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  • Life can beats us hard.  Our minds can fall into dark thoughts.  And nothing might seem to us to go as expected.  This can happen to anyone of us, right…??  Life can be a roller coaster of emotions, pulling us here and there.  But, having said that, the character of a person shines through actions.  You fall, you get back up.  You don’t complain, because if you complain then negativity begins to fill your mind, and then feelings of self-pity and defeat overwhelm you.
  • It is simple, not easy; but simple.   It is all about character in life, because life in itself has no meaning; but you put a meaning to each moment you live.  And how you do this…??  By growing a strong character in myself.  If I have a strong character, then failings and challenges won’t affect me.  I will see this as a way to better myself.  This eliminates any self-pity.  But you must increase your character daily, strengthen yourself and your resolve daily.

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Beyond 1,000 Sorrows.

 

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So, pain, suffering, challenges, any traumas we may carry, are important in the formation of our character.  You forge steel by extreme heat, and the same is with our characters–we must explore our pain to rise up and forge ourselves to be steel, to learn and be stronger in life.

But, even so, many people get addictive to pain, to their own traumas, to their own chaos lived in the past; in a sense, they are unconsciously choosing their own fate, how they feel and how they will experience their lives based on their addiction to their own pain.

This is getting lost in your pain, and this is why people live in their nightmares and feel depressed, or feel worthless, or feel neglect, or feel a void deep inside.  Be honest with yourself:  Is it rational to make your pain, your hurt, your troubles, your whole life and the way you feel…??

To reach healing, to prosper in all aspects, to truly feel happy and with opportunities to create a better life for yourself you must not drown in your sorrows; but you must see that your pain is to be cherished and felt as a source of energy you can turn into strength to move on and create beauty from it.

What you seek in life is not found in your pain, but it is indeed found using your pain as energy to be positive and create better things for yourself.  Drowning in your sorrows is an unconscious addiction and obsession which is not healthy in your life; so you must let it go.

 

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