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The way of Shiva.

Somewhere in New York City, present time.  Around 2 am.

The apartment is truly a mess:  TV bashed in, things strewn on the floor, mirrors hanging on the wall cracked in two.  The apartment of a really angry and miserable person, a person who sits perfectly still on his living room chair now, a person whose thought is clear and peaceful now, a person who had a real awakening and feels… different…

 

Jesus!!!–  What da hell?!–  What happened?!–  What am I doing…?!  Why did I do that…?!  … Who am I…??  Am I one or two…??  I feel… I dunno.  I think I feel better now.  Jeez–  But who or what was that…??  I didn’t recognize him.  Man, this is crazy, and it was like I had a demon in me.  Perhaps a demon I had all along, but I had not realized it before.  But–But everything is so clear now.  And I don’t feel guilty.  I feel… I feel free, my mind feels so light, unburdened from the demon who was just a few seconds ago wreaking havoc.  The one who did this… in my mind and in my apartment…

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My life.  I have to do something about it, now that I can see clearly…  God–  My head.  I have to stand up from this chair and walk around, be more in the present and try to emotionally connect to myself…  Ah!–  Funny.  And to think I had to hit rock bottom and try to kill myself to see this clearly, to think this clearly…  “Shiva, The destroyer”–The old must be destroyed to build the new.  Ordinary must be replaced by extraordinary.  The mind elevates and the spiritual being is realized fully.  That’s the way of Shiva–  That crazy book, from that crazy guy, it had it right all along.  Yeah, I was so stupid.  Why was I that stupid…??  I don’t remember.  Praising those superficial people, wanting to be like them instead of being myself, eating like them, believing what they believed, visiting the places they visited.  Shit–  I can fly now, and I can be myself, and I feel more confident than ever…  Yes, definitely!  This is the start of a new life for me!

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“Shiva, The Destroyer of The Old and Builder Of the New.”

 

Several minutes earlier.  Climbing the stairs up to his apartment, taken by devil, really angry and cursing the very air he breathes…

 

Goddammit!–  I can’t…  God–  I can’t even breathe now.  Jesus–  The steps of the damn stairs!  I see blurry.  What is this?!  Why now…??  My heartbeat is really pounding this time.  But I just…  It was just some fun like always.  I loved the adrenaline.  The drugs.  The dancing.  The illegal racing.  And the girls…  Damn you–  I’m not…  I am better than this!  I am…  I just want to die.  Fortunately, I have that gun still sitting in my room.  Gotta try again.  Thought things would be better, but they are–they are… not…  The guys!–  My so called friends.  Shit!–  SLAMM!! 

I can’t even see clearly.  Dammit–  This is the living room.  And this rage!  GGOODD!!!  Fuck!…  Oh, shit.  Why me…??  … But, yeah.  It’s the only solution…  What is this?  My mother gave me this for Christmas.  Never used it.  Still has the fucking bow…  My mother.  She probably doesn’t need me that much.  What da fuck is my role in this family?!  I’m a loser anyway…  It’ll all be over soon…  SMASH!!!  I hate this TV!  It brought me so much confusion and I didn’t even know it back then.  I always hated myself for being the way I am!…  SMASH!!!  Well, there will be no bad luck from breaking this shitty mirror now that I will be fucking gone, will it?!

SMASH!!!  SMASH!!!  No one will treat me like that anymore!  It will stop all the pain and this… FUCKING RAGE!  SMASH!!!  … Yeah, and I wanted to start my own business!  Selling what?!–stupid real state?!  I didn’t even go to high school!!  Look at all this shit–  These stupid marketing plans, and these contracts…  GOD!–  Where’s that fucking gun?!  … Here it is…  The cold grip, the solution to my problems, fast and painless…  Jesus!  My–My hands.  I can’t–I can’t make ’em stop shaking!…  My thoughts.  Too fucking loud!  And my heart doesn’t stop!  AAGGGHHH!!!– 

BBAAAANNGG!!!  (…and so the bang of the gun was loud, but it slipped his clammy hand just in time, and shot through the window into the dark and fateful night…)

 

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The free mind of a human god!

The present to Enlightenment. And Eckhart Tolle’s “The Power of Now.”

“To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.”  ~  Eckhart Tolle; spiritual teacher and author.

Being in the present is not a concept, an image, or a word that our mind can create, like it creates the past and the future.  Enlightenment, or higher spiritual awakening, can ONLY be realized through the communion with our own biology, our inner essence of the divine; however, most people search for Enlightenment outside of themselves, or even in their own minds, by filling their minds with knowledge, by doing good acts, by following spiritual teachers and hoping Enlightenment attaches itself to them, but, of course, this is a serious mistake.

The mind, the ego, does not have anything to do with higher spiritual awakening. Find out what does.

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Self-help life truths.

My channel trailer (video).

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Stories to ponder.

