Even with our loved ones. We cannot truly love if we do not love being alone with ourselves without anxiety. Without envying the love in others. Without resulting to desperation to possess others.
It is the whole point in my book, “I Always Loved You – Creatures of Eternal Love.” And it is also something I have very clear. Attachment is just a desire born from a lack of self-love.
Attachment is the need to belong and to possess, thus stealing the freedom from someone else and from ourselves. You might say ‘easier said than done.” But unless our minds agree to actually change, our behaviors will be the same always. It has to be about self-development, self-improvement.
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