Boyfriend – – Asa Rodriguez

The lesser man

There is never a good reason to cheat. Cheating, concealing the truth, not being honest, is all about fear of losing control, fear of confronting your own failures as a man and thus your deep-seated unhappiness. It’s the greatest weakness of the lesser man. The lesser man is the man who lacks self-awareness and chooses to blame others for his inner turmoil and lack of understanding.

If a woman is loved right

And so, if your woman lacks self-care, if she does not offer the same attention, if she changes her demeanor towards you, by this you will know this is because of you and the way she feels you treat her. It means your own daily habits as the man are lacking as well. If a woman is loved right, she becomes fused by the man and she gets influenced by his superior and loving habits.

See, it’s a matter of self-respect, so the man becomes better mentally and physically; and when his woman sees this, out of pure love, she becomes like him. In a relationship of commitment and intimacy both, man and woman, resemble each other, whether they want to or not. In time, as they live together and share a life, the subconscious of each starts to self-program and resemble each other’s programming. No more, no less.

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Better than a lover can.

So, love, that force which connects us all, the essence which makes us at some deep level realize that we all know each other from before, is a given; however, it is the mind of likes and dislikes the one that separates us and finds excuses to believe that we do not belong together.

So, when it comes to romantic feelings, our minds choose to see the negativity or the positivity in the relationship. The behaviors of a person could bring either that negativity or positivity as well, but we choose if to give those behaviors real importance or not. And it is a very personal decision.

Still, one must be able to keep the mind of likes and dislikes in peace and clear from any anger and anxiety in order to judge if to forgive those behaviors or not. Most of the time, people tend to jump to conclusions and judge immaturely and impulsively, without patience, without stepping back and observing the whole picture.

To do this, to step back, breathe and calm yourself in order to make the right decisions, one must be not just the significant other, the lover, but also the friend who understands and supports. Friendship, unattached and understanding, is vital to make any relationship work, specially a romantic one.

A friend can see your flaws and weaknesses and understand you better than a lover can. A friend cares enough to sit down quietly and listen without judging you. A friend gives you the space and the time you need to develop yourself intellectually and emotionally.

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