Neutrality.

Remove all expectations, demands, fixations, attachments to life, to people, to the future; and this will actually bring true harmony to your mind, freedom, and it will attract all that which is good and nurturing for your development.

If you seek someone, then stop seeking, direct your mind to something else, work on yourself, free your mind from the burden of obsession; and so, it shall be that whenever it happens it will happen for you with someone especial and which cares.

If you desire happiness, do not seek it, free your mind from this nonsense. Happiness is not a goal, is not an outcome of something, is not a byproduct of an activity; but happiness is in you, and you can only experience it if your mind stops seeking it and turns inwardly to truly feel it.

Success or failure must not stress your mind.  Things happen in life, period.  When you accept this, you become a magnet for positive vibrations which attract likewise.  When you do not accept this and fill your mind with obsession to seek and obtain, you become frustrated, anxious, and a magnet for the same.

Learn to be neutral in life.  Do not expect, obsess, and put all your energy into a desired outcome.  Do not deny what you want either, have desires but do not be attached to them.  Flow with what is, adjust to whatever happens, work with what you have right now.  That way your mind is free and clear, insightful and intelligent.