Moving things…

Territory of England, year 1349.  In some godforsaken open field, mud-filthy, where darkness is everywhere.  An unknown hero lies bruised and beaten almost to a mere pulp…

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But I did it!  Did I…??…  Yes, I am most certainly sure of it.  In the middle of it, or the end of it.  I dunno, it’s all a blur… or most of it is.  But I was there, and my hands, they were on fire.  I thought that my whole bloody arm was about to burst into the same essence of hellfire itself.  My other arm was rather fine, until it happened.  But my head, it was spinning, rushing like a million demons, and it was burning.  Although not burning like my hands, but it was–it was cold, too cold…??

I cannot even feel it now.  Bathed in blood and guts, can’t feel pain and I don’t know if I am dead or alive, covered in clouds of darkness.  But what really happened…??  Is it within me..??  Some kind of transmutation, as someone surely calls it…??  Energy, isn’t it?  …Well, isn’t it?!…  Magic..??  Boldly the demon vitality rules the outside lands of Wessex, it causes terror on many, but it is good to many more.  At the service of my most noble Lord King, I know this…  The mud is cold now, like my head was…  But I cannot rid myself of these torturous images, it is like some insanity taking over.  See, I moved things.  Men were flying across the polluted air…


 

Hours earlier, amidst the blood showers and wretched screams of death, the unknown hero wields his sword with beastly mastery…

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Chink!–  I guess I am fighting my enemies with no thought; because thinking is great to be used before war, to plan for it, or to plan a specific move during war.  But, the master taught me, absolute focus and power on the actual battle is reached through a state of no thought; because thought confuses you, it makes you doubt yourself, it compares your strength with the opponent’s, it makes you fearful and weak…  Chink!–  The blades collide in mid air, guts spew like volcanoes in eruption, blood and unknown liquids shower me.  The great obscenities of war surround me.

Absolute focus and power, the mind must be elevated, always in the moment, move with mastery through the moment but don’t strain yourself over it; flow with it, be one with it, and no past or future should rule the mind of the warrior but the moment…  Chink!–  “Living in the moment shall set you free,” master Kundu said.  And I am moving now, but how I move is not relevant; however, moving is, life is movement, “You are life, my son,” he said…

But what--what is it?!  It is calling to me!  But not voices, something bigger, more expressive, more direct in my being.  Shit!–  I can’t stop it.  Chink!–   It flows through me!  It rattles my head!  This godforsaken land, the mud, the clouds of dust, the unrelenting monsters of war.  They keep coming at me.  And I can’t stop.  AAAGGHH!!–  The pain!  I am on my knees, imploring and fighting my enemies at the same time, blood coating me still, my skin torn and bleeding.  The air is cold and screaming in my ears, entering my head, making it all mush!  GGOODD!!!–  What is happening?!  Is my mind, is not…  My hands.  Jesus!–  How am I doing that?!  Am I…  Could it be a dream…??  My enemies are being tossed aside and backwards, here and there without my involvement.

Bloody hell?!–  What is this?!  Some kind of magic??  And–And my head, it–it  bursts!  Woah!–  Am I–Am I moving away from the ground??  It does not seem real.  But it feels real.  But emerging not from out there, emerging from within me…  I can see something coming at me now, like a thousand banshees speeding through the severely polluted air.  It is a form, a shape, a solid object!  What the hell?!–  I cannot move!  Or float out of its way!  And in the midst of all these misery from battle and the loud noises of the swords and hatchets connecting with steel and also bare flesh.  Death below me. 

The massive stone flings at me!  And–And I BLACK OUT…

All is mind. Human evolution dictates how the mind behaves through time; your desire does not, and that is why your mind cannot move things by itself… yet. It takes a HIGHLY ELEVATED mind to do amazing things which are now the stuff from the movies you see. But all is real, nothing is fiction for the forces behind evolution…

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The free mind of a human god!

The story of the God-man (video).

“People  are  like  dirt.  They  can  either  nourish  you  and  help  you  grow  as  a  person  or  they  can  stunt  your  growth  and  make  you  wilt  and  die.”  ~ Plato;  Greek  philosopher, educator.


 

The  very  act  of  man  standing  erect  and  walking  upon  this  earth,  of  building  shelter,  of  enjoying  foods  which  sustain  life,  of  the  marvelous  working  of  the  lungs  and  of  the  miraculous  powers  of  the  heart  remains  unpaid  to  a  divinity  which  shall  bear  no  worthless  name  according  to  man’s  weak  confusion;  but,  however,  in  the  Eternal  Mind  such  is  the  almighty  power  of  Creation  itself,  which  has  thus  fashioned  all  space  and  time  and  the  bridge  that  unites  man  to  the  highest  and  most  blissful  riches  of  the  universe,  the  subconscious  force  or  omnipresent  mind—the  origins  of  the  god-man  bestowed  upon  and  introduced  within  the  human  form  of  the  everyday  facade.  

The  science  in  this  is  profound  and  in  agreement  with  the  great  sages  of  old  times.  That  the  heartbeats  themselves  produce  vibrating  forms  of  energy,  waves  and  ripples  of  the  electromagnetic  aura  around  the  heart  deeply  connected  to  a  source  of  prophetic  wisdom  and  emotional  power  the  common  man  whose  consciousness  is  planted  upon  the  physical  senses  dares  not  think  of.  That is the God-Man.

Now the story of how we became beings, then corrupted, and then lost in this land.

