Understanding her journey
Pay attention, men: She won’t say to you how much, or how severely, she has been hurt by a past flame, a past relationship. A man was talking about how strange a woman he likes was acting, and it made me think that most of us men oftentimes ignore what women do not really tell.
See, most women tend to emotionally invest a lot in relationships, and as most men are not mature enough they hurt them. The average man tends to mature by his 40s. The average woman by her 30s. The way genders are raised in most cases.
What it takes
So it takes patience and understanding for a woman to see herself and find how special she really is again. The process is not so easy when your heart’s been broken and your dreams crushed. I like to think of the line in the movie ‘Notting Hill’ – “After all, I’m just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her .”
She was a famous and rich actress in the movie. He was a simple worker in a bookstore. But it doesn’t matter her beauty, her fame or riches, because a woman deep inside just wants to feel loved. After all, the greatest gifts nature has bestowed upon women are their beauty and empathy.
Patience and dedication, men. If you find her worth to pursue, if she truly inspires you, give it all your patince and commitment. Be a real man, give her freedom and time to find herself. That’s all love is–freedom to discover yourself.
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- Asa Rodriguez - 