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Weightless

🌹What is love?? What is a life well lived?? What is happiness and Joy?? It is you and me. It is us. Because there really exists nothing else. But the mind makes all these obstacles, and it manifests the fears it carries. How does it manifest them?? It all has been the same from the beginning of mankind.

🥀By making up a god and gods. By making up devils and demons. By creating limits and impossibilities. Your mind says you are not enough. And then, the flower does not bloom. The sun does not shine. Love has turned to fear. Nothing feels right in our lives.

🌧So, you feel broken, undeserving, unattractive, alone. And you feel like an outsider, like something is wrong with you, like others have it right and you don’t. That way you feel, the details of the burdens you carry, is the illusion that is unique to you.

💗But if you can just detach yourself from the fear, let go of the doomsday scenarios, you can then become weightless and free. You could bloom like a flower, and the sun could always shine on you.

🌞It does not matter what happens in the world, to others, to what is around you, your life can be magic if you transform your mind from within. Many know this. Just a very few actually become free and detached from their illusions. Each moment, you, and only you, decide who you want to be.

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What we observe

Mainly it is what we observe that affects us. A healthy brain works as it is supposed to work, if there is no genetic abnormality. But what we observe forms our minds, our mindsets, our thoughts. If we observe poverty, that is all we can imagine for ourselves. If we observe neglectful, painful, dramatic situations in our lives, then that is all we feel we deserve in our lives.

It’s very difficult to transcend this level of unawareness for most people. It is what we form in our minds. What we see and hear form what we think. And, if we remain unaware, we create a belief from what we see and hear. A belief that may drive us to despair, to feelings of loneliness, to feelings of unworthiness, and even to more mental and physical decay.

So, it is all what you allow yourself to create in your mind. These creations as explosions of rainbow colors will take over your mind and body. They will become your world, and they will cement your new persona. You are always changing, whether you realize it or not. So, your new persona, the way you feel, think, see yourself and the world will be brought about by the schemes of your own mind.

The way you feel, the way you are, how stuck or unstuck you believe yourself to be, is not about God, or about Satan, or about the government, or about how messed up the world is; but it is about you and how you allow your mind to form. The power goes where your attention goes.

If your attention goes to other people, to the way things are in your life right now, even to spiritual worlds, then the power stays there, outside yourself, and you always remain down, a follower, and just another victim trying to survive your own making. But if you use your attention to create your own mind, without outside crutches, then you raise above your old self, above the world and any influence.

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Giving up??

It’s about perspective…

Giving up can bring us feelings of inadequacy and failure. It sometimes can become our go-to pattern, even in other aspects of life. But sometimes you just have to stop and observe yourself, your path, your desires, what is really important to you and what is not.

Because sometimes you just have to broaden your perspective of things, analyze a new path to take, see what is really worth your time and effort. If you look at it carefully, without any bias in your mind, then you may question yourself, your feelings and intentions, the intentions and influence others have on you.

It’s about what is better for you…

This is quite liberating. It is about the discovery you, and only you, make. No noise. No pressure. Just you in the center of your life, taking your time, and doing things your way. Most of the time, what truly works, what makes you feel empowered and liberated from stress, is doing things your way.

And doing things your way, creating your own perspective and purpose is what your mind needs to fall in love with yourself and with your life. No one out there knows what is better for you but you through self-reflection. There is no truth but perceptions. God and Satan are real, if that is your perception.

It’s about observing

A particular political party over the other carries the truth, if that is your perception. The Earth is flat, if that is your perception. You can never achieve more, if that is your perception. This is right and that is wrong, if that is your perception. Love is perfect, if that is your perception.

But perceptions are ideas, ideals, thoughts and feelings either created by you or by another. So, from time to time, it is very intelligent to stop and observe your own perceptions and let go the ones you carried for most of your life. See it as your mind cleaning itself.

It’s about change…

Perceptions must change, because life is a constant cycle of change. Whatever stays still is useless, creates burdens, heaviness, suffering, dissonance, and attachment. So, one must always change, learn, see things differently, and evolve with each day that passes.

The ones who change, and allow themselves new perspectives to go along with this change, are the ones who will succeed in life, will be in love, and will be truly happy. The idea is to form perceptions that are truly yours, not carry burdens from others or created by others. This is the only path to liberation in life, and one that cannot be taught to you by anyone else.

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Self-Analysis

A Little Tough Love

I guess it is easier and more convenient for many of us to complain, to victimize ourselves, to blame society for our troubles. But, to be straightforward, it is not the smart thing to do. You know me, guys. I don’t like to sugarcoat anything. I have suffered a lot in life, so I have learned much discipline for myself as a very happy consequence.