Since before time and space we existed and we were literally one, then chaos started, ego came into being and greed and the need to enslave the minds of other men. 

How did we get to this point…??  How to be free…??  What or who is the God-Man really…??

Let’s find out together.

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Self-help life truths.

The bird that flies.

“We know that in tough times, cynicism is just another way to give up; and in the military, we consider cynicism or giving up simply as forms of cowardice.”  ~ James Mattis; American Marine Corps general, and United States Secretary of Defense.

 

Yes, it is true that life is challenging and painful, and this is why life, this wonderful physical existence we have been gifted with, is precious and rich; and this is also why it requires a higher mind, a higher person living based on truth and love, to understand why you should see life as what it is and not as what you think it is.  Look, if you see life as what you think it is, as what your thoughts are telling you it is, then you will probably end up suffering in all you do and even killing yourself because of all the enormous stresses weighing you down; however, if you put aside your opinions and immature thoughts about life, and so see it as what really is, then you will definitely thrive and gain the wisdom to move forward even when things seem dark in your path.

Life is like a little child:  If you use violence and try to force your own way, then the child will become resentful and unruly, disobedient and with a vengeful heart towards you and towards others.  But if you use good communication, trust and faith on the child, and, most importantly, patience in the rearing of that same child, then he will become giving and obedient to you, he will do as you say and make life really easy for you.

People adopt certain postures and views of life, either positive or negative and for whatever reason, this process can either blind people in darkness or turn on a powerful light on them, but always remember that life, in its natural or divine context, is pure and innocent like the child; so, it will do based on your thoughts, words, and attitudes, and like the child it will take the course you are telling it to take.  And like the child, life will observe you and see if you give up on it or not; then, if life sees that you give up on it, it will take offense and resentment, it will give you your deserved reward, the reward of someone that gives up and has no faith; but if life sees the patience and faith you have on it, the commanding voice and the deep love, then you will be blessed with great rewards and a life of a great attitude towards you..

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The light at the end of the ladder which is your path is always brilliant and refreshing, but we cannot see it sometimes, or even feel it, because we let darkness, knowingly or unknowingly, overwhelm us with its presence.  And darkness always lives within us because it is that negative part in our human psyches, that challenging part which gives worth to that physical existence I was mentioning at the start; on the other hand, we have been given powerful light within us as well, to battle and extinguish that same darkness from affecting us to the point of breakdown–i.e., because our bodies and minds are like very sophisticated computers, they can either run with power and efficiency, or breakdown with poisonous viruses and lack of good maintenance of the software. 

You are the maintenance of your own sophisticated computer, so it is up to you! 

In order not to give up and let darkness take you over in life, you MUST become aware of your thoughts and emotions, not let thoughts and emotions dictate your existence but raise above them and rule them like a god rules over lesser beings.  By becoming proactive and practical, by stepping out of your funk and out of your own biased opinions and narrow views of the sadness and pain in life, you become truly aware and faithful and patient towards life; consequently, life will become your best friend and you will start seeing opportunities and reasons to feel happy every single day (some may call this blessings, but in essence it is just that you are following the Universal Law and not going against it).

Being creative and engaging in activities that create good thoughts and feelings in us, specially when darkness and misery knock our psychological door, is the biggest and most important tool life, in its wisdom, has given us to battle these demons of darkness.  This is not about denying pain and misery, or not feeling the ugly things about life, but this is about not letting darkness and misery consume you.  This is about the bird that flies into the vastness of the blue sky, and not about the bird of broken wings that lies in the dirt waiting to be trampled by someone.

 

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As Napoleon Hill said, and it is in fact a powerful writing hanging on my wall which I contemplate every single day, “A Quitter Never Wins.  A WINNER Never Quits.” 

And I never give up.  I always steer to win.

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Self-help life truths.

The hidden you (first video)

“Our mind is like a cloudy sky: in essence clear and pure, but overcast by clouds of delusions.  Just as the thickest clouds can disperse, so, too, even the heaviest delusions can be removed from our mind.”  ~ Kelsang Gyatso; Buddhist monk, meditation teacher, scholar, and author.

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To me, the essence of what we truly are is the most essential understanding I carry with me about life which influences my thought and behaviors.

Most of us walk around blind to our real worth and identity, so, in this mirage so real to us, we engage in arguments and fights, and rebellious and ignorant attitudes which take us to pain and suffering and all kinds of negative emotions of destruction. This is because we find our identities, our value in what we know, in the knowledge we have acquired throughout years and all experiences we have gone through in this physical realm; however, the energy within those atoms that form you is what you truly are, it is your ONLY real identity and value because that never dies, but your body and mind do. Some of us call this energy imagination and the process of creating value to connect to other human beings.

In this video, I explain certain things about it from my own experiences in life:

 

https://youtu.be/j5XbyDaqeRU

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Anatomy and physiology of life

Freedom of The Muse.

The position of the artist is humble.  He is essentially a channel.”  ~ Piet Mondrian; Dutch painter.


