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Everyday Magic…

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How do you see language, words, codes, our daily mental and verbal messages to ourselves and to other people…??  Do you actually realize the value and importance in life which words do have…??  What is the purpose of our many languages…??
As a writer I put a lot of analysis and meaning into words, because its usage, after all, is certainly the main medium for communication we have as human beings. Words can either create or destroy, elevate or humiliate, make others feel loved or despised, make others do great things or unspeakable things.  Can you see this for yourself…??

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Think about it–  Hitler made people, which were good and decent people before, hate and kill others.  Jesus, Buddha, and other Enlightened Ones, opened minds into love and made people follow their wisdom teachings.  Religions nowadays make people’s minds narrow and unable to see reality with their ignorant words.  You can either create a great human being or a criminal with words, specially during early childhood when the human brain is absorbing more knowledge from what their parents say.

Creation endowed us with the great capacity for words, for greater communication, for a mighty reason.  Our words are powerful and to be used with great responsibility.

 

Words in your mind.  Words aloud to yourself and to others.  Great energy they are.  White magic, words of love, which builds and elevates yourself and other people.  Dark magic, words of all contempt and fear, which destroys and humiliates yourself and other people…  So, use them carefully and with responsibility…
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“Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity.  We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair.  Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.”  ~ Yehuda Berg; Israeli-American international speaker and author on Kabbalah.


 

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Give them freedom…

Do you understand relationships…??  What is the point of honest communication…??  Do you bring freedom to your relationships…??

In human relationships the key element is honest communication, as we all know, as we all try to become better human beings in life; however, quite often one gets taken by this obsession for winning, for coming out ahead, for proving ourselves to the other, thus the ego takes over and a communication based on love and understanding vanishes.  This calls for self-reflection and less pride; so, this calls for more rich silence, less talking.

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The ego likes to talk and show off, defend itself and seek security; but the true heart of love is silent, wise, listens because it knows in silence there is true freedom.  And what is love…??  Is it a word…??  Is it talking and arguing…??  No.  True love is an essence which lives in the rich silence; in the rich silence of listening, in the rich silence of holding hands and walking together, in the rich silence of staring deeply into each other’s eyes… without a sign of ego… without trying to fix anything… without empty words all the time…


And that is exactly what one must bring into a relationship, into an honest communication with another, such freedom to liberate the mind of another and make them feel valued, appreciated to allow themselves to be heard by us, to express themselves freely and without any contention or threat.

This is love and understanding, to show true care in what someone else thinks and feels; because sometimes talking is of the ego and vanity itself, because sometimes to be quiet and listen is to guide our relationships into new, vaster horizons.


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“Much talking is the cause of danger.  Silence is the means of avoiding misfortune. The talkative parrot is shut up in a cage.  Other birds, without speech, fly freely about.”  ~ Saskya Pandita; Tibetan spiritual leader, Buddhist scholar, and writer.

 

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Heart of a relationship.

How can anyone actually listen without losing the message being conveyed…?? Why is it that so many arguments and misunderstandings in relationships occur…?? What is healthy communication, the kind of communication which unites or connects in harmony…??
Have you honestly ever stopped your rushing mind and ponder about this? Because if we analyze its importance, then we find that communication in any relationship is key; for communication is not only sharing opinions and passing a message, which is important in itself, but communication is an art form–communication is a deeper understanding of each other, a deeper realization of each other’s ideas and feelings.
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A deeper understanding and realization in order to find solutions which work for both parties, and also to mitigate misunderstandings and any psychological or even physical violence. Listening is the biggest part of a healthy communication, which is done only if your entire attention is on this process of listening.

If while communicating your attention is on your own thoughts and you are thinking on your reply to argue further, then you are losing the meaning of the communication, because you are disconnecting from this art form and you are distancing yourself from the other person or persons.  This ignorant act certainly creates a mind which is agitated, confused, violent, which lashes out at the ones around it; consequently, bringing its own suffering and walking away from one’s own heart.

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Wholeness of attention is to delve deeply into it, it is to stop your rushing mind when someone else speaks and being there wholly, listening without judgement; and because you cannot know everything, the inward act of attention conveys a message of humility saying, “I care about someone else’s feelings and not just my own, so I take the time to respect the other person as I’d like to be respected.



“Whatever you focus your attention on will become important to you even if it’s unimportant.” ~ Sonya Parker; American relationship writer, vloger, coach, and activist.


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Truly loving.

“Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others.  Because one is content with oneself, one doesn’t need others’ approval.  Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.”  ~ Lao-Tzu.


“Your problem is you are too busy holding on to your unworthiness.” ~ Ram Dass.



It is attachment to someone or to the idea of a relationship the one thing who distances you from self-love, and it clouds your rationale because it fills your mind with desire and obsession.

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When this happens you only see and feel what your ego designs, and so you start believing you are being guided by your heart when you are being fooled by your own selfish ego.

If another does not accept you how you are, if they force you to change, if they are always arguing and complaining about the way you are, then it means there is no love from their part; and you must love yourself enough to end the relationship.  Because happiness is not something you should struggle for, or beg for, and specially you must understand that happiness is self-love.  And how can you have self-love if you allow yourself to be forced to change and be controlled by someone who says he/she loves you…??

Life is not meant to be hell, unhappy, chained to struggle and suffering; but life is meant for you be yourself and surround yourself with people who really understand you and support your happiness. Thus, life is meant for you to elevate yourself in self-love and wisdom.


Communicate how you feel deep inside to others, let him/her know your innermost thoughts and feelings, and if there is no change in how you are being treated, then you will know that there exists no real love in the relationship.
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You must then do whatever is better for your own development, focus on your inner peace and embrace a strong self-love.  This is key to be happy and grow as a human being.

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No interference.

“If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.”  ~ Bruce Lee.


“When you begin to worry, go find something to do. Get busy being a blessing to someone; do something fruitful. Talking about your problem or sitting alone, thinking about it, does no good; it serves only to make you miserable. Above all else, remember that worrying is totally useless. Worrying will not solve your problem.”  ~ Joyce Meyer; Christian author, speaker, and president of Joyce Meyer Ministries.


 

This is the great prison of suffering of humanity, and the great tool of elevation of humanity at the same time.  Through thinking we all communicate and move in this world of form, and it is so crucial in our everyday living that most people make it a god unto themselves; therefore, they praise the content of their thoughts–i.e., all the data, the beliefs, the ideas, the memories, the cultural background, and so on and so forth.  This strengthens the illusion of thought being their true nature, this transforms people into automatons, which are basically artificial beings acting in a monotonous, routine manner, without active intelligence.

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Now, thinking and analyzing things carefully is extremely important, specially for intellectual thinkers like myself and others; however, thinking may become an obsession where we dwell on memories and future visions, where we live with regret and stress, and where our whole perspective of ourselves and of life comes from thought.  This, whether you know it or not, contradicts the heart of life; because life is not moved by thought, but life is moved by the hearts and good intentions of people which act on their own paths.

You see, real love makes the world progress, build, innovate, into the spiritual, mental, and financial aspects; and so, real love then, must be action.

While you sit and think, ponder your life and your next move, time passes and opportunities go by like dreams at night.  While you sit and think, fears appear, images of reality get distorted, you experience regret or other forms of stress and fear in your mind/the ego.
The pure heart never experiences these by itself, but is always thought which brings the weight upon the heart; therefore, is always thought the one which creates more problems than solutions if we allow it to do so in every situation we encounter.

It is wise to understand then that thought, or thinking, might be left alone at times, so you can build true and direct communication with your own heart, pray in it, absorb the wisdom, and renew yourself.

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