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Just a Formula…

Freedom & The Formula

While love is an essence of freedom outside comprehension, one must understand that everything starts with the attraction the brain creates. I must understand how to attract you, how to charm you, how to treat you in order for a relationship to work.

In this sense, it is a purely mechanical formula. I am myself, but I know how you think and feel; therefore, I can see a way to create the attraction in a way relatable, or recognizable, to you. This formula then requires great empathy in order to project myself and feel what you feel. You must then do the same.

Grow it Like a Muscle

From then on, we can feel each other’s experience; thus we merge. What we call Oneness. Then a recognition, that love is not a magical essence. But love follows attraction/this formula. As long as we attract each other, love will be there and free us.

If love then is to flourish and stay in our hearts, the formula must stay too. Don’t let yourself go. Love is everything the brain recognizes as love. This love must grow, be strengthened like a muscle. Nothing is a given. Pay attention to detail.

Say it & Make it Remain

Work on your body and mind. Care about your intelligence, your health of mind and body. Grow in empathy. Be tactful with the other one’s feelings. Respect your own feelings. Work on becoming attractive in all aspect, to you and to your partner/or to the one you seek to attract.

You only deserve, and will get, what you understand how to attract. This core value/fact is true for everything in life. Say with meaning: ‘I Will Love You For Ever’ or ‘Until Death Do Us Part’. But, understand, love will keep us happy and free in the relationship as long as the attraction remains.

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Let it flow naturally

Women and men. We are not so different. In the sense that we all seek to be acknowledged and accepted for who we are. That is how affection and all love grows in any relationship. We accept each other as we are, without judgment, without playing games.

When 2 people meet, the games should be let go. In order to grow we must be vulnerable. In order to truly be ourselves and connect we must let ourselves be ourselves, without trying to impress and pretend to be someone we are not.

Let yourself be authentic

I have been guilty of that in past relationships. I am not proud of it, but I sure have learned from making those mistakes. Sometimes it becomes this game of trying to sound smoother, more intelligent, super cool, and even more attractive, as we see it, for the other person. But this is actually hurting our chances. The other person is looking for authenticity, for someone real.

There are too many fake people out there, trying hard to be another person; so it’s very unique and refreshing to be really who you are, being mature enough to leave these childish games others play. This mature behavior not only makes us more attractive, but it also strengthens our character in all aspects of life.

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