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More out of life

It’s easy to be upset, and to remain upset. It’s easier to destroy than to create. Remaining upset means holding onto what happened, to your desire to blame everyone and everything but yourself, to escape responsibility or any change to move on. Holding on feels good, because it does not take effort from you, and it doesn’t bring change, and it means you are right.

PROVING as in facts, not opinions or feelings. And facts can only be experienced if you remain unchained from the old, from old views, from old feelings, from all blind faith, and from whatever makes your thinking bias and your spirit unable to soar to new heights. See, whatever we think is keeping us down, or keeping us feeling this way, or keeping us in pain, or thinking that we are going nowhere. It is always us.

Moving on though creates uncertainty, because your feelings evolve, things change, new things happen, and it takes courage to let go and experience new feelings and the possibility of being wrong or mistaken. But, as it really is, experiencing life is moving on, adapting, changing to new perspectives, PROVING to yourself if you were wrong or not.

And what makes you see this truth is perspective. So, if you decide to remain the way you are, or holding on to the way you think and believe now, then your perspective is always the same and it will not change. But if decide, even though it may be hard for you, to change, to let go of pride, to leave the past, to create new beliefs and new ways to see life, then your mind shifts and your perspective changes.

And, in time, as your perspective changes, so does your heart, which means the way you truly feel about yourself and all existence changes as well. And now your spirit soars to new heights, to heights you had no idea existed before. And then there is a new, constant feeling of wellness in you, not the roller coaster of good moments and bad ones. But true happiness and true love that you, and only YOU, have created.

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To the top

It’s a long journey…

…And why should you quit?? That is extremely personal. What is it really worth to you?? What are the true benefits for you, for your life?? Is it messing with your mind too much, stressing you too much?? Are you willing to be patient and committed for a long time, maybe months, maybe years, maybe even decades??

Answers to these, very personal questions should only be based in how you feel, not in the expectations of society or anybody else. But, in finding the answers, one must let go of anger, pride, past trauma and disappointment, and let go of any other egotistical burden the mind carries. Big decisions, those that may be life changing for us, or those that we consider really important, have to be understood without bias.

It’s about your liberation…

If you don’t give up, then you learn. If you learn, then your mind and perspective expands. And if that happens, then you liberate yourself a little bit more. And then a little bit more. And in that process, which is a process of love and compassion for the self, of wanting better and more for your self, then you awaken a little more, and strengthen yourself a little more, and liberate yourself from your own darkness a little more.

And we all carry darkness, obviously, which is a good thing. Any darkness we carry is light that we have made opaque over the years, growing up, experiencing trauma and suffering. That is when life turns really beautiful: when we understand our own darkness and do what we must to find that liberation.

And about adaptation

If there is no liberation of the self, it doesn’t matter what you do, you will not be truly happy and you will continue with sorrows and fears. Because true happiness is a long, arduous, at times extremely confusing journey of your self; and it is only found through liberation. But, like I said, it is very personal; so you have to ask yourself the tough questions first.

Because to answer them is a long journey that requires your full commitment and the biggest self-love; which means you have to adapt to new ways of thinking about yourself and the world. Most people fail, give up, do not even care, or get distracted along the way. …So, are you like most people…??

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Greatest Understanding

Rigidity

No matter who you are, or your situation in life, the enemy is always there, because your ego is always there. So, the enemy of happiness, of love, of intelligence, of understanding, and of progress as an individual in life is all about mental obstacles.

Mental obstacles make us rigid, ignorant, unable to see truth, and fearful of any change around us. Attaching ourselves to a specific belief, idea, tradition, romantic notion, and perspective in life is what creates mental obstacles.

Evolution

There is no barrier bigger than attachment. That nagging and egocentric feeling created in us that says we are right–i.e., right about our beliefs, about our religion, about our politics, about our ideals, about our perspectives and ways to live life.

With any attachment comes suffering, because attachment means a rigid and bias mental state. Life itself is evolution, new ways to see life, welcoming the new, challenging yourself with things that make you uncomfortable. Your mind must change in order to evolve. The world around you changes. So why would you not change and evolve with it??

Difference

Too many people dislike others because they have different religions, and politics, and different ways to see life. But the truth is that there is not one way to be. There are differences in life because people are born and raised in different ways and conditions.

