There has to be a sense of dignity and honesty in all you do, from talking to yourself each moment to going to work hours and hours. It does not matter what it is you do, it must originate from a positive and proactive place in your mind.
If your full attention and heart are not in it, then you will start to hate the task; and you will complain and begin to bring some negativity into your life. And then things will get worse.
Because when your mind starts dwelling in the ugliness, in the negativity, in the drama of something in your life, then your whole experience in all aspects will get tainted, poisoned; thus, your persona will become affected, your choices will become affected as well.
Love is the deep connection that you need in all things you do; no excuses, no overthinking it, just make yourself see something useful in each activity you engage.
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