gaslighting – – Asa Rodriguez

Deceptions of war

Below is a photo of World War 1, of an observation post disguised as a tree. It tells you that in war, deception is the main tool used. Wars are about power, control, about competing to win at any costs.

Most times, all this starts as seeking freedom and justice (in the deluded mind of government officials); but as the war starts people loses all meaning of freedom and justice (love), and they only see winning and showing superiority over others instead.

Also in relationships

It’s kind of interesting to think that when a person lacks character in a relationship, he begins also to use deception, cheating, lies, gaslighting, all forms of dishonesty like in a war.

The mind of the person gets so narcissistic that he starts playing the games of competing and controlling. Because the person lost all meaning of love by now. The loss of love makes us irrational, violent, bullies, inhuman, just like war. Something to think about.

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Let them know of your worth.

No woman is worth your frustration over her games. And no man is worth your humiliation because he’s immature. Life is about an honest relationship with yourself. Seek self-respect first.

It is certainly about becoming aware of your own worth. When you become aware of your own worth, you don’t get needy, clingy, and always trying to satisfy another person’s desires in search for their validation.

And this can happen to anybody. The truth is human beings can have great empathy and seek to fit in, which is good; however, it can become an obsession so big that we forget that the most important relationship is the one with ourselves.

Self-respect. Life is the journey to always focus on you and discover your true worth, make your habits to always better yourself and increase that worth, and let others know that you have value and take the necessary steps to keep that value.