So, you may see and hear Republicans, Democrats, the rich, the poor, the criminal, the non-criminal, the hundreds of religions in the world. So, ask yourself: Why so much difference?? Because people are scared, lonely, irritated, in pain; so they create all these based in their perspectives.

Personal Growth

But no one is right to judge another, because you haven’t been raised in the same way. And there is no right or wrong really, but only perspectives. So, to be free means to understand this, because with this understanding you grow in intelligence. But if you are attached to anything at all, then your rigid mind will see the differences in the world and make you hate them.

And the more you hate, the more you distance yourself from personal growth. And without personal growth, you cannot reach any true love, happiness, or intelligence in life. Intelligence is seeing and understanding the world with its many differences, but it starts from understanding yourself and your own attachment.

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How unique are you…??

Open your eye

-How unique are you…?? And what if our love wasn’t just a passing fad?? What if our devotion could be timeless, not held prisoner by mood swings, not held prisoner by overwhelming passions, not best suited for moments of joy and prosperity alone??

-Open your unique eye. Our past, present, and future are all the same, just as long as our hearts are one and our minds are freed from thoughts of misfortune and self-victimization. Can you love yourself even if the skies come down on you??

See the truth

-Allow the world to turn, people to be what they want, events to sway and collapse with the passing of time. Let your thoughts and feelings pass like the weather, which is unexpected and dramatic too often. You hold on to yourself beyond all that drama, and all over again know the deep, timeless love that is true.

-Can you let go of the illusion ?? People grow old and die. Flowers wither away. Prophets and news speak of the end of times in some aspect. And yet, everything is as it is meant to be. Nothing is fatal. Nothing is real.

-So, keep a mind alert and see the truth of our love, which does not grow old and die, which does not wither away, which does not end with the times. But, this ancient knowledge, this great understanding, this cosmic way of life, requires your courage to let the world go. How unique are you…??

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Life

Vital Focus

Remind yourself: Living a better life is about appreciating what you have. And living a happy life is also about appreciating what you have. Society, and our individual intellectual mind, makes us lose focus of what really matters.

All true love is born in you when you are fully satisfied with your life as it is, which means focusing and appreciating what you have in this moment–whatever that is. There is no true joy without this vital focus.

And that is what life is; namely a moment of focus in what we call time, space, or evolution. But if you focus on the stress and the bad things that could happen, then you are not fully enjoying life.

As You Make It

Being alive without enjoying life brings all sorts of mental and physical distortions and illnesses. Accept yourself, your situation, others, as they are; but do not dwell on the negativity or in the unpleasantness, instead focus on your own well being and on moving on.

At the end of the day, life is as precious as you make it. The worst anyone can do is to wish this, that, or what others have. Wishing, and attaching yourself to this wish, inevitably brings feelings of suffering and self-victimization.

It leads to feelings of jealousy and regret, and these paralyse you while taking away your capacity for growth. Life becomes worthless if you feel no capacity for growth, which is lack of value and confidence to work on yourself and on what you want.

The Reason You Create

Nobody likes to feel like this, because it changes your mood, because it makes you see life as being unjust, and because it makes you feel like you do not matter in the world. This creates a void in your heart, which is the kind of loneliness that makes you suffer and even makes you question the reason for existing.

And, of course, existing in itself has no reason. The “burden”, or greatest challenge in our lives, is to give our existence, our life, meaning. But I am talking about the kind of meaning that rises from your own mental wellbeing.

“Being born again”. So, forget about your past, what you’ve suffered, what somebody else did to you, and be born again. This is done by training your mind to appreciate what you have now, by not comparing yourself or your life, and by patiently taking steps to build more of what you want/to bring more meaning into your life.

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A better approach

A better approach

Composure and emotional control. There are things we cannot control, events we cannot even see coming, and tragedies we cannot avoid. It is pointless to argue and whine about it, and even more pointless to victimize ourselves and stay angry at the world.

Assume a better approach. Ease your mind. Strengthen yourself by controlling your thoughts, your reactions, and your expectations. Tell yourself that nothing is a given, that anything can happen, and that you are okay with any outcome. Because it is about relaxing your mind and adapting to the situation.

Whatever the event. Whatever the loss. Whatever the tragedy. Whatever the injustice. Move on. Detach yourself from any strong desire, need, expectation. If to be happy means anything is freedom. Freedom to let go. Freedom to adapt to whatever life throws at you.

