It is all part of it.

• Don’t belittle yourself because of your loneliness.  Don’t fear the memories of abuse or loss.  Know that life, its very essence, is about this.  We all need it in order to rise and carry the glory of self-development.  And self-development is the inner realization that makes you desire to be better, to evolution into excellence.

• So, the suffering, the heartache, the neglect, those past mistakes and burdens you carry.  It is all part of your journey.  You might hate it, but it is necessary.  The important thing is to understand that all this requires your observance, so you learn and use it as stepping stone to move forward and stronger than before. 

I’ve been on this journey for long to finally understand that our minds create our lives and every experience we have. I know we can all better our lives by individual self-development and spiritual understanding. Check out my self-help books to enlighten yourself and others.