You know yourself by the honest feelings behind your daily actions, not by the voicesin your mind. You know others by seeing their actions yourself, not by what others have said of them.
You may listen to the voices in your head, which are influenced by the gossip and opinions of others, and this may even make you feel like you can judge or know a particular person; however, this is not so in reality, because you can only know a person by actually knowing that person and the way they behave.
Your imagination, calculation, ideas, thoughts about someone, are just baseless and ignorant even if you have heard about such person; unless you actually talk to that person and know that person’s feelings and behaviors.
Being quick to judge is one of the big mistakes which lead people to ruin any possible relationships or advancement in relationships of any kind. Have you ruined any possible relationship like this…??
Wars, racism, prejudice, intolerance and much more exist due to not really understanding one another, and so judging based on what someone says, on someone else’s deed, or in the past of that particular person.
There is no ethical and moral compass in this deluded behavior of the egoistical mind. In judging people without actually knowing them no integrity exists in you.
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