The way I see it, you must learn from others. If you judge others, then you’re missing the point. When you judge others, you imagine that they have your experiences and same ability to choose what you would choose; but this is almost never the case. We are all different. We have all been raised differently. Different habits. Different perspectives. The best one can do is learn from the mistakes and the perspectives of others. Because we are all different, for better or worse.
Focus on growing yourself, and on pushing yourself to be better. Don’t waste your energy and time on complaining and judging the behaviors of others. So many people complaining, getting angry, blaming others; and all their time is gone on this, while missing the point. The point is making yourself better. The point is becoming more and more self-aware. The point is looking inwardly and not outwardly. In life, we are born to discover ourselves as better human beings; and that can only be done if we look into ourselves, into our thinking, into our feeling, and then learn from all of it.
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