 

Many people who try writing creatively, even so-called “experts”, or any creative pursuit which involves great muse and motivation from the subconscious energies of the human being really, made the mistake of thinking more and using freely flowing imagination less.  And I suspect this is the main reason people have designed this “Writer’s Block” that is affecting most of the world’s creativity process.  Intelligence is a tool we have to criticize and analyze, to discern what is good and what is not; however, intelligence is just that, a tool, and shouldn’t get in the way of deep and great creativity, or in the way of the wonderful creative process which emerges from beyond our intelligence or intellect–i.e., which emerges from beyond the conscious, analytic mind of man.

See, the creative process involves forming wild and fantastical images, sensory, emotional and highly intuitive data in your mind’s eye; so, this must be richly loaded with free range of colors, ideas, textures, environments, situations perhaps outside of what is “normal”, etc., and therefore there is no room for the rigidity of analysis or critics–because analysis or critics may destroy the rich creativity.  Creativity must run free and inspirational, not be tied down to a certain way of society or to a rule of creation aspect.  See, using psychology and some ideas extracted from the world of thought and shape we all know is fine to give some structure to the creation itself, but this structure means limitation and rules, so the real creativity comes before all structure and rule take place, and it does not come to your mind forced by you.

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The process is not something you force like you force a thought created by a desire, but it is crucial to understand that you have to sit down and free your mind from the imposed rules and expected shapes of a narrative and characters; so, do not worry about what is strategic and real when you create a story or a character, specially when writing a screenplay (because screenwriters are mostly tied down by structure and rules), because that can come later when doing the editing work.  First you have to lose yourself in imagination, lose all inhibition and fear of messing up, without the impositions of your mind criticizing and analyzing your every mental move.  Respect the uniqueness of your higher mind (the subconscious) by letting it create apart from the noise and constant chatter of your monkey mind (your conscious).

A highly creative story is about emotional connection, perhaps of fantastical themes depending on the genre, it is about designing a new paradigm and way of experiencing in people; so, if the writer created with impositions and rules, then, the “magic” for people reading the writer’s work is gone, the substance made out of your deeper imagination is gone, marred by the rules and impositions your analytical mind has created.

Have this mentioned thought in mind whenever you sit down to write anything creative, or whenever you paint, because if you do so it will save you a lot of mental energy being wasted and stress being pushed into the process.

 

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Business mind.

Mastermind (PART4)


This is PART 4 of a short series of blogs on Mastermind  Leadership from a book I am writing, titled:  “Inner Wealth.  Outer Wealth.,” which deals with the spiritual, mental, and physical processes of all success achievement in life.


–Earlier, or in yesterday’s blog, I talked about a little bit about persistence in the mastermind as the greatest organizational tool of the true and wise leader.

I mentioned, among many other things, that no  real  man  achieves  great  success  in  any  function  by  giving  in  to  stress  and  fear,  or  by  letting  life’s  challenges  and  seeming  setbacks  belittle  him  and  his  efforts;  however,  you  need  to  incorporate  into  your  very  biology  this  universal  law  right  now,  that  the  harder  the  challenges  presented  in  your  life,  the  more  you  will  receive  from  the  universe  in  terms  of  success  if  you  remain  strong  and  resilient  throughout  those  hard  challenges. 


Now a little about delegating, its importance in all growth, and its extreme organization.

And  in  regards  to  the  collective  mastermind,  most  people  believe  that  as  leaders  or  creative  individuals  to  their  own  vision  theirs  should  always  be  the  responsibilities  to  do  everything,  the  grand  ideas  and  moves  of  the  business  should  be  their  doing,  that  they  should  not  trust  others  as  much;  however,  one  mind  cannot  cover  all  fields  of  knowledge  and  expertise,  one  mind  cannot  see  all  the  concealed  details  for  advancement  needed  in  the  bumpy  road  to  success,  and  so  full  trust  on  others  is  paramount  here.  Delegating  is  a  strength  only  the  true  and  powerful  leader  knows  and  uses  to  his  advantage,  and  so  delegating  means  a  calm  and  ordered  state  of  mind  which  is  free  of  fear  and  anxiety. 

This  takes  some  of  the  pressure  off  the  leader  and  balances  life  and  work  for  him;  therefore,  balance  is  the  key  to  the  door  to  all  success  and  bliss,  balance  brings  peace  and  clear-headedness  to  any  undertaking.  Like  Buddha  said,  “Follow  the  Middle-Way.”  Find  your  balance  between  two  extremes  in  life.

 

Delegating  as  the  most  important  skill  of  the  leader  in  life  and  in  business.

     “Don’t   be  a  bottleneck.  If  a  matter  is  not  a  decision  for  the  President  or  you,  delegate  it.  Force  responsibility  down  and  out.  Find  problem  areas,  add  structure  and  delegate.  The  pressure  is  to  do  the  reverse.  Resist  it.”  ~ Donald  Rumsfeld;  American  politician  and  businessman.

