Category: Self-help life truths.

Know that all motivation comes from within, so do not seek it without.

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Just a choice…

To me, love is not something in particular, or something that you need to chase related to money, relationships, social status, religion, or anything else like it. Love is a state of mind, a constant view in life, a daily choice you make without any influence from the outside world.

TO LOVE…

How do you love somebody..??

You don’t chain yourself to a dream.

You don’t chase the water’s reflection.

You don’t hold back the thrills of your heart.

So how do you love somebody…??

Like a bright candle lit out at night.

Like a happy kid who plays and plays.

Like colorful flowers beautifying the fields.

Because to love is first to live your life fully.

Because embracing life is the essence of love.

I love you because I live daily to discover life.

I love you because I find daily the beauty in life.

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True freedom

What is true freedom…??

Keeping the peace in your mind is the most important thing you can do in your life. A calm mind brings trust, insight, confidence, self-control, great creativity, the capacity for great joy, and it helps you stay grounded and see new possibilities.

Facing life can be daunting, it can make you insecure, it can bring you overwhelming overthinking. And freedom is not really in more money, a great relationship, a religion, or anything else. Freedom is the capacity to create your own joy, in your own mind, without any influence from the exterior.

This sounds easy to comprehend, and it is. Not so easy to apply in your own mind, every day, without excuses. Still, if you really think about it, it is crucial to feel love, happiness, and reach success in life. A peaceful mind leads you to make less mistakes, and it leads you to accept yourself, others, life, and all experience as it is. That is true freedom.

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Being in Love

So, why not ‘Being in Love’ instead of ‘Falling in Love’?? Falling in love there is a chance you may also fall out. Whatever you fear, makes you feel shy, or anxious in any way, has also the capacity to strengthen you, make you feel accomplished and joyful. It’s all in your mental approach.

Denial of the fear, trying to escape how you feel, distracting yourself while ignoring the signs. All this closes your mind, makes you stubborn, does not help you feel better, and so love becomes a distant thing you chase.

So, what do you do?? You become your own detective. You stay with yourself, observe yourself, what thoughts you have and how they come and go. You become aware of the self-pity you carry, the fear, the excitement, and all the anxiety (good or bad).

You don’t do anything about it. Just be present in the details. Soon, just by observing, you’ll find out how silly and ridiculous all your doubts and fears were. You’ll figure out that you have created this pessimistic world in your mind.

And when you become aware then, your mind expands; and you love more, and feel more capable, and see your true value. And now you are finally becoming awake for the 1st time. And, as you know yourself like this, you start understanding people, the world, and why things happen the way they happen.

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Two Become One

What is a Given

In this life, nothing external is a given. You never know what will happen, or how it will happen. It’s important to know that your mind, your desires, your wants are not facts for the future.

But there is something in you that is a given, if you allow yourself to discover it. This something has always been there, in you, even when you felt hurt and lost for so many years.

What is Wholeness

And it is something that has to be separated from all the influence coming from the exterior–from your family, from your religion, from your philosophies, from the dreams and machinations of your own ego, etc.

A person, doesn’t matter how sweet and nice, cannot be whole if there is fear, or doubt, or any obstacle in your mind stopping self-discovery. To discover yourself is to free yourself from the chains of society, of the world.

What is Infinite Intelligence

You may see and feel yourself flowering when you fall in love. Truly in love, without desperation, without anxiety, without fear of rejection. Only then, when you find yourself, you may find someone else in the same path.

And so, now you can be 100% sure is true love. This is to truly discover yourself in another, not just due to attraction; but due to the Infinite Intelligence awakened in you, which is called Oneness/Wholeness/Two that become One.

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How life gets better

Accept it

Failure is just another concept. Failure is just another belief. Failure is not real unless your mind gets attached to it. The only way you do not succeed is if you ignore the lesson in life.

Whatever it is, accept it. Keep going. Try and try again. Do it not attaching yourself to an outcome.

But do it learning in each moment. If you do accept the lesson, however painful, however small it might be, then you can expand your understanding and better yourself.

How life gets better

And that’s how life gets better. Because that’s when and how things start working out for you. When your mind expands in understanding. When your mind does not deny.

When your mind is not overwhelmed by anxiety anymore. That is when life gets better; and love, blessings and happiness start pouring in. I know this from personal experience.

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The Heaviest…

Denial

There is something heavy upon the soul who seeks self-improvement, love, happiness, freedom to be him/herself. There is such a thing as judging yourself based on your past, based on who you were, based on the burdens you may carry.

This is not self-love, but self-denial. Denying who you are. Ignoring who you are to remain attached to who you were. This denial is the heaviest burden, because it is deceitful. You are a moment in evolution, this moment.

Just observe

Life is moment after moment after moment. You are but one moment, which means the only burden guiding human beings to failure is the attachment to the past. You were is gone. You are is now. You will be is about who you are now.

