reach higher states of thought.

 

Imagination is what we are, is indeed what allows us to move freely, think freely and create; however, our mortal, biased egos, can take that imagination and build beauty as well as misery, and thus bring that into the world. 

But we are above all pity and nonsense from a massive and misguided ego, and the key to realize that lies in the wisdom buried deep inside us; therefore, the wisdom which can help us create, innovate, move our own lives forth with nobility and success, with happiness and a greater love towards ourselves and the world.


Remind yourself daily that life is the playground where you shape ideas and create your life. 
The understanding of this will help you honor great ideas.

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The Way…

“I do what I do because it is the right thing to do.  I am a warrior, and it is the way of the warrior to fight superior odds.”  ~ Paul Watson; Canadian marine wildlife conservation and environmental activist.

“Study strategy over the years and achieve the spirit of the warrior.  Today is victory over yourself of yesterday; tomorrow is your victory over lesser men.”  ~ Miyamoto Musashi; expert Japanese swordsman, rōnin, and author.



How great and empowering to the human soul is to be aware of the struggles of our past, how we overcame those obstacles with sheer will and inner strength; but, however, sadly most people forget and begin seeing future challenges as daunting and as even greater than the ones they overcame in the past.

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The Way to happiness and strength is inside you, found by living in the present moment, not in your memories of the past or visions of a future.  Become aware of this in your heart.
And that is when fear seizes their minds and petrifies them before further progress can be made.

And that is just the key to recall that challenging past, that strong word: ‘Awareness.’ 

See, life gives us challenges to analyze and learn how to master ourselves, how to strengthen our unruly minds and design our own paths; but the problem, which most people have, is that they are not really in the moment when they go through challenges–they are either thinking of the past or of the future–so their minds cannot really record or absorb the lessons in the present, thus they start forgetting what they lived through and the strength they have when new challenges arise.

So, to realize at all times that you are a warrior who can overcome all challenges set before you, you must practice awareness by analyzing and surveying your challenges, making a mental note of them and developing constant self-love; this will give your mind resilience and confidence, and you will not feel like a victim anymore but you will remember that you have the strength within you the moment you need it.
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Just a reminder about love…

“Many times I say learn the art of love, but what I really mean is:  Learn the art of removing all that hinders love.  It is a negative process.  It is like digging a well: You go on removing many layers of earth, stones, rocks, and then suddenly there is water.  The water was always there; it was an undercurrent.  Now you have removed all the barriers, the water is available.  So is love: Love is the undercurrent of your being.  It is already flowing, but there are many rocks, many layers of earth to be removed.”  ~ Osho; Indian mystic, guru, and spiritual teacher.


 

I particularly like the above quote from Osho because it guides me to enlightenment:  It states that there is nothing we have to do to learn to love, the love essence is there, deep inside we are it; however, to experience and share that love we just have to remove all the obstacles to truly express that same love towards ourselves and towards someone else–i.e., the obstacles being the ego, as in condemning behaviors, judging looks, obsessing about an imagined relationship, jealousy, etc.

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And in this one he is again talking about Oneness, the importance of thinking and feeling in terms of one essence, love.  When in a committed relationship, if the mind makes a distance and starts thinking in terms of two, then there will always be differences and annoyances; but if we allow our minds to be one with our hearts, then we’ll start experiencing the relationship as one–i.e., whatever you do to make your partner happy makes you happy as well, and vice versa:

“In real love there is no relationship, because there are not two persons to be related to.  In real love there is only love, a flowering, a fragrance, a melting, a merging.  Only in egoistic love are there two persons, the lover and the loved.  And whenever there is the lover and the loved, love disappears.  Whenever there is love, the lover and the beloved both disappear into love.”  ~ Osho.

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Higher planes.

“Man’s status in the natural world is determined, therefore, by the quality of his thinking.”  ~ Manly P. Hall; Canadian author, lecturer, astrologer, and mystic.


 

High mental elevation can be described as the communion with higher understanding which truly frees your soul from all of society’s chains–i.e., religious beliefs and dogmas, energy-blocking foods, selfish and unwise behaviors, and overall following and praising of the masses.

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Onto higher mental planes.

And high mental elevation is then not something popular or common in the world, and this is why you will not find this in many people–regardless of how spiritual and good-hearted they claim to be.

This is why the true sage is not at the same level of understanding of the masses, because he does not feel fulfilled with meager crumbs like the rest, because he dwells in higher mental planes the common man cannot even imagine.

This leads us to the true purpose of life, the one that is beyond the mere existence you see around you, the one that cannot be understood by the crowds.

Human existence is given to us as a mystery to unfold, not just as a mortal plane to experience and live through until death; but it is a hidden puzzle living in each moment, one that only a high mind is allowed to discover.

