- I was the type of person who would easily get attached to outcomes, seeking always to control and come out on top; but I learned that life does not want to be controlled, instead one must align with life. What is that mean…?? It means to befriend life, to go with it and not against it. If we seek great understanding, then we shouldn’t try to force ourselves into learning. One must just flow. The mind should be harmony and clarity. Anxiety just makes things worse.
- And the same goes for any other achievement in life. One become a magnet for opportunities, for love, for happiness, as character develops. And character develops when we let go of control, complaints, and outcomes. This is to lead yourself, and it is to become confident in yourself as you align with the heart of life.
I’ve been on this journey for long to finally understand that our minds create our lives and every experience we have. I know we can all better our lives by individual self-development and spiritual understanding. Check out my self-help books to enlighten yourself and others.