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What love is…

Our self-talk. Love starts from our self-talk. Love is an essence of respect and inspiration toward yourself first. It is about the way you think and feel about yourself. It is about letting go from the hurt, from the failures from the mistakes; because you must feel good about yourself first.

Self-inquiry

How do you treat yourself…?? Do you tell yourself that you will do better?? Do you inspire yourself?? Do you allow yourself to leave the past hurt, humiliations, anger you carry?? Do you seek the simple, everyday things in your life to keep you motivated?? I ask myself all this in order to shift my attention to myself and to how I feel. If I have a rough or difficult day, I need to focus on myself and feel better/motivate myself.

The beauty of the heart/The beauty of true love

Once you are filled with this love for yourself, your heart then swells; and you feel inspired, strong, ready to love others. And this leads you to great, successful relationships in your life. Love is only true when it comes from a place of self-respect and abundant joy in you. This means that in order to truly love another, without neediness, without anxiety, you must be filled with this love yourself first. Not easy sometimes, but worth it %100.

Seek the beauty of the heart

And when you seek beauty in yourself and in others then, seek the essence of this love. Empathy, respect, joy in yourself and in others. All these traits speak about love. Whoever has these traits can give love, care, kindness, trust, loyalty. And when it comes to real relationships, we all desire to feel these; because these are pure and they speak of honor and truth. It is my true wish then that you find these in yourself first; thus it becomes easier to find it later in others.

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Reconnecting.

Nothing is more hurtful and it brings more anxiety to your mind than to hold on to the past, to the loss, to the tragedy, to the injustice, to what did or did not happen. How can someone possibly be happy like this…?? No, you can pretend; but you can never truly be happy attached to your past. This is very personal, but at some point in your life journey you must stop your stressed, anxious and stubborn mind to see this, to acknowledge that you cannot heal if you feed your addiction to what happened.

Your path to healing is one of love, but you cannot fight yourself and struggle in the process; because if you do, you are just widening the gap between unhealthy and healthy. Widening the gap is to resist to healing, because you are attached to whatever hurt you, or to whatever you allowed to hurt you. This is what intensifies the hurt or the chaos in you. Can’t you see this…??

So, it is about reconnecting with yourself, with your happier self and the one part in you which is not attached to the past. You are responsible for this reconnecting. You can feel you need it. And in order to achieve it, you must detach from the old to build the new. We always talk about love, but love cannot truly exist in your mind if you remain attached to the hurt, to the loss, to the struggle.

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To know intimacy.

 

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So is your mind.

 

The lack of deep and intimate relationship with your own nature is what makes you want to seek out there–seek philosophies, seek religion, seek God, seek validation from people, seek love, seek happiness, etc.

To know your nature is to be content, without seeking anything, and truly knowing that you already have everything you need.  Loss of intimacy with life results in trying to find answers, meanings, purpose for God, for your existence, for your emptiness.

Intimacy is to know yourself in deep, it is to go beyond the petty desires and conflicts of your mind.  Your mind is always seeking, attaching itself to ways of life, religions, and to human creatures close to you.

Leave your mind, because your mind does not know intimacy in life; and you must become intimate to truly love and be happy without addictions and dependencies to your outside.

 

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Neutrality.

 

Remove all expectations, demands, fixations, attachments to life, to people, to the future; and this will actually bring true harmony to your mind, freedom, and it will attract all that which is good and nurturing for your development.

If you seek someone, then stop seeking, direct your mind to something else, work on yourself, free your mind from the burden of obsession; and so, it shall be that whenever it happens it will happen for you with someone especial and which cares.

If you desire happiness, do not seek it, free your mind from this nonsense. Happiness is not a goal, is not an outcome of something, is not a byproduct of an activity; but happiness is in you, and you can only experience it if your mind stops seeking it and turns inwardly to truly feel it.

Success or failure must not stress your mind.  Things happen in life, period.  When you accept this, you become a magnet for positive vibrations which attract likewise.  When you do not accept this and fill your mind with obsession to seek and obtain, you become frustrated, anxious, and a magnet for the same.

Learn to be neutral in life.  Do not expect, obsess, and put all your energy into a desired outcome.  Do not deny what you want either, have desires but do not be attached to them.  Flow with what is, adjust to whatever happens, work with what you have right now.  That way your mind is free and clear, insightful and intelligent.

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