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Anatomy and physiology of life Business mind. Self-help life truths. The free mind of a human god!

Giving up??

It’s about perspective…

Giving up can bring us feelings of inadequacy and failure. It sometimes can become our go-to pattern, even in other aspects of life. But sometimes you just have to stop and observe yourself, your path, your desires, what is really important to you and what is not.

Because sometimes you just have to broaden your perspective of things, analyze a new path to take, see what is really worth your time and effort. If you look at it carefully, without any bias in your mind, then you may question yourself, your feelings and intentions, the intentions and influence others have on you.

It’s about what is better for you…

This is quite liberating. It is about the discovery you, and only you, make. No noise. No pressure. Just you in the center of your life, taking your time, and doing things your way. Most of the time, what truly works, what makes you feel empowered and liberated from stress, is doing things your way.

And doing things your way, creating your own perspective and purpose is what your mind needs to fall in love with yourself and with your life. No one out there knows what is better for you but you through self-reflection. There is no truth but perceptions. God and Satan are real, if that is your perception.

It’s about observing

A particular political party over the other carries the truth, if that is your perception. The Earth is flat, if that is your perception. You can never achieve more, if that is your perception. This is right and that is wrong, if that is your perception. Love is perfect, if that is your perception.

But perceptions are ideas, ideals, thoughts and feelings either created by you or by another. So, from time to time, it is very intelligent to stop and observe your own perceptions and let go the ones you carried for most of your life. See it as your mind cleaning itself.

It’s about change…

Perceptions must change, because life is a constant cycle of change. Whatever stays still is useless, creates burdens, heaviness, suffering, dissonance, and attachment. So, one must always change, learn, see things differently, and evolve with each day that passes.

The ones who change, and allow themselves new perspectives to go along with this change, are the ones who will succeed in life, will be in love, and will be truly happy. The idea is to form perceptions that are truly yours, not carry burdens from others or created by others. This is the only path to liberation in life, and one that cannot be taught to you by anyone else.

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Winning at Life

If you love yourself

Friend, if you love yourself truly, you don’t sit and wish. And if you love yourself truly, you don’t observe others and envy what they have. And if you love yourself truly, you don’t victimize yourself and pretend you deserve better.

Life in society is a struggle, physically, mentally, and for any of us. So, complaining to yourself, telling yourself that you suffer more than others, is what becomes your weakness, your only enemy. Because, dear friend, if you love yourself truly, you get rid of the excuses and change your own daily habits.

You get rid of the excuses

But you must be patient, committed to your goals, and focused on the healthiest choices in each moment to get the best out of you. The best actions will transform your mind, and accordingly transform how you see life. And winning at life is all about how you see life.

Are you complaining and still making excuses?? Do you think luck exists and blesses others but not you?? Are you worried about what the future holds for you?? Take control of your life by growing in better habits. Give a better example. Love yourself. Build your best life. Create your own existence.

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When it comes to love…

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When it comes to love

It can feel like walking on water or air, so free and inspiring. But how do people know real love?? Because it is not exciting, or passionate, or something that goes low and then high, or something that makes you go crazy.

All this is the fulfillment of a need in you. You were depressed before, felt lonely; and now you found attraction, someone you like, and you confuse this exciting and new event in your life with true love. Is it true love though?? How sure are you??

When it comes to self-awareness

Sadly, the average human being, or most of us, are needy and always seeking fulfilment outside of us. So, if I don’t find it outside me, then I cannot feel loved and happy. And, if I do find it outside me, then I feel so loved and so happy.

This is very narcissistic, selfish, truly short in self-awareness; but it doesn’t sound like this to you, I’m sure, because it is how most of the world live so it is the “normal” way. But, the truth being, that it is all about making use of self-awareness in this life. Self-awareness will tell you if it is true love, true happiness.

When it comes to all pleasure

Self-awareness is like calming, never-ending waters in a vast ocean. So, when you meet someone, or when you sleep with someone, or when you marry someone, seek within your mind this self-awareness, this calming water.

Seek beyond any excitement, passion, sexual or emotional fulfillment. For us to find the truth, self-awareness, the real answers, we must go beyond the fulfillment or pleasure we feel. Fulfillment and pleasure are fine, but they are just superficial events.

When it comes to really knowing life

It’s like the agitated waters in the ocean. This agitation is not the true state of the waters, too much motion and things going on to really experience the majesty of the waters. It might be exciting, but it has to end at some point.

So, always seek self-awareness, beyond the superficial things you think and feel. Seek the peace. If you’re patient enough, the peace, the calmness, will speak the truth to you about love, happiness, and about all the things you experience in life.

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Anatomy and physiology of life Business mind. Self-help life truths. The free mind of a human god!

Breaking free from the “normal”

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I’ve been on the other side, which is the side of attachment and self-neglect. When I was looking to fit in and to be like the rest, seeking their approval, seeking to belong to a group of thinkers, believers, philosophers. We all seek this when there is no knowledge of self. We seek to belong and to feel part of others and of what others do, and this quite often becomes an obsession, a corruption as we become more like others and lose our uniqueness. Most of us fall into this, because we cannot be with ourselves. We might feel empty, not worthy by ourselves, like something is missing; therefore, we look to others and to think like them.

We really are different and unique, each one of us; however, by trying to be like others, by following a belief, a philosophy, a behavior which is not truly ours we become distanced from ourselves and from our uniqueness. The world is full of people who seek an identity outside themselves, in a crowd, in culture, in tradition, in religion, in politics. This brings them more emptiness and loneliness. Happiness is in discovering yourself, to stand on your own, to lead your own thinking and feeling, to create better behaviors based on your uniqueness. Trying to copy others dulls the mind, and it makes the emptiness, the frustration, the loneliness stronger in you.

There is nothing more important in life than to be and feel whole, to discover ourselves by taking care of ourselves. Don’t focus on others, on what philosophers say, on what religions say, on what groups of people (whoever these groups are) say. Life is about being happy, and to be truly happy one must learn to think for oneself. There is no normal. We are all different. Think for yourself and don’t seek to copy the “normal” offered by society, by your family, by politics and religion. Nothing will make you whole, able to feel successful and happy, unless it is your own unbiased thinking. Forge your own path. It works for me. It will do so for you as well.

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