I am tough with myself, so I am the same way with my writing here. And this mental toughness led me to write uniquely my fantasy stories. (By the way, feel free to check out my books in this site, so you know what I’m talking about). And so, let’s see, we all have desires, passions, goals. Maybe we are decided. Maybe not so much. But the smart way is to start and never complain. To keep going.

There is no failure

How to keep going?? By getting out of your own head, by shaking yourself and changing your mental habits, and by blaming only yourself for your path in life. It might sound harsh, but it is required to be tough with ourselves to stop focusing on others and shift that focus onto ourselves. Anyone can do anything, with patience, with commitment, with love for what you want. This is an unwavering love that makes no excuses and that believes not in failure. Ever not in failure.

We don’t really fail, we learn and move on. So, remember that. It is all perspective. Loser believe in failure. Winners believe in lessons learned. We, winners, move on and keep creating, keep working, keep taking small steps towards our goals. It is about you, about commitment to yourself, about feeling good about you and your character. Self-victimization takes us nowhere. You want power?? Then keep going without complaining. It is what I do, so it is what I know works.

How You Become Stronger

If you are going to do it, do it with passion and perseverance. Make sure that is what you truly want. Envision obstacles and challenges first. Imagine yourself going through heartache and disappointment. Ready yourself for whatever the future may hold. For this, use your imagination and intuition.

In this way, you will become stronger and you will not give up easily. And so, you will go on because of you, because you are stronger of mind now; and you will also understand that the government, and all the people, and all the events around you do not matter in your unique story. Because only you matter.

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Self-care 101

Take Responsibility

A little tough love, because the truth might hurt your ego now; but only this brings true freedom, which is increased capacity for love and happiness. The world around you does not understand what love and happiness is. They do not understand where it originates either. But why should you remain one more amongst the sheep and ignorant??

So, the way we show ourselves care, love, empathy, and commitment to our own well-being is not just by desiring it. It’s by taking action and getting out of our comfort zones. You research for food that is healthy for you. You avoid buying foods that are unhealthy for you. You commit to exercise and you make it your priority.

Stop with The Excuses

You must put yourself first and dedicate time for these activities. Ignore commercials trying to sell you what is not healthy. Ignore what your family and friends eat. Ignore what the world shoves in front of you as bad influence, because your health and happiness is only something you create by personal/individual action.

You cannot blame, or put the responsibility on others when it comes to this. This might sound harsh to you, but as long as you keep seeking excuses, or even postponing it, you will not become truly self-aware. Self-awareness begins inside you and it is about getting rid of your stubbornness, comfort, and ignorance. Accept and live the truth.

Get rid of all your bad habits. All of them. Study your actions and see what you have to change. Do not dwell on it. Do not overthink it. Because, if you do, then excuses will take over and kill the light of intelligence dawning in your mind. And, think about it, it is not just about you; but it is about giving the best example to the ones you love. Are you still making excuses??

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A new year

The Start of A New Venture

Hello, good people:

For long now I have wanted to expand my reach in terms of side hustles, and even hobbies, to which I feel passionate and proud to give my time and effort.

So, because I am a customer as well. (Because who doesn’t like good items at a discount!) I have opened my own Ebay store.

And I have chosen the name “ASA’S SELECTIONS”, because it is simple and goes straight to the point, obviously.

(It’s not a puzzle, right?? My name is Asael, and also I choose the items. Hence “ASA’s SELECTIONS”)

Please check it out below.

Right now and for a few more days, most items 15% Off:

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The Only Way

Seeking Our Worth

Relationships are difficult. Life is difficult. But, as I see it, it doesn’t have to be. People hide things from each other. People fear being themselves. People judge others based on their past experiences–past hurt and otherwise. We all do this at some point in our lives. The worst we can do is try to make up excuses for it, or even deny it.

And, I have been there as well, where sometimes one feels unworthy, or depressed about how things are going in life, or somewhat afflicted by society and by the pressures of it. Maybe finances are down. Or something very personal affects us in a way that makes us feel negative in terms of who we are. And I think this comes due to seeking our worth in the exterior.

Falsity in Exterior Pursuits

How others are doing. The latest fashions being worn. The greatest techs. Examples from celebrities and what not. A sure way to lose our identity in the vast sea out there. But we are really meant to discover ourselves, which is the only purpose in life. Forming relationships, family, kids, our jobs, money, career, traveling, etc–it all comes second because these are just exterior pursuits.