 

As  a  top  manager  and  wise  leader,  delegation  should  claim  its  rightful  center  stage  in  the  energies  of  your  consciousness,  and  should  be  allowed  to  penetrate  your  very  cellular  composition,  and  thus  become  your  persona  in  the  way  you  run  things.  Good  delegation  is  a  priority  of  organization,  without  a  doubt,  because  delegating  means  dissecting  problems  or  studying  the  field  to  develop  further  and  so  trusting  the  right  people  to  be  of  value  to  you  and  to  themselves.  Good  delegation  saves  time  and  energy,  it  adds  dynamic  growth  to  your  business  venture,  it  motivates  people  and  expands  their  horizons  of  the  undertaking,  allows  issues  or  process  problems  to  be  detected  with  competency  and  rapidity,  it  brings  focus  and  experience  to  people,  and  it  builds  and  boosts  great  management  assets  around  you—i.e.,  makes  wise  leaders  out  of  the  people  who  work  with  you.

But,  you  must  have  in  mind  this  also,  poor  delegation  will  bring  much  frustration  and  stress  to  you  and  to  your  venture,  it  will  make  the  other  person  feel  confused  and  depressed,  it  will  create  tension  and  emotional  distance  in  the  work  atmosphere,  it  will  certainly  stunt  all  growth,  and  it  might  design  an  attraction  vortex  to  more  poor  choicesThis  last  one  is  extremely  important,  and  quite  often  ignored  by  many  unwise  entrepreneurs,  perhaps  because  it  is  the  opposite  of  success  attraction;  therefore,  good  choices  and  good  delegation  attract  success,  and  poor  choices  and  poor  delegation  attract  disappointments.  History  is  full  of  many  stories  of  great  and  intelligent  people,  and  even  of  great  empires,  who  lost  everything  they  had  built  because  of  poor  delegation  skills.

Still,  delegating,  when  it  comes  to  true  organizational  skills  in  the  leader,  cannot  be  detached  or  indifferent  from  the  professional  mastermind  because  it  creates  forward  growth  and  unites  people,  and  that  is  exactly  what  professional  business  development,  and  even  life  in  general,  is  all  about,  the  unity  of  people  and  the  advocacy  of  coming  together  for  a  greater  purpose.

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Following,  I  bring  you  some  suggestions  to  have  in  mind  when  making  use  of  the  powers  of  delegation  in  your  own  mastermind:

     1)  Cultivate  patience:  When  delegating  and  trusting  people  you  must  remain  calm  and  stress  free,  guide  your  thoughts  of  anxiety  toward  some  other  task,  let  the  process  of  delegation  work,  simply  accept  that  you  are  sharpening  your  leadership  and  strengthening  your  business  venture  by  letting  the  other  person  be  part  of  that  growth.  When  you  do  this  is  also  important  that  you  have  in  mind  that  no  one  works  the  same  way,  with  the  same  ideas  and  strengths,  so  be  supportive  and  let  people  around  you  flourish  and  claim  their  own  value  and,  most  importantly,  at  their  own  time.

     2)  Know  your  people:  Get  to  know  people  beforehand  and  connect  at  a  professional  level  which  can  you  give  you  insight  into  their  individual  strengths  and  professional  skills,  because  in  the  good  and  wise  leader  falls  the  responsibility  of  delegating  to  the  right  people.  Qualifications  beyond  just  emotional  attachment  are  paramount  in  a  work  atmosphere,  or  in  any  life  venture  where  you  have  a  serious  purpose.  Furthermore,  you  do  not  get  the  best  people  for  the  task  being  delegated  just  for  the  sake  of  the  task  itself,  but  mainly  because  the  person  you  are  trusting  with  the  task  will  develop  himself  or  herself  further  and  grow  emotionally  if  that  person  possesses  the  right  qualifications  to  do  a  good  job.  As  a  leader,  think  always  in  terms  of  people  growth  and  the  rest  will  grow  by  itself;  if  the  people  expands  intellectually  and  emotionally,  so  will  the  business  venture.

3)  Be  proactive,  not  lazy:  The  process  of  delegation  is  about  intelligent  organization  and  creative  leadership,  and  not  about  overwhelming  people  with  the  tasks  you  do  not  like;  therefore,  you  delegate  masterfully  by  being  organized  and  professional  while  having  in  mind  the  right  procedures  for  growth  regarding  people’s  unique  strengths.  You  must  claim  wisdom  in  this,  not  only  due  to  the  ambition  for  business  expansion  you  might  have,  but  because  people  around  you  can  sense  your  lack  of  proclivity  in  your  own  work,  thus  you  will  lose  leadership  by  being  disorganized  and  by  forcing  most  of  the  tasks  on  them.    

     4)  Know  in  your  mind  precisely  why  you  are  delegating:  This  is  the  basic  understanding  of  the  serious  and  committed  leader,  because  there  is  no  real  leadership  without  understanding  of  the  processes  of  your  business  or  tasks;  however,  this  is  a  slow  process,  I  know,  and  you  cannot  figure  out  everything  by  yourself,  but  this  is  why  you  study  everything  in  detail,  the  ins  and  outs  of  your  business  venture,  and  also  this  is  why  you  have  partnered  with  individuals  with  different  skills.  Each  member  of  the  partnership  or  mastermind  alliance  should  understand  what  the  other  does,  for  this  creates  great  strength  and  connection  in  the  group,  just  like  a  pack  of  wolves  or  coyotes  each  has  a  definite  task  in  the  group  and  respects  each  other’s  roles.  And,  of  course,  it  goes  without  saying  that,  also  when  delegating,  you  as  the  leader  must  always  explain  why  you  are  delegating  to  whomever  you  are  delegating;  thus,  you  show  and  increase  leadership  skills,  and  you  pass  your  vision  and  mentally  prepare  people  further  for  the  task  at  hand.  Unity  and  connection  is  all.  Harmony  in  the  business  orchestra  is  all.

