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Un-caged

A prison of fear

There’s not a worse prison than the mental prison, because this prison paralyzes you, stops you from pursuing and reaching your goals, and even makes you unable to trust yourself. And how can you live a good life like this??

Fear of not fulfilling the expectations of others. Fear of what your family would think. Fear of not being liked and accepted by them. Fear of not following the popular path. Fear of not being good enough in the eyes of others.

Becoming free

I say better live satisfied with doing well, knowing that you are doing what makes you happy, what gives you independence of mind and trust in yourself. Let others worry about themselves, and if they want let them talk and criticize you.

You spend your time in this life worrying about you. Life is too precious to live it in a prison. Each one of us, no matter who we are, is meant to be unique, which means different, which means being ourselves. Because it’s about becoming free.

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That Devil…

The Dream

Man has been put in a box, forged, molded to be something he’s not. ‘Eat the same things most people eat, because the ad says so and they taste good. Concern yourself only with working and making money, so you can consume and become like the rest…

‘Get married and have lots of children, because that is the “normal/way to love” you have to obey. Seek daily addictions, identity, groups in the world, so you can feel whole and loved by the rest of the cogs. You must choose a religion, a god, a prophet, choose a side to become another worshiper, because only sides hold the truth and direction you need.’

Time to Get Up

And it goes on and on with the performances of the ignorant clowns. And if you do not join in this, then something’s wrong with you. It is not normal. But beware, this is the box, which has structured your mind. Of course, you don’t see it, you deny it even. But, wake up from your slumber, I say! It is time to get up from your cushy dream.

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The greatest

Free from attachments

The greatest attribute of a person is friendship. Because friendship means honest communication, great patience, the willingness to understand. Because it comes from an open mind, and such is a mind not attached to its own beliefs and opinions.

Any attachments do you harm, without you noticing perhaps. Any attachments make you addictive, irrational, biased, and it takes away your capacity and willingness to accept and even care about the experience of the other person.

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Free from debt

I run away from debt

Think about people in debt. The constant stress. The extreme fear of being chased by debt collectors. The guilt and anxiety when they must buy the necessary to live. What freedom do they really have??

I personally despise to be in debt. That is why I put self-control as the priority. Now-a-days we have commerce everywhere, these ads on the internet offering us this and that, the normal impulse to buy and increase our well-being.

But is it worth it?? I mean, if we lack introspection and self-control to say ‘No’ to ourselves, to stop us from buying what we do not really need, then what kind of future our we creating.

Save what you can

Saving money is extremely important, which is something I’ve learned really late in my life. But I’m glad I have, and I’m glad I can truly see how my life can change by adopting the wise habit of saving money. Because money does not bring happiness, my friend; but it brings safety and stability in our lives.

And we all need safety and stability, don’t we?? We all need to be able to breathe and be able to know we can pay our rent, our food, our clothing, and help our loved ones. So, please, give a deep thought to this simple message. Save, whatever you can; but save with each paycheck you get.

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Better lives

Too much anxiety

I feel that worry is only truly useful when we can change an outcome. Too much worry, that anxiety that makes you feel fearful and frustrated, self-doubt and self-conscious, can be really damaging for our well-being.

I’m not talking about the worry of the mother for her son on his 1st day of school. I’m talking about the worry of, for example, what other people think of you, or the worry that comes from thinking about the job you applied for, or the worry from your financial situation that is also stressing you and making you angry even with the people around you.

Just do your best

We live better lives if we are brave, which means detaching ourselves from this useless worry and anxiety, letting go from the mental ritual of overthinking. I always say ‘I’ll change whatever I can. The rest is not up to me’. Life is a roller coaster. Up and down.

Sometimes we don’t even know where it’s going. But the only power, the greatest power we have in fact, is to steer our mind into greater purpose. This means that we should seek to be more serene and easygoing. Go with the flow. Do our best, let the rest be.

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Be free, step up

Respect yourself, walk away

Someone disrespectful to you, or aggressive, or unsupportive, does not deserve your time and attention. People have different experiences, so they see things differently in life.

We can change, but most of our subconscious programming comes from childhood; so people might be unaware as adults of the damage they’re causing you due to their own early burdens. Try not to remain attached to their ignorance.