And why are these exterior pursuits?? Because, as great, noble and pleasurable as these are, these cannot bring true happiness. They are tethered to the roller coaster of life. One day we can get all we want and be joyous. Another day everything brings us down because it doesn’t result as expected. The rate race, in a manner of speaking. Great experiences, but the wrong place to seek happiness.

The Truth About Happiness

Because happiness is something we are always in control, because we choose it. It is not chosen based on our relationship satisfaction level. It is not chosen based on how much money we make or the life we can afford. And it is definitely not based on the success we have in society–in any of its terms. Happiness is of our minds. Happiness really is a mindset. Your life can be in shambles.

People do not like you. You hate your job, your boss, your hours, your pay. Still, you choose to be happy and contented with your life currently. You try to excel at something you like. You pursue your passions with all your might. But you don’t complain and make excuses in your mind. Keep your mind negativity free.

Physical Health is First

Then you train your mind to always be happy. Now, I am not saying is easy. Obviously it is not. But, that’s what it takes to be truly happy. Self-discipline. Promise yourself that no matter what happens around you, or outside you, you will choose to be happy. There is no more than that really. Self-love. Of course, you must watch what you eat and be healthy.

If you feel sick, in physical pain in any way, then it’ll be almost impossible to keep that promise to yourself. When we are physically sick or in pain, then our minds become full of tension and anxiety. In this chaotic mind, we cannot choose positivity and happiness. So, be kind to yourself. To your body and mind. And no excuses–do that favor to yourself.

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Your unique direction

Igniting action

The more frustration, complain, fear, anxiety in general our mind carries, the more we tend to make bias and wrong choices. And life is all about choices, because choices ignite action; and like this, action creates our direction in life.

Our financial system, our spiritual life, our mental and physical health–all about direction. You cannot just wish health, and good finances, and love, and happiness. No, you need direction to obtain all of it in life. We all need to find our own unique direction.

Discover beyond it

So, do no fall into the mediocrity taught by religion from the beginning of times, that if you have good intentions and you pray then everything will turn out great. Leave your ego aside. Detach yourself from your old ways of thinking and believing.

Discover yourself and life beyond religion, beyond prophets, beyond other people, beyond what society says. Find your unique direction in life by shifting your attention and time to learning things that can get you where you want to be.

Relevant information

Maybe for you that means spending less time on social media. Perhaps it means to learn something new and lose your fear of something specific to you. But, whatever it means for you, seek to fill your head with good and relevant information.

In this way, you can discover new things, expand your mind, and be able to make better choices in the many aspects regarding your direction in life.

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About falling in love

Let it go, beautiful. The worries. The fears. The insecurities. And all that weighs you down. Nothing is as bad as the overthinking mind makes it out to be. Love the new colors, enjoy the new tastes, and appreciate the excitement your heart feels.

Leave the past behind. After all, who you were and what happened to you is gone. Dear, be kind and fair with yourself; evolve and create yourself, your life, your world now.

Listen to your heart, not to your mind and the anxiety it creates. Be patient and carefully analyze how you feel, what you feel, what you really want and how to get it.

And if you look inside and some pain still lingers there, do not run away from it. Do not judge it. Do not make yourself a victim. Twist that pain, mold that pain, and build steps with it in order to grow and empower yourself.

Sometimes we chain ourselves. Sometimes we live in desperation. Big mistake that slowly withers the soul and kills the will to live. So, rise above this, step out of your mind and see what is out there. Expand your horizons, your chances for happiness.

The heart wants what it wants, just make sure it inspires you and frees you from any anxiety. Darling, life is about loud colors, and extraordinary tastes, and wonderful excitement, and all that which wakes the rebel in you.

Because it’s all about that beautiful rebel, the one who dares love again and again, the one who sees the chains and manipulations out there, the one who changes things instead of letting things change them.

And when you fall in love, make sure you stay there. And when you find someone that inspires you to love yourself, vanish all your fears and insecurities to make room for them. Love the new colors, enjoy the new tastes, and appreciate the excitement your heart feels.

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Just a choice…

To me, love is not something in particular, or something that you need to chase related to money, relationships, social status, religion, or anything else like it. Love is a state of mind, a constant view in life, a daily choice you make without any influence from the outside world.

TO LOVE…

How do you love somebody..??

You don’t chain yourself to a dream.

You don’t chase the water’s reflection.

You don’t hold back the thrills of your heart.

So how do you love somebody…??

Like a bright candle lit out at night.

Like a happy kid who plays and plays.

Like colorful flowers beautifying the fields.

Because to love is first to live your life fully.

Because embracing life is the essence of love.

I love you because I live daily to discover life.

I love you because I find daily the beauty in life.