5)  Inquire  and  give  feedback:  While  you  let  the  person  work  on  his/her  assignment,  make  sure  you  touch  base  once  in  a  while  during  the  process,  not  to  hurry  the  person  or  to  invade  the  process  itself,  but  to  demonstrate  your  support  and  interest  and  also  offer  your  opinions  or  feedback  without  demanding  or  controlling  the  situation.  This  brings  an  atmosphere  of  honest  collaboration  and  forthcoming  dedication  to  the  same  goal,  and  it,  too,  communicates  to  the  group  a  dynamic  and  close  unity.  Using  welcoming  ideas  and  opinions  while  boosting  morale  goes  a  long  way  when  it  comes  to  the  professional  atmosphere,  and,  of  course,  always  appreciate  the  efforts  of  somebody  else.  The  one  thing  in  common  which  people  searches  in  anything  they  do,  consciously  or  subconsciously,  is  to  feel  of  value  themselves,  to  feel  important;  whether  is  about  starting  a  business  or  starting  a  family,  they  crave  the  feeling  of  being  somebody  and  doing  something  to  create  value—so  if  you  find  a  way  to  fulfill  this  human  need  in  your  mastermind,  then,  connection  will  grow  stronger  and  you  will  reach  success.

6)  Include  people  in  the  process:  Another  great  idea,  natural  of  the  empowering  leader,  is  to  delegate  by  including  people  in  the  process,  which  means,  when  possible,  letting  each  member  tell  you  what  they  can  do  and  at  what  task  they  can  stand  out.  The  goal  always  is  to  succeed  as  a  group,  not  to  outshine  others  as  an  individual  by  telling  them  all  the  time  what  to  do.  Success  is  a  collective  effort  which  demands  group  unity  and  forethought,  and  true  leadership  is  the  higher  system  keeping  this  harmony  operating  and  away  from  all  ego.

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7)  Communicate  clearly  and  with  focus:  This  is  extremely  important  and  basic  of  leadership,  because  here  you  make  sure  that  your  vision  and  specific  need  of  the  assignment  or  task  is  clearly  conveyed  to  your  partner  or  business  ally.  Your  mind  and  heart  has  to  find  absolute  focus  upon  the  delegated  theme  or  task,  in  order  for  this  process  to  be  fruitful  and  also  become  a  strong  foundation  for  the  whole  business  venture;  therefore,  ensure  clear  communication,  state  perfectly  your  needs  for  the  project,  your  mental  projections  and  expectations,  but  do  it  in  a  gentle  and  professional  manner  thus  truly  leading  and  not  demanding  of  the  other  person  or  persons.  Give  or  talk  about  clear  timelines  or  processing  time  and  what  to  expect  in  reality,  engage  and  connect  and  allow  people  to  ask  and  also  have  access  to  all  they  need  to  fulfill  the  job;  consequently,  it  is  very  helpful  for  the  leader,  for  the  person  being  delegated,  and  for  the  very  process  itself,  to  write  everything  I  mentioned  down  in  a  piece  of  paper  or  template  with  guidelines  for  the  project  or  goal.  Remember,  the  more  specific  and  organized  you  are,  the  more  connection  with  people  and  thus  the  more  probability  of  getting  the  results  you  need  for  success.

     8)  Identify  the  task  portion  to  delegate:  Sometimes  you  do  not  have  to  delegate  the  whole  task,  perhaps  you  can  manage  some  duties  really  well  and  some  others  are  not  your  forte,  and  that  is  why  you  must  be  really  acquainted  with  the  job  at  hand  and  align  it  with  the  right  expertise;  therefore,  give  others  the  value  of  helping  you  and  sharing  the  responsibility  through  each  individual  expertise.  When  you  delegate  a  portion  of  the  task,  you  have  to  make  sure  all  the  group  parts  understand  what  they  specifically  have  to  do  on  their  respective  portions.  This  is  deep  sharing  which  must  work  in  harmony  and  unity,  and  it  ought  to  bring  you  closer  in  communication  with  all  the  group  parts  involved  in  order  to  take  the  whole  task  or  job  to  great  success.

 

9)  Give  credit  when  due,  NEVER  blame:  When  something  goes  right  or  when  somebody  achieves  something,  then  is  time  for  the  leader  to  give  thanks  and  credit  to  that  person  in  the  mastermind  group  session,  in  public;  besides  being  good  for  the  person  praised  after  a  good  job,  this  deepens  values  in  leadership  itself  and  designs  vast  connection  platforms  in  which  to  build  stronger  partnerships  based  on  higher  morale.  If  something  is  missing  or  somebody  for  some  reason  does  not  get  the  job  done,  withhold  blame  and  all  negative  reactions,  do  not  create  embarrassment  in  the  other  person,  because  stating  your  disappointment  or  anger  does  not  help  but  it  only  belittles  the  value  of  people,  and  it,  too,  creates  anxiety  and  a  defensive  attitude;  furthermore,  to  increase  their  value  and  boost  all  productivity  always  think  clearly  and  think  emotional  connection,  so  help  in  whatever  they  need,  and  help  in  the  dissection  of  mistakes  in  a  gentle  and  professional  manner  in  order  to  learn  from  those  mistakes  and  study  their  specifics.   