There is no burden like this one, the one your mind creates and brings upon you making it real. Just observe who you were, smile at the experience whatever it was, and detach yourself from it. How??

Detach yourself from it by loving who you are now, which means forgiving and letting go who you were. Because the only freedom you can get lies in the you who is now. The person you are now cannot remain tainted with the person who you were/with all the screaming remnants from the past.

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The exploration

When there is true love

When there is true love, there is a way. Where there is true love, you transform your fears into great possibilities.

When there is true love, you seek no excuses for change. When there is true love, you open yourself to the mystery and to the new that lies ahead.

All about mindset

Love must be an exploration in you, something that gives you freedom from the chains of the past, from the chains of old habits and traditions, from the chains of self-victimization and prejudice.

You cannot change everything in your life. You cannot control everything around you. But you can choose to love, because love gives you a positive and optimistic mindset, because that is what you need to attract better things into your life.

What changes you

Everything has a ripple effect. Kindness and compassion, that feeling born from choosing to see the positive and the good side of things. This will change you.

This will change the way you see and experience your life. This will transform you into a magnet for better things. Through patience, faith and commitment all is accomplished.

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Initiating change

Find the Strength

Overthinking is what creates confusion and fear. Change must be an act. Don’t think about how hard, or how strange, or how challenging it will be. But find the strength in your heart, not in your mind.

I know from personal experience that one must initiate change without analyzing to death every scenario that could or could not happen. The intellectual mind has no chance of self-fulfillment.

This overthinking cripples you, it makes you find excuses, it strengthens your ego to create biased “logic” to keep you chained to old habits. You really go nowhere like this.

Act on It

Love and happiness is in you, but is known through a mental expansion, an open-mindedness, new perspectives and experiences. You only find these when you welcome and initiate change in your life.

Needless to say, nobody knows for certain what the future holds, because it is a creation based on choices you must make now. New, bold, challenging choices that lead to great change. More than dreaming it, acting on it.

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A New Way

The easy path

It’s easy to remain the victim. It’s easy to harden your heart. It’s easy to hold on to the pain, the sorrow, and to the injustice of the past. It’s easier to lock yourself and hide from what’s new and unknown to you.

Because you instinctively seek self-preservation, don’t you?? Yes, the mind has a way to seek the easy path, to stay on what you know, and to mask your pain. It is a vicious cycle that consumes you and your life.

The discovery

Unless you break that cycle and take off your mask by welcoming the unknown into your life. That’s how you evolve, progress, and discover yourself. You cannot do it by choosing to stay safe in your cocoon.

Love, if true, is a discovery. It moves you from within. Then it moves you from without, in your choices, in your actions. It moves you to do new things, to challenge yourself, to create a new path that may scare you a bit.

The Courage that comes…

Yes, a new life that you, deep inside, really want but feels overwhelming right now. And it is why true love, true happiness, requires courage. This courage comes not from analyzing and thinking obsessively.

No, this courage comes from new choices, new actions, from letting go of your past, letting go of the fear, letting go of the intellectual persona you always adopt to mask your pain.

A new mind

Letting go you discover so much more about yourself, about who you really are. Believe me, nothing is as beautiful as freedom. To be able to let go and not take yourself and that pain you carry so seriously all the time.

The truth is that your mind is useless if it is allowed to hold on to memories, because discovering a new life, a new love, requires a new mind, a new mindset. So, open your mind and your heart to the mystery, to the unknown, to the new in life.

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Your own cage

Freedom

Think about this. Think freely, without crutches or bias. After all, freedom is what matters in this life. Without it, obviously, you are just living a lie, pretending just to fit in, disrespecting yourself and losing yourself. In losing yourself, you distance yourself from you and from what you seek.

People that feel like they need to hide the truth, lie, cheat, pretend, have no freedom. They desperately seek it, through sex, through many ideology groups, through exaggerated romantic gestures; but this is their cage, over and over again.

Purpose

And they never understand why it is their cage. They certainly fail at life. And they fail because life is only a period created in existence to discover your humanity, your mind, your heart. That is the only true purpose of life.

That purpose being an inner discovery, and the rest is just a choice, thrilling or not, to play games created by your own anxiety. The anxiety that comes from not understanding life’s purpose and why you have a mind and a body.

Games

Who gave you the mind and the body you have?? How to use them to find that freedom/that love and happiness you seek?? How to create your purpose and leave a legacy on this earth??

The games of the mind brought by your anxiety. Games that make you act out. Sometimes you’re the victim of another anxious person who plays games. Sometimes you’re the anxious one playing these games on another, maybe without knowing.

Everybody wants to take a look in the mirror and learn/better themselves/leave the games for the sake of a better humanity. But most never do, keep failing and failing. In order to not fail though, obviously, you have to actually change the way you do things–the small, day-to-day things. So, think about what this actually means.