No one lives a perfect life. There is always some aspect which troubles the mind. And so, it is the mind the one which must be tamed and not allowed to make things worse than they really are.
Wisdom is to see this, to observe how your mind reacts to situations, to what he/she said, and to what it says about yourself. You must realize this and rise above your own struggle.
Do not wait for things to be perfect, or for situations in life to be exactly as you want them to be; but keep moving forward, adapt to your current life as it is, and become better and better.
You keep on rising and leaving your past behind. That is what you have to do. Control your mind, allow harmony to guide you through life, and so think clearly how to keep on going.
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