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Mastermind (PART 3)

“Nothing  in  this  world  can  take  the  place  of  persistence.  Talent  will  not:  nothing  is  more  common  than  unsuccessful  men  with  talent.  Genius  will  not;  unrewarded  genius  is  almost  a  proverb.  Education  will  not:  the  world  is  full  of  educated  derelicts.  Persistence  and  determination  alone  are  omnipotent.  ~ Calvin  Coolidge;  lawyer,  politician,  governor,  and  President  of  The  United  States.


This is PART 3 of a short series of blogs on Mastermind  Leadership from a book I am writing, titled:  “Inner Wealth.  Outer Wealth.,” which deals with the spiritual, mental, and physical processes of all success achievement in life.


–Earlier, or in yesterday’s blog, I talked about Collective Mastermind and further specifics on forming a promising team which thinks and is driven like in your road to success.

I mentioned, among many other things, that if  you  want  others  to  feel  comfortable  around  you  and  work  by  your  side,  then,  there  is  no  other  way.  Human  beings  accomplish  more  and  greater  things  when  they  work  together  towards  the  same  goal. 

Now, A little bit about persistence in the mastermind as the greatest organizational tool of the true and wise leader.

Greater  organization  is  persisting  through  it  all. 

You  must  always  have  in  mind  that  you  have  now  made  the  most  important  decision  of  your  life,  which  is  to  continue  in  the  path  to  success,  which,  to  be  an  earnest  and  heartfelt  decision,  should  be  based  on  discipline  and  deep  love.  Discipline  to  stay  the  challenging  path  to  success,  and  deep  love  to  regard  your  vision  as  sacred.  Nothing  exalts  the  mind  of  man  more  than  an  ambitious  and  sincere  goal  founded  on  pure  love  for  the  development  of  his  vision,  and  nothing  attracts  success,  in  all  facets  of  the  human  experience,  more  than  an  ambitious  and  sincere  man  with  goals;  so,  it  goes  without  saying  then,  that  attraction  quality  living  in  the  realm  of  the  invisible  cannot   remain  if  the  man  with  the  ambitious  and  sincere  goals  has  weakened  and  lost  his  way.

As  we  mentioned  in  chapter  1,  “The  most  destructive  and  wicked  force,  and  the  most  creative  and  beautiful  force  as  well;  therein  lies  all  human  power,  all  human  achievement  of  good  and  evil,  the  mighty  height  of  your  Higher  or  Lower  Consciousness,  your  hidden  genius  or  your  chosen  mediocrity,  your  self-destruction  or  embraced  immortality.  Because  it  all  depends  on  you,  and  just  on  you.”  The  key  then  is  to  recognize  the  conscious  mind  as  just  a  tool,  and  not  let  it  design  fear  and  confusion   out  of  the  challenges  you  will  encounter.  This  is  the  greater  organization  of  your  mind,  which  evolves  into  steely  persistence,  because  in  recognizing  the  conscious  mind  as  just  a  tool  then  you  become  wise  and  resilient,  able  to  withstand  the  blows  coming  from  life’s  challenges  and  the  so-called  “failures”  you  may  encounter.

You  do  have  to  make  perfectly  sure  that  your  own  mastermind,  your  own  mental  planning  and  analysis  of  the  way  to  your  vision,  and  to  develop  that  vision,  is  unflawed  or  as  best  it  can  be  as  a  process  of  evolution,  because  this  is  the  grand,  dynamic,  powerful  foundation  which  will  serve  to  build  on  and  motivate  you  further,  or  keep  you  motivated  and  pumped  up  whenever  negative  things  or  thoughts  appear  in  your  experience.  Challenges  in  life  will  only  make  you  stronger  and  wiser  to  your  goal  if  you  have  a  strong  and  organized  foundation,  but  if  your  foundation  is  weak  and  disorganized  then  they  will  depress  you  and  bring  you  down  with  the  first  blow;  so,  like  the  professional  boxer  before  the  grand  fight,  you  have  to  visualize  the  opponent  beforehand  and  analyze  his  form  and  style,  then  you  can  understand  the  mindset  you  must  espouse  in  order  to  be  prepared  to  resist  the  blows  or  even  to  get  back  up.