A better mind

If you pursue something–a relationship, a financial situation, a very personal event in your life–do it without attachment. Attachment is born from obsessing over something, from overthinking, from desiring too much, from putting your entire mind, heart, and hope into something.

You could accomplish and have all you want. Absolutely everything in this life. But if your mind does not have freedom, then you really haven’t accomplished anything at all. The freedom to let go and adapt. The freedom to accept and move on. This is the source of all happiness.

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About falling in love

Let it go, beautiful. The worries. The fears. The insecurities. And all that weighs you down. Nothing is as bad as the overthinking mind makes it out to be. Love the new colors, enjoy the new tastes, and appreciate the excitement your heart feels.

Leave the past behind. After all, who you were and what happened to you is gone. Dear, be kind and fair with yourself; evolve and create yourself, your life, your world now.

Listen to your heart, not to your mind and the anxiety it creates. Be patient and carefully analyze how you feel, what you feel, what you really want and how to get it.

And if you look inside and some pain still lingers there, do not run away from it. Do not judge it. Do not make yourself a victim. Twist that pain, mold that pain, and build steps with it in order to grow and empower yourself.

Sometimes we chain ourselves. Sometimes we live in desperation. Big mistake that slowly withers the soul and kills the will to live. So, rise above this, step out of your mind and see what is out there. Expand your horizons, your chances for happiness.

The heart wants what it wants, just make sure it inspires you and frees you from any anxiety. Darling, life is about loud colors, and extraordinary tastes, and wonderful excitement, and all that which wakes the rebel in you.

Because it’s all about that beautiful rebel, the one who dares love again and again, the one who sees the chains and manipulations out there, the one who changes things instead of letting things change them.

And when you fall in love, make sure you stay there. And when you find someone that inspires you to love yourself, vanish all your fears and insecurities to make room for them. Love the new colors, enjoy the new tastes, and appreciate the excitement your heart feels.

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Initiating change

Find the Strength

Overthinking is what creates confusion and fear. Change must be an act. Don’t think about how hard, or how strange, or how challenging it will be. But find the strength in your heart, not in your mind.

I know from personal experience that one must initiate change without analyzing to death every scenario that could or could not happen. The intellectual mind has no chance of self-fulfillment.

This overthinking cripples you, it makes you find excuses, it strengthens your ego to create biased “logic” to keep you chained to old habits. You really go nowhere like this.

Act on It

Love and happiness is in you, but is known through a mental expansion, an open-mindedness, new perspectives and experiences. You only find these when you welcome and initiate change in your life.

Needless to say, nobody knows for certain what the future holds, because it is a creation based on choices you must make now. New, bold, challenging choices that lead to great change. More than dreaming it, acting on it.

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Growth…

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A storm in Paradise

We are all of it. We are the good. The not so good. The love. The fear. The capacity for joy. The capacity for misery. The voice that lives in the past, in the present, in the future. And I personally do not deny it, because I see it as a strength.

Never escape your troubles, your feelings of pain and misery, whatever you carry from your past, your struggles to be healthy, etc. It is all about embracing who you are, and then using all you are to become the best you can be.

That is the journey to seize in life. The journey of self-discovery, of uniqueness, of creation. If my mind tries to escape or label something as bad, then fear grips me and I am its slave. The key is doing things from love, not from fear.

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About that great drive…

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Development of a great purpose

You know, one thing about purpose is that is a requirement in life, especially the older you get you realize it more and more. Having a purpose is something that creates real passion in you, and also great motivation that is born from you without the approval from the people/society around you.

As you all know, my greatest purpose is the constant development of my writing and creativity. But I admit it is a challenge for me. I sometimes get so immersed in the story and in the purpose driving the characters that I deviate from the plot, or branch out from the plot altogether.

So, I usually have to go back, even re-edit what I’ve written, fix the scenes, and then describe the new events to attract the reader. It might sound funny, but it happens in our lives, when we get so excited or overjoyed with something that we have to stop ourselves and look back to where we are going.

How to treat a great purpose

Many of you won’t understand this, perhaps, but it is extremely important to be patient and pay attention to detail when following a purpose. Let’s say, a relationship, for example: It takes time and dedication.

Maybe we have to fix what we did and change our attitude towards such and such. Because love, poured onto any purpose of great value to you, must be treated with love, kindness, and great patience for it to bloom like the most beautiful flower and give us that sense of great meaning in our lives.

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