And it is because of this hidden puzzle that lower minds act with lower understanding, because they cannot see and experience the discoveries related to the puzzle the higher minds are allowed to see and experience.

The steps to elevate your mind are quite obvious and they serve the highest purpose yet, The Liberation of Your Humanity:

1 Leaving all beliefs from other men, religions, and books.

  2- Believe ONLY your own experiences, not your ideas or thoughts but your experiences.

3- Always be curious and do research, find out things on your own.

4- Practice self-love before loving others; realize that the way you talk to yourself and the way you behave makes your reality, and your reality makes you experience happiness and confidence to be better.  And then you can truly love and help others.

And so, it is only when one elevates his own mind that life, in its richer, much more meaningful state, allows itself to be peered into and experienced fully as it transfigures your whole human existence to grander heights.

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Love is no thought.

“He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment.  Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.”  ~ Chanakya; Indian teacher, philosopher, economist, jurist and royal advisor.


 

Remind yourself that if you are going to live your life based on love, it must be true love, for the rest is just attachment, it is just an artificial form of selfish love your mind produces based on fear of loss–i. e., attachment to a person, attachment to a thing, attachment to a memory, attachment to an event, attachment to a thought, etc..

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Humanity is flawed, society is corrupt, religions are invented, people are distanced, wars exist, people get together in romantic relationships to get married and then throw it all away, among other atrocities born out of ignorance, because mankind ignores what true love, the essence of it all is.  Mankind lives in the illusion of attachment and fear of loss, while thinking this is true love; even good, honest people, people you know, and maybe you too live in this illusion.

And this is the test, to find out what love beyond the nonsense of humanity really is, to find out for ourselves that love is not a concept of quality and form; however, most people live and die never really knowing what true love really is, married people even.
The fact is one can never, does not matter how intelligent and loving a person might be, really experience and embrace pure love if all one knows is attachment to their families and friends, to things and memories.

While you are crying and complaining about the loss of a loved one, while you are nagging because you want such and such thing, while you are asking people for pity because you are too self-involved in your narrow-minded mind to accept what is, then, you are missing the essence of love–i.e., acceptance, peace, freedom from thoughts of fear and loss; because love has nothing to do with thought, and when you miss someone, something, or when you cry for help, then you are following a thought, you are distancing yourself from your pure heart tainting it with a thought, you are not love then.

Think about this.

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The Cosmic Substance.

“If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.”  ~ Nikola Tesla.


 

The Cosmic Substance

Through my body and mind,
Of all my thoughts the bind,
Through all I see and feel,
Of all healthy conscience real.

It was a precious dream I thought,
Quite the wonderful miracle sought,
Of a cosmic, vast presence,
Running within me a pleasance.

The Substance brought me light,
You and I were openly in sight;
Emanations so warm and soothing,
Green grass and flowers blooming.

Above us perfect sky deep blue,
on earth many miles a poetic view.
Our hands held in amorous motion,
Substance ran in us like love potion.

Fear consumed us for a quick moment,
Soon we felt the end of the torment;
There was never seen love in her eyes,
In me deep peace and emotional highs.

We were one and saw all as one,
Soon there existed no borders, none.
The Cosmic Substance was magical,
The change we experienced radical.

There is nothing veiled in society now,
Nothing in the world of form to bow;
For we felt bliss and saw free range,
For we saw true love without change.

~ Asa.

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The Original…

“Creativity, as has been said, consists largely of rearranging what we know in order to find out what we do not know.  Hence, to think creatively, we must be able to look afresh at what we normally take for granted.” ~ George Kneller; portrait painter.


 

How many times during the day you have the opportunity to be yourself as you are, flawed, free, without embarrassment, without feeling self-conscious, but instead you fall into the trap of the ego and you shrink before a challenge or a situation…??  How much more time do you need to finally take the opportunities life throws at you and engage socially, or start your business, or begin writing that book, or do what you always wanted to do…??

There is no excuse for staying in your comfort zone and lose all the chances to free your human spirit into expression, because you are unique, deep inside you know this; but there is that embarrassment or fear which is created by allowing your ego to cement and rule your life, to poison your mind and spread throughout your whole body.

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See, being yourself, being unique is gold, is really a rare and expensive treasure nowadays; society has designed all these ways of getting comfort and settle in the life you have now, instead of pushing people forward to become better and elevate themselves.
But in order to be yourself then, you must distance your mind from all these comforts which are not healthy for your development as a human being–that is, smoking, drinking, doing drugs, gossiping, blaming everything on others, praying to some pathetic god outside of you, belief in what they call patriotism, and so on and so forth.

Being yourself and expressing your creativity in many ways is an outlet to leave all the garbage from the outside and embrace the gold shining inside.
Do this then, and your bliss will be constant.  This is my own experience.

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