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Many  men  around  the  world  never  achieve  great  success,  even  though  they  might  be  extremely  talented  and  clever,  because  of  that  very  fact,  they  neglect  the  condition  of  mind  they  have  to  adopt,  they  do  not  visualize  the  challenges  and  issues  which  could  rest  in  wait  for  them;  but,  what  they  are  good  at  doing  is  visualize  the  ultimate  goal  of  their  desire  and  none  of  the  blows  they  could  receive  on  their  path,  and  that  brings  the  mind  to  a  constant  illusion  which  also  weakens  their  decision  and  forms  subconsciously  so  they  fall  hard  on  the  ring  mat  when  things  do  not  go  as  planned.  When  things  go  wrong  or  not  as  you  planned,  do  not  panic  or  feel  down  like  a  sheep,  be  calmed  and  collected,  tame  your  unruly  mind  and  take  charge  like  a  lion,  go  back  and  analyze  your  plans  and  if  you  need  to  change  them  or  tweak  them  a  little,  then,  do  it. 

No  real  man  achieves  great  success  in  any  function  by  giving  in  to  stress  and  fear,  or  by  letting  life’s  challenges  and  seeming  setbacks  belittle  him  and  his  efforts;  however,  you  need  to  incorporate  into  your  very  biology  this  universal  law  right  now,  that  the  harder  the  challenges  presented  in  your  life,  the  more  you  will  receive  from  the  universe  in  terms  of  success  if  you  remain  strong  and  resilient  throughout  those  hard  challenges.  After  those  challenges,  you  will  stand  tall  and  mighty  to  get  your  rewards,  and  you  will  be  a  new  man,  wiser,  more  confident,  more  powerful,  stronger  of  mind  and  body.  Persistence  is  just  that,  not  letting  anything  come  between  yourself  and  your  vision  for  success.  You  are  the  driver  and  the  one  being  driven,  and  you  have  to  visualize  the  route  you’ll  take;  so,  if  you  take  a  bad  route  in  spite  of  your  good  planning  and  efforts,  do  not  fret  and  become  a  victim,  take  a  rest  for  a  moment  and  plan  a  new  route,  and  again,  and  again,  until  you  have  mastered  the  meandering  road  to  success.

Let  us  take  as  an  example  Milton  Hershey,  founder  of  the  famous  ‘Hershey  Chocolate  Company,’  which  really  embraced  the  mastermind  process  and  became  persistence  itself.  Mr.  Hershey  left   school  in  the  fourth  grade  and  worked  as  an  apprentice  for  a  printmaker,  but  that  did  not  work  and  soon  he  was  fired.  He  then  became  an  apprentice  to  a  candy  manufacturer  in  Lancaster,  PA,  where  he  studied  and  practiced  the  skill  of  making  candy  for  about  four  years.  Full  of  confidence  and  motivation  then,  he  started  his  own  company,  who  soon  failed.  Not  giving  in  to  stress  and  fear,  he  started  another  company,  which,  regardless  of  his  planning,  it  failed  again.  But  he  had  become  the  very  heart  of  persistence  by  now,  so  he  dust  himself  off  and  continued  by  building  another  company,  which  did  not  succeed  either.  Seeing  that  the  companies,  located  in  Philadelphia,  Chicago  and  New  York,  he  had  worked  so  hard  to  build  had  not  given  him  the  success  his  heart  deeply  desired,  he  went  back  in  his  mind  and  came  up  with  new  ideas  and  better  organization  of  his  vision. 

He  then  moved  back  to  Lancaster  and  initiated  the  ‘Lancaster  Caramel  Company,’  but  now,  with  his  own  caramel  recipe  added,  it  became  finally  a  success;  however,  he  was  a  visionary  and  a  true  leader,  so  he  knew  that  the  future  and  the  greater  opportunity  for  him  rested  upon  chocolate-making  (because  the  Swiss  owned  that  delicacy  and  he  wanted  to  innovate  it  here  in  the  U.S.),  so  he  sold  his  caramel  company  for  about  (what  would  be  considered  in  today’s  currency)  $26  million  and  started  the  famous  and  extremely  successful  Hershey  Chocolate  Company.  And  so,  as  you  can  tell  from  this  great  man,  not  only  did  Mr.  Hershey  persist  through  the  many  blows  life  gave  him,  but  he  also  did  it  at  home  and  helped  embellish  and  strengthen  the  very  spirit  of  his  vast  community  by  creating  hundreds  of  jobs,  by  building  churches,  houses,  and  schools;  thus,  he  became  cemented  as  a  true  legend  and  hero  for  many  in  Pennsylvania.

Henry  Ford,  for  example,  designed  extremely  great  success  and  prosperity,  not  because  he  possessed  a  higher  intellect  than  you  or  anybody  else,  but  because  he  created  his  own  mastermind,  individual  and  collective,  and  so  organized  his  ideas  through  real  commitment  and  persistence.  Persistence  in  the  face  of  adversity  is  key  to  accomplishing  everything  you  really  want  in  life.  See,  Mr.  Ford  knew  that  he  wasn’t  the  most  qualified  and  educated,  cunning  and  talented,  person  in  the  world,  but  he  never  let  that  weak  fact  bring  down  his  vision  and  passion  for  success;  for  he,  like  Hershey,  had  something  most  men  with  better  education  and  higher  intelligence,  and  even  money  for  a  smoother  business  ride,  did  not  have:  PERSISTENCE.

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Tomorrow, PART 4 of Mastermind Leadership, about delegating, its importance in all growth, and its extreme organization.


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