After all, is your life

Your life is about your self-development, and this requires your full attention, and this requires that you let go of any resentment or frustration you may feel towards another. Do it for you, not for anybody else. Because it is always up to you to become free.

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The very few…

Acquiring freedom

The feeling of true love and happiness equals freedom. Freedom to think for yourself without influences or bias. Freedom to be yourself without being ashamed or self-conscious in front of others. Freedom to do whatever is healthy and moral without following what others say and do.

Freedom to walk your own path without feeling lonely or odd because you do not choose to walk in the path of others. These are just a few examples of what freedom truly is. Most people in the world do not have it, because true freedom requires courage and a strong personality. Only a very selected few among us actually have freedom.

Losing freedom

These are some examples of why groups, always without your awareness and inducing the illusion of ‘group identity’ in you, rob you of intelligence and moral values:

1- You must assimilate the group’s beliefs and moral values to belong to it, even if you tell yourself that you don’t have to. The programming happens subconsciously.

2- You must be “A Team Player”, which means accepting and following the ventures and commands the group has for you, even if it lacks rationality and intelligence, even if it’s biased and divisive with others outside the group.

3- As you belong to the group, your mind starts shifting from your individual identity to a ‘group identity’. And soon you start creating the way you are, your goals, your values, your way of thinking and feeling, and the truth based on the group.

4- Your attachment to the group’s mentality creates the illusion that you are whole only with the group. In this illusion, you become attached, fascinated, addicted to what the group offers you. Soon, your subconscious creates the program where you believe you are nothing without the group.

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Vast horizon

The mental prison

We all have proplems–financial, in relationships, personal, etc. And the mind can be a prison. When one lives in one’s own mental world, great distress, great overthinking. This can really drive a person mad, and make this one aggressive towards others as well.

We may even lose focus of what is important in our lives, neglect ourselves and those close to us. I personally let it go. It’s a mental practice, never becoming attached to anything at all; but especially to those things I have no control over.

The greatest freedom

And letting go is not so easy at times. But is freedom what we must seek in life, not more debt, not more beliefs, not more traditions, not more commitments to something we are not passionate about. But freedom. Always freedom.

Freedom is psychological. To feel free to think clearly. To feel free from overthinking and the burdens it brings. We will love life according to how we feel. If we feel positive, there’s a bigger chance and capacity for us to be happy and in love.

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Squashing self-doubt

Breaking barriers

Sometimes people think that it cannot be done, because others haven’t achieved it in the past, or because it doesn’t exist yet. But I personally like to push boundaries. I create my own style, in my writing, in the fitness of my mind and body, and in life in general.

This gives me great power and freedom. Because life is entirely about breaking barriers. Besides, isn’t life about discovering yourself?? You cannot truly discover who you are, and what you can become, if you have mental limitations or fears that control the way you act, think and feel.

Develop your creativity

Be grateful for what you have, and for what you have lived, of course. But do not stop there. Make sure you are always pushing yourself, learning more, opening your mind to more.

The greatest tool to develop is creativity, because this expands your mind–regarding empathy, self-awareness, an easy-going attitude, the capacity to see solutions and create new paths in your life. So, always squash self-doubt by pushing yourself and just doing always more of what leads you to be better and create better.

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Freeing yourself

Shielding yourself from the outside

No woman, as no man, should let society dictate what her strengths are, what her beauty is, what her place in the world is. The everyday pressures to think, feel, behave a certain way. The influences from social media, from celebrities, from friends, from family.

All this is causing major disruption in our thinking process. Much anxiety is being allowed in our minds by all this garbage. There must be a 100% focus on your inner world, taking care of your mental health and blocking or ignoring whatever is not uplifting and conducive to your well-being.

An inner revolution

After all, life is about discovering yourself; but for this, you must focus entirely on the way you think and feel without any bias or influence from anything or anyone out there. If there is no self-discovery, a person is like a machine. A machine follows set programming.

A machine follows and copies what others have programmed into it. But a machine can never be truly unique. And life, love, happiness, as a better human being, requires us to be unique and to study ourselves in depth in order to grow. Ponder this and start an inner revolution.

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